148 episodes
Co-Parent Dilemmas Diane Dierks & Rick Voyles
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4.8 • 58 Ratings
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There are at least two sides to every conflict, and when it's between divorced or separated parents, sparks can fly. In each episode, co-parenting experts Diane Dierks and Rick Voyles answer listener questions and talk about the benefits and risks of letting go vs. holding on to the conflict in a variety of complex topics facing co-parents today. Do you hold on for the sake of the children or let go for the same reason? Episodes are released every Sunday at noon. Listeners can email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com and pose a question/dilemma that may be answered on an upcoming episode. What do you do when the other parent won't be flexible with the parenting schedule? How do you respond to a co-parent who is constantly blowing up your phone with texts? Is it really important to talk to your children when they are at the other parent's house? And what about the parent who won't share important information with you about the children? Do you give in to the other parent's antics or should you hold your ground? Get answers to these questions and more on Co-Parent Dilemmas, wherever you get your podcasts.
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S4.E35. The Inconvenienced Parent
Listener Amanda writes to Diane & Rick regarding her co-parent’s complaint about their daughter’s activities being too inconvenient for him and his spouse to endure. The hosts discuss the concept of time with children being the co-parents’ “turn” to be responsible, not their time to dominate the child’s interests. They also explore alternative language to their parenting plan regarding major decision making.
WE HAVE A NEW RESOURCES PAGE ON THE WEBSITE! Visit www.CPDilemmas.com/resources to view the email protocol, 20 Responses to Difficult Co-Parents, FINAL DECISION-MAKING LANGUAGE, and other documents discussed on the podcast.
JOIN US FOR HUMP DAY HELP! We are excited to announce a new benefit for listeners who become Patreon VIPs (for only $10/month)! Diane will be hosting support groups online every Wednesday at noon (EST) for an hour. You can come to one or come to all. CLICK HERE to become a Non-Impossible VIP, and the Zoom link will be sent to you each week. If you want to hang out with people who won’t think you’re crazy, Hump Day Help is for you!
If you have a problematic paragraph in your parenting plan that you would like the hosts to review, email it to 1234Dilemma@gmail.com.
To get a copy of the communication protocol order, CLICK HERE.
The digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click here to buy the video.
You’ll find instructions about the DRAGON method in the I Am Non-Impossible journal, AVAILABLE on Amazon for only $9.95 (Kindle version is $2.99). This is also a great gift for those in your life who are seeking co-parenting peace. ORDER YOURS NOW!
Support the Show.
Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group
Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas
If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.
Interested in Individual Co-Parent Communication Coaching? Click Here!
Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com
Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!
To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma
Dealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.
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S4.E34. Caught in the Middle…Between My Ex and My Spouse!
Listener Ashley is frustrated by both her husband and her co-parent. She frequently finds herself caught between them, and none of it is helpful to her 12-year-old son. Diane & Rick explore the difficulties of navigating this dilemma, and discuss both sides of the equation.
WE HAVE A NEW RESOURCES PAGE ON THE WEBSITE! Visit www.CPDilemmas.com/resources to view the email protocol, 20 Responses to Difficult Co-Parents, and other documents discussed on the podcast.
We are excited to announce a new benefit for listeners who become Patreon VIPs (for only $10/month)! Diane will be hosting support groups online every Wednesday at noon (EST) for an hour. You can come to one or come to all.
Each week of the month will focus on a different subject:
1st Wednesday of each month: Staying Grounded in the Midst of Parental Alienation
2nd Wednesday of each month: Dealing with the Trauma of False Accusations
3rd Wednesdays: Surviving the Narcissistic Co-Parent
4th Wednesdays: Confronting Post-Separation Control and Abuse
CLICK HERE to become a Non-Impossible VIP, and the Zoom link will be sent to you each week.
If you have a problematic paragraph in your parenting plan that you would like the hosts to review, email it to 1234Dilemma@gmail.com.
To get a copy of the communication protocol order, CLICK HERE.
The digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click here to buy the video.
You’ll find instructions about the DRAGON method in the I Am Non-Impossible journal, AVAILABLE on Amazon for only $9.95 (Kindle version is $2.99). This is also a great gift for those in your life who are seeking co-parenting peace.
Support the Show.
Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group
Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas
If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.
Interested in Individual Co-Parent Communication Coaching? Click Here!
Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com
Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!
To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma
Dealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.
RATE THE SHOW!
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S4.E33. Should I Send the Kids to a Toxic Household?
Diane & Rick respond to a listener’s question about withholding parenting time due to a history of domestic violence and continued toxicity in their other home. What are the steps to determine safety issues? How do parents balance protecting children with the risk of being accused of parental alienation? The co-hosts break it down.
WE HAVE A NEW RESOURCES PAGE ON THE WEBSITE! Visit www.CPDilemmas.com/resources to view the email protocol, 20 Responses to Difficult Co-Parents, and other documents discussed on the podcast.
We are excited to announce a new benefit for listeners who become Patreon VIPs (for only $10/month)! Diane will be hosting support groups online every Wednesday at noon (EST) for an hour. You can come to one or come to all.
Each week of the month will focus on a different subject:
1st Wednesday of each month: Staying Grounded in the Midst of Parental Alienation
2nd Wednesday of each month: Dealing with the Trauma of False Accusations
3rd Wednesdays: Surviving the Narcissistic Co-Parent
4th Wednesdays: Confronting Post-Separation Control and Abuse
CLICK HERE to become a Non-Impossible VIP, and the Zoom link will be sent to you each week.
If you have a problematic paragraph in your parenting plan that you would like the hosts to review, email it to 1234Dilemma@gmail.com.
To get a copy of the communication protocol order, CLICK HERE.
The digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click here to buy the video.
You’ll find instructions about the DRAGON method in the I Am Non-Impossible journal, AVAILABLE on Amazon for only $9.95 (Kindle version is $2.99). This is also a great gift
Support the Show.
Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group
Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas
If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.
Interested in Individual Co-Parent Communication Coaching? Click Here!
Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com
Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!
To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma
Dealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.
RATE THE SHOW!
CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming ... -
S4.E32. Summer Sabotage
Diane and Rick answer listener Carlos’ question about the confusing paragraph in his parenting plan regarding the summer schedule. His co-parent is attempting to manipulate the schedule to get more time than the plan intends. The hosts discuss alternative ways to structure a plan like this and the importance of minimizing conflict for the children so they can enjoy their summer vacation.
WE HAVE A NEW RESOURCES PAGE ON THE WEBSITE! Visit www.CPDilemmas.com/resources to view the email protocol, 20 Responses to Difficult Co-Parents, and other documents discussed on the podcast.
We are excited to announce a new benefit for listeners who become Patreon VIPs (for only $10/month)! Diane will be hosting support groups online every Wednesday at noon (EST) for an hour. You can come to one or come to all.
Each week of the month will focus on a different subject:
1st Wednesday of each month: Staying Grounded in the Midst of Parental Alienation
2nd Wednesday of each month: Dealing with the Trauma of False Accusations
3rd Wednesdays: Surviving the Narcissistic Co-Parent
4th Wednesdays: Confronting Post-Separation Control and Abuse
CLICK HERE to become a Non-Impossible VIP, and the Zoom link will be sent to you each week.
If you have a problematic paragraph in your parenting plan that you would like the hosts to review, email it to 1234Dilemma@gmail.com.
To get a copy of the communication protocol order, CLICK HERE.
The digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click here to buy the video.
You’ll find instructions about the DRAGON method in the I Am Non-Impossible journal, AVAILABLE on Amazon for only $9
Support the Show.
Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group
Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas
If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.
Interested in Individual Co-Parent Communication Coaching? Click Here!
Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com
Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!
To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma
Dealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.
RATE THE SHOW!
CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming ... -
S4.E31. I Want to Ghost My Narcissistic Co-Parent!
Listener Colleen wants to stop communicating with her co-parent so she can get emotional relief. Diane & Rick revisit the importance of following the structured email protocol and talk about the pitfalls of going silent or ignoring the impossible co-parent.
WE HAVE A NEW RESOURCES PAGE ON THE WEBSITE! Visit www.CPDilemmas.com/resources to view the email protocol, 20 Responses to Difficult Co-Parents, and other documents discussed on out podcast.
We are excited to announce a new benefit for listeners who become Patreon VIPs (for only $10/month)! Diane will be hosting support groups online every Wednesday at noon (EST) for an hour. You can come to one or come to all.
Each week of the month will focus on a different subject:
1st Wednesday of each month: Staying Grounded in the Midst of Parental Alienation
2nd Wednesday of each month: Dealing with the Trauma of False Accusations
3rd Wednesdays: Surviving the Narcissistic Co-Parent
4th Wednesdays: Confronting Post-Separation Control and Abuse
CLICK HERE to become a Non-Impossible VIP, and the Zoom link will be sent to you each week.
If you have a problematic paragraph in your parenting plan that you would like the hosts to review, email it to 1234Dilemma@gmail.com.
To get a copy of the communication protocol order, CLICK HERE.
The digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click here to buy the video.
You’ll find instructions about the DRAGON method in the I Am Non-Impossible journal, AVAILABLE on Amazon for only $9.95 (Kindle version is $2.99). This is also a great gift for those in your life who are seeking co-parenting peace. ORDER YOURS NO
Support the Show.
Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group
Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas
If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.
Interested in Individual Co-Parent Communication Coaching? Click Here!
Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com
Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!
To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma
Dealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.
RATE THE SHOW!
CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming ... -
S4.E30. “How Do I Get Her to Stop?” The Purpose of Boundaries
Diane & Rick address Zachary’s question about how to get his co-parent to stop bringing her toxic boyfriend to the children’s activities. He worries the children will get in the middle of the conflict. They discuss the purpose of setting a boundary is for proactive self-protection, not to manage the other parent’s behavior.
We are excited to announce a new benefit for listeners who become Patreon VIPs (for only $10/month)! Diane will be hosting support groups online every Wednesday at noon (EST) for an hour, beginning March 6th. You can come to one or come to all.
Each week of the month will focus on a different subject:
1st Wednesday of each month: Staying Grounded in the Midst of Parental Alienation
2nd Wednesday of each month: Dealing with the Trauma of False Accusations
3rd Wednesdays: Surviving the Narcissistic Co-Parent
4th Wednesdays: Confronting Post-Separation Control and Abuse
We'll do this through May, but if attendance remains constant, we'll continue through he summer. Just CLICK HERE to become a Non-Impossible VIP, and the Zoom link will be sent to you each week. Hope to see you on Wednesdays this Spring!
If you have a problematic paragraph in your parenting plan that you would like the hosts to review, email it to 1234Dilemma@gmail.com.
To get a copy of the communication protocol order, CLICK HERE.
The digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click here to buy the video.
You’ll find instructions about the DRAGON method in the I Am Non-Impossible journal, AVAILABLE on Amazon for only $9.95 (Kindle version is $2.99). This is also a great gift for those in your life who are seeking co-parenting peace. ORDER YOURS NOW!
Support the Show.
Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group
Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas
If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.
Interested in Individual Co-Parent Communication Coaching? Click Here!
Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com
Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!
To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma
Dealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.
RATE THE SHOW!
CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming ...
Customer Reviews
Essential Listening for Divorced Parents
This show is so unbelievably helpful. The answers to coparenting dilemmas are found in these episodes.
Great advice and information!
As a child of divorce, I’ve enjoyed this show. I think their advice is spot-on and helps parents to keep their kids out of the middle. That is so important. Love both of the hosts as well!
Helpful
Very helpful for dealing with different issues that arise with coparenting and narcissistic types
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