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As a gay kid growing up Catholic, in conservative Texas, Jordan Gonsalves knew nothing about queer history. Now, as a journalist, he’s... more

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The Author of "The Best Little Boy in the World" on Gay Loneliness

Andy Tobias is one of the most well-known financial thinkers in America and was the treasurer of the Democratic National... more

05 Mar 2025 · 29 minutes
The New Health Crisis for Gay Men: Crystal Meth

Mark S. King is in recovery for a Crystal Meth addiction that almost destroyed his life. Gay men are 4x... more

26 Feb 2025 · 44 minutes
Raising Half a Billion Dollars to Fight AIDS

Tom Viola stepped down in December 2024, after leading Broadway Cares/Equity Fights AIDS for 36 years. His fundraising has helped... more

19 Feb 2025 · 40 minutes
An Oral History of the AIDS Crisis

In this recap of our season's coverage of AIDS, we weave together the different voices of our guests — and... more

12 Feb 2025 · 42 minutes
Gay Rights Activism in the 60s & 70s

Martha Shelley was one of the architects of the mid 20th century gay rights movement. She recalls the issues she... more

05 Feb 2025 · 33 minutes
Planning the Very First Gay Pride March

Ellen Broidy proposed and helped lead the very first Pride March in 1970 in NYC. She reflects back on what... more

29 Jan 2025 · 40 minutes
The Transformational Power of Knowing Your Gay History

Ken Lustbader is a historic preservationist and co-director of the NYC LGBT Historic Sites Project — which has identified nearly... more

22 Jan 2025 · 36 minutes
A Gay Man Called to be a Priest During the AIDS Crisis

Bill Glenn is the author of I Came Here Seeking a Person. A Vital Story of Grace; One Gay Man's Spiritual... more

15 Jan 2025 · 33 minutes
The American LGBTQ+ Museum’s Board Chair on the Power of Representation

Richard Burns has been a pillar of the American LGBTQ+ rights movement. He helped organize the first National March on... more

08 Jan 2025 · 35 minutes
The AIDS Activist that Smuggled Drugs to Save Lives

In the 80s and 90s, Derek Hodel was the executive director of the New York Buyer's Club — also known... more

18 Dec 2024 · 36 minutes
Olympic Diver Greg Louganis On Being A Gay Man In Sports

Greg Louganis is often considered the greatest diver of all time. But his sports journey was intertwined with his deep... more

11 Dec 2024 · 38 minutes
The Gay Children’s Book that Inspired a Culture War

Michael Willhoite wrote the 2nd most challenged book of the 1990s — a children's book called "Daddy's Roommate." The book... more

04 Dec 2024 · 26 minutes
The Founding of GLAAD

Jewelle Gomez co-founded GLAAD, the premier queer media watchdog organization, in 1985. She realized early that media was a tool... more

27 Nov 2024 · 35 minutes
Noah's Arc: The 1st Comedy to Center Black Gay Men

Patrik Ian-Polk is the creator of Noah's Arc, the first scripted TV show to center Black gay men. The show... more

20 Nov 2024 · 36 minutes
The Activist Responsible for Life Saving AIDS Drugs

Peter Staley was one of the most prominent members of the AIDS activism group ACT-UP. He is largely credited as... more

13 Nov 2024 · 43 minutes
The Founder of the Trevor Project on Suicide Prevention

This episode contains frank discussion on suicide. If you or someone you know is struggling with mental health, you can... more

06 Nov 2024 · 40 minutes
Compton's Cafeteria: The Riot Before Stonewall

Susan Stryker is a historian who unearthed the story of Compton's Cafeteria, the first known full-scale queer riot against police... more

30 Oct 2024 · 33 minutes
Voguing Goes Global

Luis Camacho Xtravaganza was one of the ballroom dancers who choreographed Madonna's music video for "Vogue." It took voguing from... more

23 Oct 2024 · 40 minutes
The History of Ballroom Culture

Rayceen Pendarvis is an elder in the House of Pendavis. Rayceen recounts the beginnings of ballroom, how it exploded in... more

16 Oct 2024 · 38 minutes
When Gay People Die, How Are We Remembered?

Larry Colton was profoundly impacted by the AIDS crisis in San Francisco. He reflects on the most difficult loss he... more

09 Oct 2024 · 38 minutes
Addiction in the LGBTQ+ Community

Experts say 20-30% of the LGBTQ community abuses substances. Donald Flowers Jr. is a gay man who was addicted to... more

02 Oct 2024 · 35 minutes
The Deadly Fire & The Gay Man that Changed New Orleans

Get your ticket to our free live show here, this Sunday, September 29th at 2:30pm in NYC! Stewart Butler shaped much... more

25 Sep 2024 · 39 minutes
The Escapism of Drag

Sherry Vine is a legendary drag queen that came up in the 90s, in NYC. She's aware of drag's super... more

18 Sep 2024 · 33 minutes
America's First "Major" Gay Mayor

In 2009, Annise Parker became the first openly gay mayor of a major American city. As mayor, her signature piece... more

11 Sep 2024 · 31 minutes
The Gay Origins of House Music

Lori Branch was one of the pioneering DJs of house music in the 80s. She reflects on the queer origins... more

04 Sep 2024 · 44 minutes
The History of Gay Cruising

Alex Espinoza is the author of the only official history on gay cruising: Cruising: An Intimate History of a Radical Pastime. He... more

14 Aug 2024 · 38 minutes
Studio 54 & Disco's Impact on Queerness

Studio 54 was much more than a club. It was the embodiment of disco — a movement that empowered LGBTQ+... more

07 Aug 2024 · 34 minutes
The Stroll: Sex Work in the LGBTQ+ Community, Pt. 2

In Part 2 of our episode with Tabytha Gonzalez, she details the consequences of her sex work: a harrowing drug... more

31 Jul 2024 · 26 minutes
The Stroll: Sex Work in the LGBTQ+ Community, Pt. 1

Tabytha Gonzalez is a trans woman who worked on The Stroll in the 90s, a historic area of NYC known... more

24 Jul 2024 · 33 minutes
Banned At Work: The Military’s Ban on Gays & Lesbians

Danny Ingram was a gay soldier who had to stay closeted during the military’s ban on gay people in the... more

17 Jul 2024 · 37 minutes
Before & After Pulse Nightclub

Brandon Wolf survived the Pulse nightclub shooting in 2016. Hailing from rural Oregon, Brandon reflects on how the club —... more

10 Jul 2024 · 36 minutes
The Love Story That Legalized Gay Marriage

Jim Obergefell was the plaintiff in the case that legalized gay marriage for all of America in 2015 (Obergefell v.... more

03 Jul 2024 · 38 minutes
The “Only” Gay in the Military

A lawsuit meant Zoe Dunning was the only LGBTQ+ person allowed in the miltiary for 13 years. Compliant at first, she would... more

26 Jun 2024 · 38 minutes
The AIDS Love Story You Never Heard Part 2

Jason Prefontaine's father died from AIDS related complications. Decades later, he reunited with him in an unexpected way. Special thank... more

19 Jun 2024 · 38 minutes
The AIDS Love Story You Never Heard Part 1

Chris Pimentel lost his first love to AIDS in 1991. But 30 years later, that love story got an unexpected... more

12 Jun 2024 · 41 minutes
Coming Out On YouTube (ft. Ingrid Nilsen)

Coming out on YouTube has defined a generation of young queer people. In 2015, Ingrid Nilsen posted one of the... more

05 Jun 2024 · 37 minutes
Mr. Marriage: The Man Behind Gay Marriage

Evan Wolfson was a major figure in the fight for gay marriage in America. He shares how - ironically -... more

29 May 2024 · 41 minutes
The Lesbians Who Led the AIDS Response

Jean Carlomusto is an Emmy-nominated documentarian. But in the 1980s, she was a scrappy filmmaker documenting the AIDS crisis for... more

22 May 2024 · 45 minutes
Meet Your Host (with Eric Marcus)

In this special episode, we learn more about our host, Jordan Gonsalves, in an interview with Eric Marcus from Making... more

15 May 2024 · 27 minutes
That One Night at Stonewall

Martin Boyce was part of the historic Stonewall Riots in June 1969. He recounts the events of that night in... more

15 May 2024 · 36 minutes
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Martin Boyce was part of the historic Stonewall Riots in June 1969. He recounts the events of that night in detail and... more