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Hotter Than Ever
Hotter Than Ever
Erin Keating

Why are we so scared of change? The second half of your life can be happier, sexier and more fulfilled, but... more

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Episodes

Your Body Image Has Something Deeper to Tell You with Deb Schachter

“ Body image is an individual sport and it's healed in connection.”If you’re a woman, chances are you’ve had a moment... more

19 Dec 2024 · 55 minutes
How to Take a Career Break and Avoid Burnout with Laura Nguyen

Have you ever felt the urge to hit pause on your career without walking away entirely? Or maybe you’re ready... more

12 Dec 2024 · 1 hour,
What It Takes to Open Your Marriage with Dr. Joli Hamilton

“Release yourself from the idea that your relationship needs to fit into anybody's box.”Have you ever wondered if you and... more

05 Dec 2024 · 1 hour, 6 minutes
Saying Yes To Inspiration with Daily Show Co-Creator Madeleine Smithberg

“Don't let fear put you out of reach of your dreams.”As the Thanksgiving and holiday season unfolds, it’s natural to... more

28 Nov 2024 · 1 hour,
Getting Unstuck with Deanna deBara

“A period of stuckness always precedes a period of serious growth.”So many of us find ourselves grappling with the overwhelming... more

21 Nov 2024 · 54 minutes
How To Manage Career & Personal Change with Dr. Keri Ohlrich & Kelly Guenther

Is entrepreneurship truly a solo journey, or would you rather start a business with a friend?  For Dr. Keri Ohlrich... more

14 Nov 2024 · 1 hour, 8 minutes
Nurturing Your Intimate Relationships with Vanessa & Xander Marin

“Sex isn't really worth having without vulnerability.”Sexuality and intimacy can be sensitive topics, especially in long-term relationships. But what if... more

07 Nov 2024 · 48 minutes
Producing Your Best Life: Movies and Motherhood with Feigco's Laura Fischer

If you’ve ever wondered why stories of women in midlife are so rare in movies and TV, you’re not alone. ... more

31 Oct 2024 · 1 hour, 1 minute
Straight Talk About Libido Over 40 with Dr. Maureen Slattery

Ever wondered why some women experience low libido and what can be done about it? Or what orgasms look and... more

24 Oct 2024 · 54 minutes
How Do you Measure your Value?

"I think our value and our values get all kinds of conflated and mixed up."We often hear about self-love and... more

17 Oct 2024 · 27 minutes
How Astrology Just Might Help You Succeed with AstroTwin Ophira Edut

“Astrology is a tool, not a rule. And when you use it as a tool, it can expand your power,... more

10 Oct 2024 · 52 minutes
Exploring Non-Monogamy and Getting Kinky with CJ

“How much fun can we have and what is that going to do for us as we age?”In this milestone... more

03 Oct 2024 · 1 hour, 6 minutes
What The Golden Girls Teaches Us About Aging Well with Dr. Maria Carpiac

It’s no secret that our culture often presents aging in a negative light, particularly for women, leaving many of us... more

26 Sep 2024 · 59 minutes
Getting Practical About Money

As “Hotter Than Ever” nears its 100th episode, we’re reflecting on the impact this podcast has had since launching a... more

19 Sep 2024 · 27 minutes
Finding Success in Business and Love in Your 40s with Osea's Melissa Palmer

If you’re searching for proof that our most successful chapters can unfold in midlife, look no further than Melissa Palmer,... more

12 Sep 2024 · 52 minutes
Men, Divorce, Anger and Designing Our Ideal Lives with Producer Erica

“I’m in a phase of my life where I want to f*cking shine. I do not want to shrink.”Sometimes we... more

05 Sep 2024 · 59 minutes
How to Light Your Brain Up with Pleasure with Dr. Nan Wise

“We need to understand that pleasure is not a luxury—it’s a necessity for sending good signals back to the brain.”When... more

29 Aug 2024 · 1 hour, 4 minutes
Making Room for Women's Voices in Hollywood with Melissa Silverstein

If you’ve ever paid attention to female representation in Hollywood or the push for more women filmmakers in entertainment, you’ve... more

22 Aug 2024 · 57 minutes
After The Rubble: Inventing Your Next Chapter with Producer Erica

“I want you to know what your options are at this point in your life.”In this special episode, we’re breaking... more

16 Aug 2024 · 57 minutes
Everything is a Love Problem and Only You Can Solve It with Sheri Salata (Re-Air)

As part of our ‘slow roll summer’ on Hotter Than Ever, we’re revisiting one of our favorite early conversations with... more

08 Aug 2024 · 42 minutes
Inner Beauty and Aging in Hollywood with Makeup Artist Molly R. Stern

In a world where beauty standards are constantly evolving and societal pressures can feel overwhelming, makeup artist Molly R. Stern... more

01 Aug 2024 · 51 minutes
Getting Good at Handling Change

“The job of life is to get good at change, because it never stops.”Why do so many of us resist... more

25 Jul 2024 · 19 minutes
4 Ways That Covid Changed Absolutely Everything with Lori Hamilton

“I'm striving for excellence, but I'm not pretending to be perfect anymore.”The Covid-19 pandemic was a watershed moment of change... more

18 Jul 2024 · 52 minutes
Juggling Creative Careers and Motherhood with comedian Ophira Eisenberg

Navigating modern life as a working mother and a creative professional is no small feat. In this episode, we dig... more

11 Jul 2024 · 1 hour,
Your Authenticity is Your Secret Weapon with Kim Rittberg

“Every single person is special, but most of us are too afraid to show up in the world and let... more

04 Jul 2024 · 53 minutes
How To Attract Epic Love with Lilli Bewley

"It's in vulnerability and self-love that we find our true strength."If you've been tuning into Hotter Than Ever, you know... more

27 Jun 2024 · 54 minutes
Advertising for Women Over 40, Made By Women Over 40! with Katie Keating

Despite the fact that women make 85% of household buying decisions, the majority of women over 40 report feeling largely... more

20 Jun 2024 · 48 minutes
Advice: How Do I Juggle Dating Several Guys at the Same Time?

“Are you being compulsive and chasing that dopamine hit of likes and matches like you're one of Pavlov's dogs?” Dating apps... more

18 Jun 2024 · 11 minutes
Why We Need Adult Sex Ed with Dr. Kelly Casperson

For many women who’ve never had an orgasm, it’s easy to feel like there’s something wrong or that they’re broken,... more

13 Jun 2024 · 54 minutes
Advice: Should I Give This Guy a Second Chance?

Getting your needs met is hot. What’s not hot is when your emotional or physical needs (or both!) are neglected. ... more

11 Jun 2024 · 18 minutes
How to Feel Less Exhaustion and More Joy with Victoria Albina

“It's only when we come into the body that we can start to see our thoughts.”In the age of the... more

06 Jun 2024 · 57 minutes
How I Learned to Flirt

Are you a natural flirt, or do you consider yourself clueless when it comes to flirting or recognizing when you’re... more

04 Jun 2024 · 14 minutes
Choosing Mediation over Divorce When You Know It's Over with Paulette Rigo

Half of marriages these days end in divorce, but did you know that 73% of divorces are initiated by women?... more

30 May 2024 · 55 minutes
'The Idea of You' is Midlife Rom Com Candy

“Thank God for representations of real sex on screen.”A 40-year-old woman and an unbelievably hot 24-year-old man get together for... more

28 May 2024 · 12 minutes
How To Have Hot Sex for Life with Susan Bratton

It’s no secret that many women don’t enjoy having sex. But the problem isn’t the women: it’s the sex we’re... more

23 May 2024 · 57 minutes
Vulnerability Is So Hard!

“I am willing to take on the uncomfortable feelings that it takes to be vulnerable. Are you?”When you’ve been raised... more

21 May 2024 · 13 minutes
You're Not Too F***ing Old! with Jen Marples

“You're worthy of the life that you can envision for yourself.” When Jen Marples found herself unable to muster the energy... more

16 May 2024 · 51 minutes
My 52 Year Old Body

“My health, my well being was the catalyst for all of the radical reinvention that I am talking about here... more

14 May 2024 · 29 minutes
Are You Wired to Love a Narcissist? with Michelle Roberts PhD

Have you ever found yourself in a relationship with a narcissist? Or maybe you were raised by one? Whatever the... more

09 May 2024 · 59 minutes
Surviving Singles Events IRL

“I want you to take action towards what you fantasize about.”On Hotter Than Ever, we've delved deep into the world... more

07 May 2024 · 35 minutes
Lonely At Work? How to Build Community and Connection with Ann Shoket

“Loneliness is the thing that's keeping women from rising and I don't want to see that anymore.” As part of her... more

02 May 2024 · 48 minutes
Advice: How Do I Make Time for a Sexual Awakening As A Single Mom?

“You can be a good mom who is available to your kids and who is also experiencing a sexual becoming.”Starting... more

30 Apr 2024 · 12 minutes
Sexual Coming of Age in the 90s with Tracy Clark-Flory

Tracy Clark-Flory’s sexual exploration  began at the age of 12, when she ventured into AOL chat rooms, seeking to discover... more

25 Apr 2024 · 51 minutes
Advice: What Do I Do If I Can't Get Divorced For Logistical Reasons?

Sometimes women get stuck in a marriage that is no longer working, but they’re unable to break free due to... more

23 Apr 2024 · 8 minutes
How to Really Feel Your Feelings and Heal From Grief with Meghan Riordan Jarvis

"Unresolved, unprocessed grief really lays a heavy tattoo inside your system."With more than two decades as a seasoned psychotherapist, Meghan... more

18 Apr 2024 · 1 hour,
Advice: Dating Again After a Bad Breakup - What Do I Need to Share About It?

“Share information about your breakup with the new people in your life whenever it feels right”Breakups are universally painful, regardless... more

16 Apr 2024 · 8 minutes
How To Buy Essentially Nothing with Elizabeth Chai

“You don't find fulfillment in material things”You've heard the advice to "buy less" or "consume mindfully," but have you ever... more

11 Apr 2024 · 49 minutes
Advice: Help! I'm SO Distracted By Sexy Apps (But I Love It)!

“It really changes our lives when we give ourselves permission to have all the pleasure we deserve.”Are using dating apps... more

09 Apr 2024 · 20 minutes
Dishing About Domestic Labor with Eve Rodsky

“How can I be the breadwinner and also the one who knows the name of my child's dentist?”When Eve Rodsky... more

04 Apr 2024 · 1 hour, 3 minutes
Rethinking Modern Motherhood & Reclaiming Our Bodies with Amanda Montei

Amanda Montei's fascination with understanding motherhood started long before she became a parent herself. However, it wasn't until she embarked... more

28 Mar 2024 · 54 minutes
Advice: How Do I Approach Sex After 33 Years With My Ex-Husband? With Dr. Juliana Hauser

Nothing gets us more excited than witnessing one of our listeners burst back onto the dating scene after a long... more

26 Mar 2024 · 20 minutes
Being a Doctor on Skid Row with Dr. Susan Partovi, Renegade MD

Since she was a girl, Dr. Susan Partovi felt the pull toward a career in medicine. But it wasn't until... more

21 Mar 2024 · 45 minutes
Advice: How Do I Talk About My Sexual Needs? With Dr. Juliana Hauser

“There's so much bravery in saying ‘my sex life matters’”Imagine this: you've just broken free from a decade-long relationship that... more

19 Mar 2024 · 22 minutes
A Comedian's Psychedelic Awakening with Negin Farsad

“Mushrooms are for getting over your horseshit so you can move on with life.”Like most comedians, Negin Farsad was a... more

14 Mar 2024 · 54 minutes
Advice: Mushrooms for Anxiety and Menopause? With Tracey Tee

Have you ever wondered about the therapeutic potential of psilocybin or "magic mushrooms" for treating anxiety or menopause? Or perhaps... more

12 Mar 2024 · 24 minutes
Chasing Physical Pain and Discovering Tenderness with Margo Steines

“Your identity and your life is lived through your body”In a time where many of us find ourselves disconnected from... more

07 Mar 2024 · 40 minutes
Advice: What To Do When Your Boyfriend Dumps You

“They don’t ever talk about what it feels like when the first relationship after your big relationship ends.”In this episode... more

05 Mar 2024 · 25 minutes
Cindy Gallop’s Vision for a Safe, Sexy Internet

“We end rape culture by showing you how wonderful great consensual, communicative sex is in the real world.” Cindy Gallop never... more

29 Feb 2024 · 46 minutes
Listener Mail: How Do I Stay Safe While Dating (and More)?

Picture this: you’re 50, newly separated from your husband after 20 years of marriage, and diving into the world of... more

27 Feb 2024 · 21 minutes
When Your Whole Family Comes Out with Jessi Hempel

Jessi Hempel is many things: an award-winning journalist, podcaster, author, and senior editor-at-large at LinkedIn. But despite her myriad accomplishments,... more

22 Feb 2024 · 53 minutes
Listener Mail: Looking for a New Life in New England

“If you get to the root of what it is that you care about, you will probably also find a... more

20 Feb 2024 · 13 minutes
How Gen X is Taking on Menopause with Stacy London

“The more you fear aging, the harder it's going to be. You’ve got to lean in.”Happy 50th episode to Hotter... more

15 Feb 2024 · 51 minutes
Listener Mail: How Do I Get Over My Fear of Rejection and Be More Authentic?

“How long are you going to let fear of other people's points of view dictate how you live your one... more

13 Feb 2024 · 14 minutes
Getting Comfortable with Uncomfortable Transitions

“Just because I'm uncomfortable with discomfort, it doesn't mean I'm not okay.”Ever been laid off? Experienced the gut-wrenching dissolution of... more

08 Feb 2024 · 19 minutes
Listener Mail: How Can I Control My Mood And Not Be Affected By The Actions of Others?

“I made it worse because I was not the master of my emotions.”Have you ever found yourself in a situation... more

06 Feb 2024 · 17 minutes
Claiming Your Sexual Power in Midlife with Eva Clay

Eva Clay is on a mission to make sex a spiritual practice. With two decades of expertise, Eva has helped... more

01 Feb 2024 · 49 minutes
Listener Mail: How Do I Start Dating Again After 60?

“Change is often uncomfortable and is almost always good.”Today, we’re delving into a topic near and dear to our hearts:... more

30 Jan 2024 · 17 minutes
Dildocon 2024 or I Went to a Pleasure Conference So You Don't Have To

“I am dedicated to having experiences that are aligned with my curiosity,”Have you ever wondered what it’s like to attend... more

25 Jan 2024 · 20 minutes
Listener Mail: How Do I Age Gracefully?

“We need to revise our imagery of what elderhood looks like.”Welcome back to another episode in the Hotter Than Ever... more

23 Jan 2024 · 12 minutes
Besties for Life: The Power of Female Friendship

“Female friends are treasures and they hold a mirror to one another in a way that no one else can.”Do... more

18 Jan 2024 · 49 minutes
Listener Mail: How Soon Is Too Soon To Date After Divorce?

“Is it possible to mostly grieve your marriage before it ends?”Welcome back to another episode in the Hotter Than Ever... more

16 Jan 2024 · 9 minutes
New Year Reset: Seeking Your Spark in 2024

“There's so much more in life on the other side of discomfort.”We’re kicking this week off by discussing New Year’s... more

11 Jan 2024 · 23 minutes
Listener Mail: Am I Being “Aged Out” Of My Job?

“The money is the indicator of how much they care about keeping you.”Welcome back to another episode in the Hotter... more

04 Jan 2024 · 9 minutes
Listener Mail: High School Flame Reignited

“How do I keep his interest without scaring him away?” Happy 2024 Hotties! We’re so excited to bring you our first... more

02 Jan 2024 · 7 minutes
Adapting to Big Changes in Midlife with Humorist Annabelle Gurwich

“Could I have a bigger imagination about this point in my life than I thought I might need to have?”... more

28 Dec 2023 · 52 minutes
2023 Hotter Than Ever Year in Review

“How much time do you think you have left?” Posed by friend and episode 6 guest, Sheri Salata, this question... more

21 Dec 2023 · 26 minutes
How to Get Through Your Mid-Life Crisis with Lauren Zander

“I am impressed with the midlife crisis.” We’re thrilled to welcome Lauren Zander, CEO and founder of the Handel Group,... more

14 Dec 2023 · 52 minutes
Boldly Navigating Cancer, Caregiving and Career Change with Laura Stratte

When Laura Stratte was diagnosed with breast cancer at age 35, she didn't just fight it—it transformed her life’s path.... more

07 Dec 2023 · 42 minutes
How Perfectionism Can Be Positive and Powerful with Katherine Morgan Schafler

“Can you assume that nothing is wrong with you?” Self-defined perfectionist, psychotherapist, writer, and former on-site therapist at Google, Katherine... more

30 Nov 2023 · 1 hour,
It’s Not Always Sunny: Navigating the 'Dips' with Grace and Gratitude

“This too shall pass.” Being human means understanding that challenging times, as tough as they may be, won’t last forever.... more

23 Nov 2023 · 25 minutes
Handle Your Money Trauma and Build Wealth like a Grownup with Veronica Grant

There’s nothing hotter than using your finances as the ultimate tool to build the life of your dreams. But how... more

16 Nov 2023 · 44 minutes
Family Secret Bombshells and Choosing Self-Love with Carmen Rita Wong

Imagine discovering that the man you believed was your dad was not your biological father. What would that do to... more

09 Nov 2023 · 43 minutes
Single Moms! Have a Sex Life! with Writer Rebecca Woolf

“I don’t believe in rules.” Rebecca Woolf is a rule-breaker:  she doesn't believe in following society's cookie-cutter definitions of motherhood. In... more

02 Nov 2023 · 36 minutes
Loving Men while Dismantling the Patriarchy with Author Sonora Jha

What would you do if you weren’t afraid of failing? Dr. Sonora Jha., essayist, novelist, and professor of journalism at... more

25 Oct 2023 · 45 minutes
The Lies We Tell Ourselves That Keep Us Stuck with Life Coach Lauren Zander

“What do you think will happen first, world peace or the end of lying?”Lauren Zander, CEO and founder of The... more

19 Oct 2023 · 41 minutes
Making Peace with Divorce and Opening Your Heart To Love

What if you dared to let go of the old to make room for the new? In today’s episode, Erin gets... more

12 Oct 2023 · 30 minutes
Manifesting Your Destiny like a Boss with Adult Film Star Lisa Ann

Lisa Ann is a name synonymous with adult film fame, but her journey goes far beyond the screen. She has... more

05 Oct 2023 · 1 hour, 9 minutes
Using Improv to Get Unstuck and Silence Your Inner Critic (with Katie Goodman)

Can improv comedy be used as a tool to improve your life? Drawing from her wealth of experience teaching improv to... more

28 Sep 2023 · 43 minutes
Likeability and the Cost of Faking It

Why do we care so much about what others think of us? We've all been there, meticulously curating our lives... more

21 Sep 2023 · 25 minutes
Can Your Body Reverse Menopause? Science and Hope with Dr. Anna Cabeca

When we say women over 40 are “Hotter Than Ever”, we mean it and so does Dr. Anna Cabeca. As... more

14 Sep 2023 · 44 minutes
Finding Your Sexual Agency with Sex Therapist Dr. Juliana Hauser

“If you’re breathing, you’re sexual.” Dr. Juliana Hauser is on a mission to connect people with their essence – their... more

07 Sep 2023 · 1 hour, 3 minutes
The Universe, Spirituality, and Being Woo-Adjacent

Step into the mystical as we delve into the realm of the "Woo". Erin ponders the enigmatic world of modern... more

31 Aug 2023 · 21 minutes
Moms on Mushrooms Creator Tracey Tee on her Heart Opening Radical Reinvention

Magic mushrooms? Psychedelics? Microdosing?  Drugs once considered countercultural are being reinvented as part of the plant medicine movement.  As Tracey... more

24 Aug 2023 · 48 minutes
How to Be Brave-ish with Travel Expert Lisa Niver

Despite traveling to 102 countries and scuba-diving with shark countless times, writer and travel expert Lisa Niver wouldn’t call herself... more

17 Aug 2023 · 47 minutes
Leaving a Life you Love to Save Yourself with Author Kelly McMasters

What do you do when you are faced with the choice between leaving a life you love or leaving yourself... more

10 Aug 2023 · 53 minutes
Dating Coach Bela Gandhi Helps You Avoid Dumpster Fire Relationships

What does it mean to find “the lid to your pot?” Bela Gandhi, founder of Smart Dating Academy, shares her... more

27 Jul 2023 · 47 minutes
Investigating the Desire to be Desired with Writer Melissa Febos

Melissa Febos has always had a penchant for operating outside of convention. Whether it was her eagerness to try all... more

20 Jul 2023 · 50 minutes
15 Things That Make A Relationship Hot

What are the things that make a romantic relationship Hotter Than Ever? Sure there's chemistry and physical attraction (that's... more

13 Jul 2023 · 13 minutes
Trusting Yourself with Your Own Dreams and Desires With Sybil Amuti

What is the fabric of your spirit?  Podcaster and brand strategist and Sybil Amuti not only answers questions like these,... more

06 Jul 2023 · 51 minutes
Dating and App Culture: Options, Acronyms, and WTF is Compersion?

Romance has gone through a big operating system update recently. Now that Erin’s been released from captivity (aka her long... more

29 Jun 2023 · 30 minutes
Finding the Humor Inside of Tragedy with Comedian Kellye Howard

Calling Kellye Howard resilient doesn’t quite capture her ability to triumph in the face of relentless challenges. The stand up... more

22 Jun 2023 · 46 minutes
How to Stop Judging Our Bodies and Finally Live Shame-Free

If you have even been convinced that you needed to lose weight before you went after that next relationship, promotion... more

15 Jun 2023 · 26 minutes
Betting on Yourself: Leaning into Scary Things with Director Dawn Porter

Dawn Porter was reluctant to call herself a Director, even after her movie premiered at Sundance and got picked up... more

08 Jun 2023 · 44 minutes
Finding Belonging in Spite of Ourselves with Actor Alysia Reiner

You belong. You think you don’t, but you do. I promise. Despite being a successful actor, producer, activist and…firefighter(?!) Alysia... more

01 Jun 2023 · 40 minutes
Why We Stay in Unhappy Relationships

There are many reasons we stay in long-term marriages/ partnerships/ relationships that aren't working. But what if staying, in the... more

25 May 2023 · 26 minutes
Everything is a Love Problem and Only You Can Solve It (with Sheri Salata)

We’re sitting down with Oprah dynasty legend, author, producer and transformation doula Sheri Salata to renegotiate what life looks like... more

18 May 2023 · 40 minutes
Getting Back Out There After a Long…Long Time

Calling all formerly partnered/married/committed folks. It’s time to get back out there! But how? Where? And what do I do?!... more

11 May 2023 · 31 minutes
Owning All Sides of Your Sexuality with Music Producer Barb Morrison

Even in fourth grade, Barb knew they had to get out. They had seen David Bowie in drag on SNL... more

04 May 2023 · 39 minutes
Claiming Your Own Legitimacy

Do you ever wonder if you’re the one holding you back? In this episode Erin shares the attitudes and beliefs... more

27 Apr 2023 · 16 minutes
Marrying the Wrong Guy: Writer Joanna Rakoff on Her Big Do-Over

What happens if we immediately regret the single most important decision many of us will make in our lives? The... more

20 Apr 2023 · 47 minutes
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Do you ever wonder if you’re the one holding you back? In this episode Erin shares the attitudes and beliefs that will... more