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The Best of You
The Best of You
That Sounds Fun Network

Join therapist and author, Dr. Alison Cook, as she guides you through some of your toughest challenges with wisdom, kindness, and grace.... more

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Episode 129: Understanding Your Anxiety—A Step-by-Step Guide to Finding Calm, Advocating For Yourself, and Cultivating Inner Resilience

Do you ever feel stuck in anxious thoughts? Are you longing for more moments of calm throughout your day? Every single one... more

14 Nov 2024 · 39 minutes
Episode 128: Generational Trauma—Overcoming Inherited Dysfunction & Legacy Burdens with Therapist Gina Birkemeier

Are you carrying burdens that aren't entirely your own? Could understanding your family's past be the key to unlocking a... more

07 Nov 2024 · 46 minutes
Episode 127: Healing Childhood Wounds—The Enmeshed Family & 5 Toxic Patterns that Affect Your Ability to Thrive in Adult Relationships

Are patterns from your past influencing how you show up in relationships today? In this episode, we explore how early family... more

31 Oct 2024 · 44 minutes
Episode 126: Restoring Wonder & Play in Intimacy—Navigating Sexual Brokenness, Safety, and Vulnerability with Therapist Sam Jolman

Did you know that by adulthood, most people have experienced some form of sexual wounding? Today's conversation with Sam Jolman, therapist... more

24 Oct 2024 · 43 minutes
Episode 125: Recovering From Purity Culture: Dismantle the Myths, Reject Shame-Based Sexuality, and Move Forward in Your Faith with Dr. Camden Morgante

Today's episode is a fascinating conversation about the phenomenon of "purity culture." You've heard the phrase, but my guest today,... more

17 Oct 2024 · 50 minutes
Episode 124: Boundaries & Numbing—How to Set Healthy Limits and Stop Avoiding Your Feelings

If you’ve ever struggled to set boundaries or wondered why it’s so hard to respect them in others, this episode... more

10 Oct 2024 · 38 minutes
Episode 123: How to Heal When You’ve Been Hurt—Healing What’s Within with Narcissism Expert Chuck DeGroat

What do you do after someone hurts you? How do you heal the pain that lingers inside of you? This is such... more

03 Oct 2024 · 46 minutes
Episode 122: Navigating Anxiety, Therapy, and Spiritual Formation—Balancing Mental, Emotional, & Spiritual Health with John Mark Comer

Has anxiety ever made it hard for you to connect with God? Do you love God but sometimes struggle with... more

26 Sep 2024 · 1 hour, 2 minutes
Episode 121: The 5 Languages of Faith—Caring for the Disillusioned, Doubting, and Disconnected Parts of You

We all face doubt, disappointment, and even disillusionment at times. In today’s episode, I’m sharing with you my framework for cultivating... more

19 Sep 2024 · 43 minutes
Episode 120: Navigating Celebrity Culture—How Personas, Platforms, & Profits Are Hurting the Church with Katelyn Beaty

Today’s conversation is a fascinating deep-dive into celebrity culture with Katelyn Beaty, editor and author of Celebrities For Jesus: How... more

12 Sep 2024 · 52 minutes
Episode 119: Drawing Strength from the Past —The Spirit of Justice & True Stories of Faith, Race, and Resistance with Dr. Jemar Tisby

It was an absolute honor to sit down with New York Times bestselling author & public historian Dr. Jemar Tisby... more

05 Sep 2024 · 48 minutes
Episode 118: Types of Therapy, the Importance of Trauma-Informed Care, & the Role of Sin in Therapy

Today, Cindy and I are tackling your questions about therapy, shedding light on research, common challenges, and insights to help... more

29 Aug 2024 · 38 minutes
Episode 117: Healing in the Messy Middle—How to Transform Churches, Families, & Communities with Dr. Monique Gadson

Have you ever felt like you’ve grown and healed, but the people around you haven’t? In today’s episode, I’m joined by... more

22 Aug 2024 · 52 minutes
Episode 116: Blended Families—How to Heal, Build, & Sustain a Healthy Family Through Grief, Loss, & Complicated Circumstances

Did you grow up in a blended family? Are you navigating the complexities of creating one? Blended families face unique challenges,... more

15 Aug 2024 · 53 minutes
Episode 115: 4 Ways to Transform Your Relationship—Expert Tips to Heal Pain Points and Deepen Intimacy

Do you want to learn how to strengthen your relationship over time? Do you want to have better communication and... more

08 Aug 2024 · 50 minutes
Episode 114: Healing Trauma— How to Break Cycles, Heal From Trauma, & Restore Your Faith With Trauma Therapist Kobe Campbell

Do you struggle to let go of pain from your past? If so, you do not want to miss today's episode!... more

01 Aug 2024 · 47 minutes
Episode 113: A New Vision of Human Flourishing—A Christian Approach to Mental Health with Duke University Psychiatrist & Theologian Warren Kinghorn

Why do I struggle with mental health? How do I respond to Christians who claim there's no such thing as mental... more

25 Jul 2024 · 56 minutes
Episode 112: Navigating Anxiety—Practical, Powerful Tips to Recognize and Transform Anxiety In Your Life

What if anxiety isn't your enemy? What if it's trying to help? We all feel anxious at times. As we close out... more

18 Jul 2024 · 37 minutes
Episode 111: The Enneagram For Moms—How to Transforms Parenting Triggers & Blind Spots Into Growth & Connection With Beth McCord

Do you ever get activated by your kids—even when they’re not really doing anything wrong? It happens to the best of... more

11 Jul 2024 · 48 minutes
Episode 110: How to Be Wise When People Are Difficult—Biblical Strategies For Keeping Your Emotional Health & Mental Sanity

We all need to tune up our boundaries from time to time, especially when encountering difficult people. Today, I'm sharing... more

04 Jul 2024 · 46 minutes
Episode 109: Healing Burdens From the Past—How to Overcome Childhood Wounds and Heal Your Younger Self with Tammy Sollenberger

Do you ever struggle with negative beliefs about yourself, even though you know they aren't true? We all carry burdens that... more

27 Jun 2024 · 55 minutes
Episode 108: Inside Out—Internal Family Systems, Therapy, and High-Performing Protectors with Jenna Riemersma

Do you ever feel like you're wearing a mask, hiding how you really feel from others? Do you find yourself in... more

20 Jun 2024 · 49 minutes
Episode 107: Name, Frame, & Brave Depression: Science-Backed Strategies to Treat Mild and Stubborn Depression & Recover Your Joy with Dr. Len Lantz

Have you or someone you love struggled with depression? If so, you’re not alone. Rates of depression have increased in the... more

13 Jun 2024 · 46 minutes
Episode 106: Transform Limiting Beliefs, Embrace Critical Thinking, & Navigate Holistic Health with Dr. Josh Axe

Have you wondered how a single negative comment can shape your beliefs about yourself? In this episode, we dive into the... more

06 Jun 2024 · 45 minutes
Episode 105: 4 Lies We Tell, the Mental Health Benefits of Honesty, & How to Stop Lying In Your Relationships

Are you ever tempted to lie to spare someone’s feelings or avoid conflict? You're not alone. Research shows that most people... more

30 May 2024 · 49 minutes
Episode 104: Overcoming the Fear of Vulnerability—Strategies to Stop Feeling Alone and Build Meaningful Connections

Have you ever felt isolated because you can't open up to others? Do you worry that showing vulnerability might lead to... more

23 May 2024 · 59 minutes
Episode 103: Name, Frame, and Brave Gossip

We don't want to gossip, but most of us do it. What if gossip actually plays a deeper role in... more

16 May 2024 · 45 minutes
Episode 102: I Shouldn’t Feel Conflicted About God—How to Name, Frame, and Brave Complicated Emotions About Faith & God

Do you ever feel distant from God? Do you struggle with conflicting emotions or unanswered questions that make it hard to... more

09 May 2024 · 45 minutes
Bonus Episode: Aundi Kolber & Dr. Alison on Writing & Launching Books

Happy Book Launch day! Today I Shouldn't Feel This Way is out in the world AND it's the two-year anniversary... more

07 May 2024 · 47 minutes
Episode 101: I Shouldn’t Feel Angry—Exploring the Violence that Shapes Our Family Stories & How to Heal with Lisa Jo Baker

How do you navigate anger in your family? What do you do when a parent who was supposed to love... more

02 May 2024 · 59 minutes
Episode 100: I Shouldn’t Feel Betrayed By Someone I Trust—How to Grieve, Breathe, & Receive in the Wake of Broken Trust with Steve Carter

Have you ever felt betrayed by someone you thought you could trust? It's a deeply painful experience that can leave you... more

25 Apr 2024 · 49 minutes
Episode 99: I Shouldn’t Feel Like My Spirit is Broken—Exploring a Broken Spirit & the Dark Night of the Soul with Christopher Cook

Do you ever feel like your spirit is broken? Do you feel like you can't put yourself back together despite your... more

18 Apr 2024 · 53 minutes
Episode 98: I Shouldn’t Feel Alone in My Grief—Why Your Grief Matters & How to Support Those Who Are Grieving with J.S. Park

What do you do when you're grieving? How do you support others through grief? Grief shows up in all of our lives—whether... more

11 Apr 2024 · 54 minutes
Episode 97: I Shouldn't Feel This Anxious—Insights on Trauma & Healing with Monique Koven

Today’s episode is just so special and so deeply personal. If you’ve experienced trauma, please listen. If you love someone,... more

04 Apr 2024 · 42 minutes
Episode 96: Signs of Emotional Immaturity & How to Bring Emotional Health Into Your Relationships

Do you walk on eggshells with someone you love? Do you sometimes feel like you can't have an honest conversation? Signs of... more

28 Mar 2024 · 42 minutes
Episode 95: 4 Toxic Behaviors You Need to Recognize & the #1 Way to Protect Yourself

If you’re human, you’ve encountered some toxic behaviors. We all have. And it’s not wise to be naive about them.... more

21 Mar 2024 · 50 minutes
Episode 94: Should I Stay or Should I Walk Away? How to Discern When It’s Time to Leave with Emily P. Freeman

How do you decide when it’s time to leave a place or a relationship behind? We have to make decisions... more

14 Mar 2024 · 46 minutes
Episode 93: 3 Ways to Stop Guilt-Tripping Yourself, Untangle Complicated Emotions, & Discover the Joy of Clarity

Emotions are complicated. They're also beautiful. When you don't honor the complicated mix of fears, frustrations, and also the good things... more

07 Mar 2024 · 42 minutes
Episode 92: How to Honor Loss & Why It Matters With Rachel Marie Kang

We experience big and little losses all the time. A friend moves away. An opportunity passes you by. A relationship... more

29 Feb 2024 · 53 minutes
Episode 91: Self-Worth–How to Believe You Are Enough & Transform Your Life with Jamie Kern Lima

Do you doubt yourself? Struggle to respect your own worth? Self-worth is foundational to both our psychological and our spiritual health,... more

22 Feb 2024 · 40 minutes
Episode 90: Parenting Through Transitions—How Their Challenges Catalyze Your Growth

Navigating transitions with your children is a deep dive into raw emotions, facing conflict, and your own unhealed wounds. These... more

15 Feb 2024 · 49 minutes
Episode 89: When A Relationship Has to Change—How to Tolerate Discomfort, Face an Attachment Void, & Resource Yourself

We need attachments to other people, places, and to God. Yet transitions have a way of shaking up those attachments—even... more

08 Feb 2024 · 47 minutes
Episode 88: Navigating Transitions—What to Do When Change Stirs up Anxiety, Uncertainty, or Confusion

What do you do when life feels disorienting or uncertain? Maybe a relationship ends, you change jobs, or your children... more

01 Feb 2024 · 47 minutes
Episode 87: A Surprising Way to Break Free From Self-Criticism & Comparing Yourself to Others

Do you feel like others are doing better than you? Do you struggle with an inner critic? Do you see... more

25 Jan 2024 · 38 minutes
Episode 86: Embracing Conflict—Why It's Essential & 4 Simple Ways to Tackle It

Conflict is a part of every relationship. It’s normal to disagree from time to time - even (especially!) with the... more

18 Jan 2024 · 43 minutes
Episode 85: The Goal of a Healthy Family & 6 Roles We Take On In Dysfunction

It’s hard to lead a family! It's even harder when you didn’t experience health in your own family as a... more

11 Jan 2024 · 52 minutes
Episode 84: The Truth About Happiness and 4 Proven Ways to Feel Happier

Most of us want to be happier, but we don't even know what true happiness means! We walk around feeling... more

05 Jan 2024 · 39 minutes
Episode 83: How to Turn Anger, Sadness, and Fear Into Powerful Allies

Most people feel anger, sadness, or fear at some point during the day. It's normal to feel these emotions. The... more

21 Dec 2023 · 34 minutes
Episode 82: Why We Overreact—How Big Emotions Can Help You Unburden Past Hurts

We all over-react at times. I know I do! Maybe someone is late, and you get really angry instead of... more

14 Dec 2023 · 37 minutes
Episode 81: Finding God Through Your Feelings—How to Practice the Presence of God No Matter What You’re Feeling

If you’re struggling to feel connected spiritually or stuck in negative emotions, you’re in good company. Research shows that 9... more

07 Dec 2023 · 34 minutes
Episode 80: Navigating Overwhelming Emotions—2 Essential Steps to Bring Calm to the Chaos Within

What if your emotions aren't your enemies afterall? What if they actually help? This holiday season, I'm taking you on... more

30 Nov 2023 · 38 minutes
Episode 79: Surviving Trauma & A Path to Forgiveness—Finding God In the Hardest Parts of Your Story With Esau McCaulley

I was thrilled to have this conversation about a book that's easily one of my favorites this year. The brilliant... more

16 Nov 2023 · 49 minutes
Episode 78: The Mental Health Benefits of Forgiveness & Thoughts on Grace with Max Lucado

Today’s episode is packed! First, I walk you through some practical, research-backed thoughts on forgiveness and grace. Then I invite... more

09 Nov 2023 · 46 minutes
Episode 77: The Dark Night of the Soul—Why It Happens & What It Means

Have you felt far from God? Do you find yourself wondering what in the world God is doing amidst all... more

03 Nov 2023 · 38 minutes
Episode 76: When Self-Help Isn't Enough—Finding the Faith & Strength to Move Forward after Loss & Heartache With Granger Smith

I read country music singer Granger Smith's new book in one sitting and cried my way through it. It’s a... more

26 Oct 2023 · 49 minutes
Episode 75: Your Secret Weapon Against Stress & Anxiety—How to Transform Your Mind Through the Power of Prayer

Prayer is where self-awareness meets God-awareness. I’ve come to cherish it as an intimate, deeply grounding practice. But I haven’t... more

19 Oct 2023 · 48 minutes
Episode 74: The Neurobiology of Hope and How to Find Hope in Hard Times with Dr. Curt Thompson

I am so thrilled to have my friend, Dr. Curt Thompson, on the podcast today. I have been deeply transformed... more

14 Oct 2023 · 44 minutes
Episode 73: True Belonging vs. Groupthink, Cliques, & Trying to Fit In—How to Belong to Others While Staying True To Yourself

If you’ve ever struggled to feel like you belong, this episode is for you. I’ve struggled with belonging for decades.... more

05 Oct 2023 · 42 minutes
Episode 72: Resilience—Overcoming Failure, Handling Adversity, and Telling Yourself the Truth

We all feel defeated by the challenges we face from time to time. I have talked with so many people... more

28 Sep 2023 · 39 minutes
Episode 71: All About Therapy—Do I Need a Therapist, How Do I Find One, and What Type of Therapy Works Best?

Today, we’re talking allll about therapy. I've gathered up the big questions people ask and we're tackling them head-on. Remember,... more

21 Sep 2023 · 48 minutes
Episode 70: Mastering the Art of Emotional Intelligence—How to Harness the Power of Your Emotions to Improve Your Relationships

Get ready to level up your emotional intelligence! In this week's episode, we're diving deep into the heart of emotional... more

14 Sep 2023 · 53 minutes
Episode 69: Your Future Self—8 Challenges to Resolve As You Become the Person You Were Meant to Be

We are all creating the future version of ourselves every single day. We're either moving toward wholeness—or we're moving toward... more

07 Sep 2023 · 38 minutes
Episode 68: How *Not* to Lose Yourself—Remaining You While Raising Them with Alli Worthington

I absolutely loved this conversation with Alli Worthington. We get so real about the toxic traps all around and how... more

31 Aug 2023 · 46 minutes
Episode 67: The Inextricable Link Between Faith & Emotional Healing—Gen Z & A Hidden Search for Meaning

Today’s episode is straight up 🔥🔥🔥. I got to know Cindy Gao last year, when she reached out to me... more

24 Aug 2023 · 51 minutes
Episode 66: The Truth About Anxiety & How to Become a Worry Free Parent with Sissy Goff

I am thrilled to be back this week, diving into an incredible conversation with beloved therapist, Sissy Goff! We're tackling... more

17 Aug 2023 · 49 minutes
Episode 65: Vulnerability, Parenting, and Letting Go of Control—Inside A Guy’s Perspective With Our Friends From Dadville

Research shows that many men are struggling and not sure how to get support. So I asked our friends from... more

03 Aug 2023 · 1 hour, 1 minute
Episode 64: Women’s Health—Menopause, Hormones, Depression and How to Advocate for Yourself Through Your Body’s Changes

This episode is an absolute must-listen! If you're a woman journeying through your 30s, 40s, 50s, and beyond, or if... more

27 Jul 2023 · 51 minutes
Episode 63: Spiritual Direction, the Power of Listening, & How to Attune to Yourself and to Others

Imagine if someone sat with you and listened to you attentively for as long as you needed. That’s what I... more

20 Jul 2023 · 1 hour, 7 minutes
Episode 62: Your Questions About Friendship—How to Test a New Relationship, Manage Your Capacity Through Different Life Seasons, & Become a Friend to Yourself

Today we're trying something new! We've gathered up your most-asked questions about friendship and discuss them on the podcast. These... more

13 Jul 2023 · 51 minutes
Episode 61: Reconnecting With Old Friends—Healing the Past, Naming Regret & Bringing Your Whole Self into the Future

This episode is so special! I sit down with my 3 childhood friends, including my older sister, as we describe... more

06 Jul 2023 · 1 hour, 9 minutes
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Get ready to level up your emotional intelligence! In this week's episode, we're diving deep into the heart of emotional intelligence, revealing... more