Can interactions with strangers fulfill our need to belong? Does ironic detachment mask attachment insecurity? Should we try to change... more

In this special crossover episode of the Dateable podcast, Paul and Eli chat with hosts Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu... more

Is striving to avoid mistakes a good romantic strategy? Can couples who are mismatched on hotness get together? Does relationship... more

How does it feel to confront hard relationship choices? How can we truly listen to one another? What counts as... more

How can people navigate the “friendzone”? Do men need romantic relationships more than women do? Does confusion about one’s identity... more

Why is it so important to be able to celebrate with someone? Is parenting sexy? What are the challenges of... more

In this special crossover episode of The Happiness Lab podcast, Paul and Eli chat with Laurie Santos about lessons learned... more

What are the benefits of optimism? How do people transfer attachments from parents to romantic partners? What exactly counts as... more

How does a transactional mindset undermine relationship well-being? What’s the nature of stereotypes? How can we tie our hands to... more

In this special crossover episode of the Sex and Psychology podcast, Paul and Eli chat with Justin Lehmiller about how sex... more