I know it hurts.  And I know that the pain, the anger, and the frustration can get you to act... more

So, what DO you do when apathy strikes?  It might be YOUR apathy.  But more likely, it will be your... more

Have you ever been sucked into a situation or argument, then realized your actions were not what you wanted? There is... more

“It’s your choice,” I reassured her.  It was a call I picked up between sessions.  The person told me she... more

I wish this only happened every now and then. Imagine, for a second, that someone is working on saving their marriage. ... more

One more argument.  One more struggle.  They sat on my couch, facing each other down as opponents in some contest... more

Fears. They can certainly derail us humans! But what about relationship fears?  Just those basic fears and insecurities that we all... more

Games should be fun.  But the games we are talking about today are NOT fun. These are patterns of interaction and... more

Is your marriage crisis marked by heated arguments or cold distance?  Hot or cold? Are they really that different?  Or is... more

Maybe your spouse has been saying, "This is ALL YOUR FAULT!"  Or maybe it is just you... wondering... torturing yourself...... more