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Life is full of challenges and moments that test our limits. It's not just about getting through them, but growing... more

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Your driving style might reveal more about you than just your skills behind the wheel. It’s just a theory— but... more

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Have you ever looked at a situation in your life and thought it was the worst thing that could happen,... more

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Sometimes, the pain we feel isn't just a symptom of physical injury but a complex interplay between our body and... more

Pain is more than just a signal; it's a complex experience that intertwines with our nervous system in ways we're... more

Sometimes, it's the most straightforward activities that hold the most profound benefits for our mental, physical, and emotional well-being. And... more

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Navigating the complexities of the corporate world can be overwhelming, especially when trying to balance personal goals and professional demands.To... more

Have you ever paused mid-sentence, grappling to find that perfect word that seems to have just slipped your mind? It's... more

The fresh start of a New Year often brings reflection and setting intentions. Whether you're setting official New Year's resolutions... more

Life's journey is much like laying down train tracks, without always knowing when or how the train will ever use... more

Life throws challenges at us, often making us question our own resilience and strength. But what if I told you... more

Do you ever feel a deep sense of loneliness during the festive season? It's a common experience, yet sometimes that... more

Have you ever wondered how to stay balanced and stress-free during the holiday frenzy? The season's joy is often mingled... more

Life sure has a way of  pushing  us  to  our  limits at times. Those moments can really show us the... more

Listening is an art, a bridge for understanding, and the foundation for effective communication. It also comes in more than... more

Imagine, you’re at a party talking to someone new, only to realize you’ve just been nodding along to the conversation,... more

I’m sure that at one point or another, you’ve looked in the metaphorical mirror and wondered how past traumas in... more

Have you ever looked around your home and felt drowned in clutter, only to shove those feelings aside, unsure of... more

“Move on." "Get over it." "Rub some dirt in it." Sometimes the world around us can make us feel like... more

Ever found yourself in a situation where you just can't recall someone's name, even though you've met them multiple times?... more

I know people that are truly kind to everybody that they meet. They never speak a word of ill against... more

Our health is vital to every other aspect of our life—from our mood to the things we’re able to accomplish.... more

**Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions about suicide.**When someone loses someone they love to something as tragic as suicide, it... more

**Trigger Warning: This episode contains mentions of suicide.**Have you ever found yourself unsure of how to approach the serious and... more

The state of your nervous system could be the key you’ve been looking for to a flourishing marriage!This week on... more

Have you ever felt like a ship lost in a stormy sea? In this episode, I reflect on the powerful... more

Following last week's episode featuring the first half of my conversation on The Concussion Coach podcast, we continue the conversation... more

In this special episode of Building Resilience, you’re going to hear Part 1 of my conversation with Bethany Lewis that... more

Whether it's an episode of "This is Us" or a commercial with a sad-looking dog, one thing's for certain—I'm a... more

Ever question how your nervous system impacts your role as a parent? The resilience of our nervous system, its ability... more

Have you ever been struck by the sheer wonder of a sunrise or the overwhelming beauty of a piece of... more

No life is going to be perfect—but the kicker? We wouldn’t want a perfect life even if we could get... more

How many times have we overlooked the beauty in our lives because we were simply viewing it through the wrong... more

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Have you ever wondered what it takes to not only maintain a marriage, but to make it flourish? My husband,... more

Ever found yourself lost in someone else's pain, unsure where their feelings end and yours begin? In this episode, we unpack... more

How does the legacy of a loved one shape our lives, even years after they're gone?It’s now been 20 years... more

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Being spread too thin is a common condition in today’s world—and saying “yes” to everything is a common occurrence. That’s... more

Ever found yourself unable to put your feelings into words? Or felt overwhelmed by emotions that seem to have a... more

As adults, sometimes we lose the magic of play—when we’re kids, it’s effortless, and it almost seems like we can... more

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Did you know that the way you breathe can greatly impact your stress, anxiety, mood, and even your lifespan? Discover... more

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If you could go back in time and give your younger self some advice, what would it be? In this... more

The stories we tell are truly the way we perceive the world. We’re in control of them….MOST of the time. In... more

Are you caught in the Drama Triangle, playing the roles of Victim, Persecutor, or Rescuer? In this episode of Building... more

Struggling with sleep deprivation and eager for more solutions? In this second part of our sleep series, we delve deeper... more

There's a daily box we have to check that's crucial for our overall health and wellbeing. It seems easy, but... more

Are you someone who struggles with perfectionism? Do you find yourself constantly critiquing yourself and others around you?In this episode... more

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We all face stressors in our lives, and they come in many shapes and sizes—both external and internal. When we... more

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When bad things happen, it can be easy to feel like the world is out to get us. It can... more

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I love analogies. They can help us understand concepts and learn things using the knowledge we already have—and I've got... more

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You might say I'm a proponent of mind control. To be clear, the mind is your own—but trust me, it... more

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"I wake up to another day filled with anxiety. I've been dealing with morning anxiety for a while now, and... more

As parents, we have a lot of jobs. Keep our kids safe, make sure they're fed, make sure they're educated,... more

Jocelyn Patten has lived for many years with serious mental illness. Touching on depression, anxiety, and schizophrenia, Jocelyn gives a... more

Even though we all know lying isn't good, many of us are guilty of the odd lie. However, it may... more

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I'm a big reader, and every once in a while I come across an idea or a book that I... more

One thing I talk about all the time (because I truly believe in it and do it myself!) is the... more

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Usually, when you hear someone like me say the word "validation", you probably already think you know what I'm about... more

I get a lot of questions from you, my lovely listeners—so I've decided to do a couple of question and... more

I get a lot of questions from you, my lovely listeners—so I've decided to do a couple of question and... more

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The other day I came across a quote: "Don't take criticism from someone you would not go to for advice".... more

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When you hear the word "pain" you probably instantly think it's a negative. And while pain is never going to... more

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Death. It's one of those things that will affect every single person on earth at some point. Whether it's your... more

As a life coach myself, I feel like it's important to get back to basics with some of my clients.... more

One of my favorite guilty pleasures (alright maybe not so guilty!) is the show The Amazing Race. It has made... more

It's still Brain Injury Awareness Month in the United States, so I thought we'd share some additional information about concussions.... more

In a bit of an unexpected episode today, I'm going to talk about concussions. Stick with me—it's going to be... more

So many of us spend a lot of time and energy on talking down on ourselves. Fortunately, a lot of... more

Imagine you got asked to do a new project at work, and imagine it causes you a lot of stress... more

We've all heard the famous quote "whether you think you can or can't, you're right". While that's a little over... more

For us parents, being a parent takes up so much of our physical energy and time, but also our mental... more

What is the difference between a life coach and a therapist? Are coaches trained as much as therapists? What about... more

A manual sounds like a pretty handy thing to have—to help you troubleshoot your washing machine or fix your phone.... more

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When some people think of the phrase "Self Care", they have images pop in their head of bubble baths, manicures,... more

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The phrase "I don't know" is a tricky one. It can both be something that's okay to admit, and a... more

Today I've got the privilege of interviewing Betsy Jensen—a body and mind life coach. She helps people connect with their... more

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When we think about future self and all of the goals we want to achieve, we tend to look at... more

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Today we are lucky enough to have Holly Bertone, PMP, CNHP as our guest—#1 Amazon bestselling author of the book Thriving... more

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10-10-10. Three numbers, but also a life tool to help you make decisions differently and proactively—by deliberately considering their consequences... more

Everybody loves some good alliteration and abbreviation, which is why we've brought you today's episode—The 3 P's! These three "p"... more

In our last episode, we talked about six different mind traps—this week, we'll talk about even more (there's a reason... more

SNAP! Just like a mouse trap, a thinking trap lures us in and before we know anything is wrong, Recognizing... more

If you've been listening to us long enough, you'll see that we are constantly saying our thoughts are 100%. Sometimes... more

When it comes to your emotional and mental health, it can be hard to even know where to begin to... more

On today's podcast, we're going to be talking about grief. We couldn't pick someone better to talk about it than... more

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This is an exciting episode for us, because it was based on a book that we refer to all the... more

Since 2020 rolled around, there has been a lot of talk about the concept of "languishing". If you haven't heard... more

Since experts have been establishing such strong connections between the gut and the brain, it makes sense we wanted to... more

We've all felt overwhelmed before when we have a lot going on at once in our lives. Thoughts like "I'll... more

Sometimes the word "stress" can be used to describe things that are going on inside of us, like our thoughts.... more

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Do you like peaches? Believe it or not, there are people who do not like peaches. You can be the... more

"You can search the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than yourself. And... more

How many times do we say "I feel anxious", but we're not really sure why? Anxiety is an emotion, but... more

Mindset. We've all heard the word, especially in a self improvement setting. But what does it really mean? A mindset... more

The inner critic. The super ego. The Mean Girls. The concept has many nicknames but they're all the same thing—that... more

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Have you ever been in a relationship where someone constantly criticizes you?Maybe they say you're not tall enough, thin enough,... more

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Contrary to how it might feel, we get to decide how we act. If someone says something offensive to us,... more

We used to think you can't teach an old dog new tricks. However, we now know that, while children are... more

As we've discussed, your mind is a powerful thing—but so is your mouth (or rather, what comes out of it).... more

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Not feeling your feelings keeps you safe. That works in the short term, but when we run from them, sometimes... more

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If you asked everybody what their life's goal is, many people would say "to be happy". But what does "being... more

The Equation of Life is a framework based on multiple different philosophies and psychological discoveries which we can use to... more

Our human brains are very complex and we're still trying to figure them out. Different parts are good at some... more

So many decisions we make put us at a crossroads. The good news? Since we're humans, we have the final... more

And now, for the title of this podcast: resilience. It's the basis for making your life not just about making... more

We all go through thousands of experiences every day, each one open to interpretation. Your teenager left their shoes on... more

Awareness is one of the most important tools in your life toolbox. It's all about knowing yourself—being acquainted with yourself,... more

Trauma and adversity look different for every person. Loss of a loved one, divorce, PTSD, sexual abuse, basically anything imaginable.... more