This week we're tackling a question about sneaky hierarchy, aka sneakiarchy. We're talking about how to recognize it in future... more

Today we're talking about love languages, and taking a critical look at them to discuss whether or not they're actually... more

This week's Q&A episode is discussing couples' privilege and how to be cognizant of when it may affect interactions with... more

Today, we're talking about feeling possessive over a partner, the psychology and science behind it, and how even when non-monogamous,... more

This week's question from our Patreon supporters is discussing initiating sex, foreplay, and mismatched communications. If you want to submit... more

Nobody LIKES feeling uncomfortable...but today we're going to be looking at a few ways we sometimes avoid discomfort that may... more

This week's question for our Q&A episode is addressing mismatched desire during busy, long-term partnered life and being stuck in... more

Today we're joined by Jeff Guenther, also known online as TherapyJeff! Jeff has joined us to talk about what he... more

During this mini episode, we're answering just one question from our Patreon community. Today we're discussing reframing relationships, de-escalation, and... more

Breakup season has passed, so we're going to spend an episode talking about independence is important for everyone, regardless of... more

Today, we're talking about honesty, and what makes it difficult to be honest with a partner. We all have difficulty... more

Today we're talking about being open-minded: what it means, how it's often misunderstood, and how we're probably not as good... more

Today, we're talking about slow dating and slow love, which was brought to our attention by Damona Hoffman in episode... more

Today we have another Q&A episode, so we're diving into some listener questions. Some of the topics we're covering are... more

Today's episode is an interview we did with Sara Sense of the Better in Bed podcast about jealousy and navigating... more

For our second part of our non-monogamy in the workplace series, we're talking about how to actually go about opening... more

Today's episode is the first part of a two-parter series on being out as non-monogamous at work. We're going to... more

Today we're welcoming back Emily Nagoski to talk about her newest book, Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating... more

Today we're welcoming back Damona Hoffman, the Resident Love Expert of The Drew Barrymore Show and OkCupid's Official Dating Coach.... more

We're excited to have a special episode this week! Today Dedeker is flying solo and having a fantastic conversation with... more

Happy New Year to all! Our first episode of 2024 is diving into a discussion about shifting from non-monogamy to... more

Today, we're talking about regret. Regret often gets a lot of negative feedback and a bad rap, often being called... more

Today we're doing our last Q&A episode of the year! We'll be tackling one final batch of listener questions ranging... more

Today we've got a very special episode: we're sharing an interview we did on Rachel Wright's show The Wright Conversations.... more

Today we're excited to share a conversation with Jessica Fern and David Cooley about their new book, Polywise. Jessica Fern... more

This week we're taking some time to explore what happens when life's demands and outside stressors take a toll on... more

Today, we’re sharing a preview of one of our favorite podcasts: Private Parts Unknown. Private Parts Unknown is a Bourdain-style... more

Today we're rejoined by Evita Sawyers, who was last on the show back on episode 310. Evita is back to... more

Today's episode is another Q&A, this time with Amanda Katherine from the Live Your F*ck Yes Life. Amanda Katherine (she/they)... more

Today we have a special episode highlighting an interview Dedeker did on the podcast Initiated Survivor, hosted by Kelsey Harper.... more

Today we're diving deep into the world of drama! Have you ever met someone who just seems to thrive on... more

Today we're talking about the five different communication styles in order to help us identify some of the healthy and... more

Today we're talking about aggressive fairness in non-monogamy. We all want equitable relationships, but in a relationship style as fluid... more

Today we're discussing emotional safety and how our close relationships can provide a safe and comforting way to enhance our... more

This week we're highlighting an interview Dedeker did on Rachel Krantz's show, Help Existing. Rachel is also the author of... more

We're continuing our Q&A episode today with guest Kitty Stryker. Kitty has been working on defining and creating a consent... more

Today we have a special guest who has been on our show before! Kitty Stryker has been working on defining... more

Today we're discussing aromanticism and aromantic partnerships! A lot of us have heard of asexuality, but the spectrum of aromanticism... more

Today, we're talking about the quality of relationships, and not necessarily romantic ones, and how they can have significant positive... more

As one of the common pop psychology buzzwords on social media today, we've all heard the word "toxic" applied to... more

We're back with another Q&A episode, and this time we're joined by Leanne Yau, aka Poly Philia! Leanne is a... more

Today we're joined by Irene Morning, MS, to discuss her book, The Polyamory Paradox, and to pick her brain about... more

Even if you aren't a spiritual person or don't have a spiritual practice, we have strategies that allow us to... more

This week's episode is for everyone out there who has had a loved one come out to them as non-monogamous.... more

Today we're joined by Billy Procida to answer some more of our Patreon listeners' questions! Billy Procida is a stand-up... more

Today, we’re sharing a preview of another show from the Pleasure Podcast Network: Shameless Sex. Join April and Amy as... more

On today's episode, we're talking about honesty...honestly. Many of us are taught from childhood that honesty is the best policy,... more

We talk a lot about polyamory and monogamy on this show, but what about ambiamory? You may have heard it... more

Are you ready to talk about jealousy again?! For today's episode we're joined by Dr. Joli Hamilton, the relationship coach... more

Today's episode is a special crossover with actress, comedian, dating expert, and podcast host Natasha Chandel from the Kinda Dating... more

We're back with another Q&A episode to answer some more listener questions! Today we're discussing open, honest conversations with non-romantic... more

For this week's episode, we're discussing the current political and legal landscape for polyamorous and non-monogamous folks. We're fortunate enough... more

Today we are sharing a preview from one of our favorite podcasts that we think you’ll enjoy. On Sluts and... more

Today we're talking about saturation, or more specifically, polysaturation, or the state in which a polyamorous person has as many... more

This week we're circling back to boundaries once again! In light of our book release, we're going to be sharing... more

This week we're joined by Jessica Esfandiary for another Q&A episode to answer some more listener questions! Today we'll tackle... more

Dating often puts a strain on our wallets, especially as inflation rates increase, so today we're discussing financial pressures that... more

Today's episode we're revisiting difficult conversations. In any relationship, there are often hard, emotional, or awkward conversations that we tend... more

Today we have another Q&A episode! We'll be discussing some of the challenges of being polyamorous in a monogamous world,... more

Spring is coming up, and so today we're talking about spring cleaning our relationships! Spring is a great time to... more

This week, we're joined by one of our research assistants, Dr. Keyanah Nurse, to talk about safe spaces in the... more

We're so excited to be joined by author Alyssa Gonzalez for today's episode! She is the author of Non-monogamy and... more

Let's dive into another Q&A episode with some questions from our Patreon supporters! This week we're talking about rebuilding friendship... more

In this extra episode, we want to feature one of our fellow podcasts on the Pleasure Podcasts network: Double Teamed... more

Martha Kauppi has rejoined us today to talk about coming out of the closet and how it relates in particular... more

This week we're joined by a very special guest, Frank Arthur Smith, a queer writer/director/actor/producer originally from Boston, Massachusetts. His... more

This week we're joined by Rabbi Nikki DeBlosi, PhD. She is a queer, polyamorous, entrepreneurial rabbi who brings expertise in... more

This week, we're talking about annoyances and deal breakers in terms of relationships. We're exploring the possibility that in this... more

After four years of work, our book is available for pre-order on Amazon, Barnes and Noble, and wherever books are... more

Join us for another Q&A episode where we answer some listener questions and discuss post-breakup friendships, fading NRE, creative ways... more

We as humans we love novelty, and when our relationships become complacent and repetitive, it can negatively affect them. However,... more

Today, we're talking about work, and how your relationship with work can affect your relationship with others, whether you have... more

Love bombing has become a hot topic both in psychology and on social media these days, and so during this... more

We're having our first Q&A episode in the new year with Dr. Zhana Vrangalova! During this episode, we learn a... more

One of the most searched relationship questions online is "Is it normal to have doubts about my relationship?" On today's... more

For today's episode, we're joined by Damona Hoffman to talk about a variety of topics, including dating and modern dating... more

We talk a lot about handling breakups in romantic relationships, but we haven't talked much about friendship breakups. In this... more

Glen Olson and Terry Lee Brussels, authors of the book "Fifty Years of Polyamory in America: A Guided Tour of... more

Kathy Labriola is back to discuss her most recent book with us, "Polyamorous Elders: Aging in Open Relationships," some of... more

It's our 400th episode! Join us for a conversation where we talk about how Multiamory is produced, all the people,... more

Author and professor Carrie Jenkins joins us this week to discuss her newest book, Sad Love: Romance and the Search... more

Today's episode is guaranteed to spark strong opinions. We're discussing relationship anarchy: can it be practiced in monogamy or is... more

We're back again with another Q&A episode to answer some of our listeners' questions! Today we're tackling the difficult topics... more

Today we're joined by Michael Kaye, head of communications at OKCupid! We're thrilled to have Michael join us to discuss... more

Part 2 of 50 Way to Handle Jealousy is here! Today's episode covers the final 24 out of the 50... more

Everyone in a consensually non-monogamous relationship gets asked the question, "How do you deal with the jealousy?" Even people who... more

It's time for another Q&A style episode! We're discussing some of our Patreon supporters' questions concerning polysaturation, communicating about availability,... more

We have another episode about stress to share with you! Today's episode is a discussion on what stress is and... more

Today we're talking about love addiction! Love addiction is a bit of a controversial term to begin with, so today... more

Today we're joined by Jessica Levity Daylover, elder millennial, polyamorous parent, entertainer, author, and more. Jessica has a BA in... more