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Co-Parent Dilemmas
Co-Parent Dilemmas
Diane Dierks & Rick Voyles

There are at least two sides to every conflict, and when it's between divorced or separated parents, sparks can fly. In each... more

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Episodes

S4.E36. How You Say Goodbye Is A Big Deal

Claire writes in and asks what to do about a co-parent who takes more than 5 minutes to say goodbye... more

28 Apr 2024 · 38 minutes
S4.E35. The Inconvenienced Parent

Listener Amanda writes to Diane & Rick regarding her co-parent’s complaint about their daughter’s activities being too inconvenient for him... more

21 Apr 2024 · 33 minutes
S4.E34. Caught in the Middle…Between My Ex and My Spouse!

Listener Ashley is frustrated by both her husband and her co-parent. She frequently finds herself caught between them, and none... more

14 Apr 2024 · 33 minutes
S4.E33. Should I Send the Kids to a Toxic Household?

Diane & Rick respond to a listener’s question about withholding parenting time due to a history of domestic violence and... more

07 Apr 2024 · 41 minutes
S4.E32. Summer Sabotage

Diane and Rick answer listener Carlos’ question about the confusing paragraph in his parenting plan regarding the summer schedule. His... more

31 Mar 2024 · 33 minutes
S4.E31. I Want to Ghost My Narcissistic Co-Parent!

Listener Colleen wants to stop communicating with her co-parent so she can get emotional relief. Diane & Rick revisit the... more

24 Mar 2024 · 34 minutes
S4.E30. “How Do I Get Her to Stop?” The Purpose of Boundaries

Diane & Rick address Zachary’s question about how to get his co-parent to stop bringing her toxic boyfriend to the... more

17 Mar 2024 · 39 minutes
S4.E29. Is It Possible or Probable? Let That Be Your Guide

Diane & Rick address listener Danny’s question about the top three issues facing high-conflict parents and how to resolve them.... more

10 Mar 2024 · 40 minutes
S4.E28. Daddy’s Little Girl

Shawn asks a question about how to help her 19-year-old daughter repair her relationship with her father. Diane & Rick... more

03 Mar 2024 · 26 minutes
S4.E27. The Problem with Self-Representation

Sometimes approaching your court case without an attorney can leave you vulnerable and without all the information you need to... more

25 Feb 2024 · 32 minutes
S4.E26. Who Gets Final Say? Another Parenting Plan Disaster

Diane & Rick answer listener Ryan’s question about which therapist he and his co-parent should choose for their daughter. The... more

18 Feb 2024 · 35 minutes
S4.E25. Narcissism in Co-Parenting: What is it? How do you respond? Will your child be a narcissist, too?

Diane & Rick discuss the mental health issues that are connected to someone with an extremely self-focused personality disorder, also... more

11 Feb 2024 · 54 minutes
S4.E24. My Child is Gaslighting Me!

Diane & Rick explore the phenomenon of children engaging in  “gaslighting” as a strategy to either survive their parents’ conflict... more

04 Feb 2024 · 35 minutes
S4.E23. The Problem with Over-explaining a Concept!

Listener Heather shares a paragraph from her parenting plan entitled “Special Considerations”. Diane& Rick explore how you can go too... more

28 Jan 2024 · 26 minutes
S4.E22. Infants, Toddlers, and Teens - Oh, My!

Diane & Rick address listener Shary’s dilemma about parenting time with an infant. How much does the co-parent relationship determine... more

21 Jan 2024 · 38 minutes
S4.E21. Fifth Weekend Dilemma: A Good Case for Letting Go

In another episode in the parenting plan disaster series, Diane & Rick review Camile’s parenting plan language about 1st, 3rd,... more

14 Jan 2024 · 36 minutes
S4.E20. Birthday Party Disaster: Who’s in Charge?

Listener Michael shares his problematic parenting plan language about birthday parties with Diane & Rick. They discuss not only the... more

07 Jan 2024 · 35 minutes
S4.E19. What DOES the Word “Dinner” Mean?: Splitting Hairs in the Parenting Plan

Diane & Rick address a listener’s question about the meaning of dinner  in his parenting plan. They discuss how some... more

31 Dec 2023 · 36 minutes
S4.E18. Triggered and Trapped by My Emotions!

Listener Colleen writes to get advice on how to manage her emotions and not answer her co-parent’s lying emails and... more

24 Dec 2023 · 45 minutes
S4.E17. Do I Give In to My Child’s Request to Stay Away?

Diane and Rick look at a conflict that on the surface might seem easy to resolve for the Non-Impossible parent.... more

17 Dec 2023 · 36 minutes
S4.E16. Help! I’ve Done It All Wrong!

Diane & Rick address Trudy’s email that asks the question, “Is it too late for me?” They discuss strategies to... more

10 Dec 2023 · 43 minutes
S4.E15. You Broke Your Vows, So It’s All Your Fault!

Listener Leah emails that her child is blaming her for his distress over the divorce because she “broke the vows”... more

03 Dec 2023 · 35 minutes
S4.E14. What to Do with the Non-Communicator

A non-impossible Facebook group contributor posts about a co-parent who refuses to communicate. Diane & Rick explore the fine line... more

26 Nov 2023 · 28 minutes
S4.E13. Holiday Sabotage

Listener Travis asks how to manage holidays with the children when his co-parent historically makes plans on his time. He’s... more

19 Nov 2023 · 40 minutes
S4.E12. What to Do with Those Liars, Cheats & Scoundrels

Diane & Rick reach into the listener mailbag to reveal how listeners are benefitting from the show and how they... more

12 Nov 2023 · 45 minutes
S4.E11. My Mom Wants to Tell Me How to Co-Parent!

Co-parenting with an impossible parent can be difficult enough, but what happens when grandparents get involved and make things worse?... more

05 Nov 2023 · 45 minutes
S4.E10. Part Two: An Inside Look into Family Court Hearings

As a follow up to Part One, Diane and Rick describe the family court hearing they recently attended and interview... more

29 Oct 2023 · 58 minutes
S4.E9. Part One: Holding Family Court Judges Accountable

Diane & Rick report on a recent court hearing they attended, in which the judge admonished the parties to never... more

22 Oct 2023 · 39 minutes
S4.E8. You Can’t Un-Baptize Your Child!

What if your co-parent informed you, after the fact, that your child was baptized — and according to your child,... more

15 Oct 2023 · 36 minutes
S4.E7. Listener Mashup!

Diane & Rick reach into the mailbag and answer several listener questions about common topics facing parents with impossibles on... more

08 Oct 2023 · 42 minutes
S4.E6. Grieving - Loss, Children, Relationship & the Dream

Diane & Rick discuss three types of grief parents can experience after separation and divorce. They focus on complicated and... more

01 Oct 2023 · 39 minutes
S4.E5. The Alienated Child

Diane & Rick take a deep dive into what parental alienation feels like from the child’s perspective. From having trust... more

24 Sep 2023 · 54 minutes
S4.E4. Voices: The Alienated Parent

In this unique episode, Diane and Rick stay silent (shocking :-), so the voices of alienated parents can be heard.... more

17 Sep 2023 · 50 minutes
S4.E3. You Know Who

Author Dana Laquidara joins the show to discuss her memoir,You Know Who, referring to the mother she was never allowed... more

10 Sep 2023 · 55 minutes
S4.E2. Half the Child

Diane & Rick welcome author William McGee to discuss his novel, Half the Child. The main character in the book... more

03 Sep 2023 · 47 minutes
S4.E1. Closing One Chapter and Opening Another

Diane & Rick begin Season 4 with the final chapter of the Case from Hell.  If you haven’t listened to... more

27 Aug 2023 · 1 hour, 5 minutes
REBROADCAST: S1.E26. Kids Who Protect the Alienating Parent

David asks if he should ask the court for more time with his kids because of alienating behaviors he suspects... more

20 Aug 2023 · 26 minutes
REBROADCAST: S1.E28. The Passive-Aggressive Co-Parent

Tom emails a question  about how to respond when his co-parent goes silent on a time-sensitive decision and how to... more

13 Aug 2023 · 30 minutes
REBROADCAST: S1.E23. Defining a “Good” Co-Parent

Diane & Rick respond to an email from Janelle who struggles to please her co-parent without being walked on, and... more

06 Aug 2023 · 24 minutes
S3.E30. Whose Phone Is It Anyway?

Listener Janelle wonders if it is okay to snoop on her child’s phone and worries that if the other parent... more

30 Jul 2023 · 35 minutes
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Diane & Rick welcome author William McGee to discuss his novel, Half the Child. The main character in the book struggles with... more