3AM Reset Podcast

By Elisha Kolade

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The 3AM Reset Podcast is your guide to permanently overcoming porn addiction. Hosted by Elisha Kolade, who fought this battle for over 13 years, this show fuses Christian wisdom, neuroscience, and coaching to reveal how your brain gets hijacked and how to reclaim control. Each episode delivers practical steps to break free from compulsive behaviors and rewire your mind for success in work, relationships, and life. With over 200 episodes, discover actionable strategies to become your best self. Join the journey to lasting recovery.

Episode Date
212 - The Hidden Influence of Pornography on Sexuality
Mar 08, 2025
211 - The 3 Hidden Dimensions of Sex: A Spiritual Warning You Can't Ignore
Feb 28, 2025
210 - Pride Before Relapse: 4 Critical Signs You're Sabotaging Your Recovery
Feb 22, 2025
209 - How To Deal With Suicidal Thoughts
Feb 15, 2025
208 - The Power of Mindset in Recovery
Feb 08, 2025
207 - How Masturbating To Porn Will Ruin Your Brain
Feb 01, 2025
206 - How To Conquer the Night: A Journey to Empowerment
Jan 25, 2025
205 : How To Quit Watching Porn : Trigger Elimination
Jan 18, 2025
204 - How To Quit Watching Porn in 2025
Jan 11, 2025
203 - How to Tell Your Wife About Your Porn Addiction: A Step-by-Step Guide
Jan 04, 2025
202 - Breaking the Chains: Why 2025 Must Be Your Year of Freedom
Dec 28, 2024
201 : Destroying Shame: The Hidden Key to Breaking Free
Dec 21, 2024
200 - The Christian's SECRET WEAPON Against Porn (that nobody talks about)
Dec 14, 2024
199 - The Hidden Epidemic Destroying Young Men
Dec 07, 2024
198 - Create In Me A Clean Heart Jesus
Nov 30, 2024
197 - What I learnt In 18 years of Quitting Masturbating To Porn
Nov 23, 2024
196 - Do I Need Deliverance From Porn (Series 2)
Nov 16, 2024
195 - Do I Need Deliverance From Watching Porn (Series 1) ?
Nov 09, 2024
194 - NoFap (FAQ) Frequently Asked Question : Should I Abstain From Sex During NoFap
Oct 29, 2024
193 - NoFap Flatline: How To Maximize This Crucial Phase Of Recovery
Oct 21, 2024
192 - 5 Benefits of Developing Self Awareness
Oct 15, 2024
191 - Can I Masturbate Without Watching Porn ?
Oct 09, 2024
190 - How To Prevent Relapse Post Porn Addiction
Oct 02, 2024
189 - 5 Myths About Masturbation Debunked
Sep 26, 2024
188 - How To Address Delayed Ejaculation
Sep 18, 2024
187 - Porn Sex Vs Real Sex ! Are There Any Differences
Sep 10, 2024
186 - 7 steps I took To Quit Masturbating To Pornography
Sep 03, 2024
185 - Is Your Husband Watching Porn ?
Aug 30, 2024
184 - What Is NoFap Flatline
Aug 27, 2024
183 - How to Build a Winning Mindset
Aug 22, 2024
182 - 5 Keys Skills Required To Reprogramme Porn Wired Brain
Aug 18, 2024
181 - 7 Pitfalls Of NoFap You Must Be On The Look Out For
Aug 16, 2024
180 - 7 Signs Of Excessive Masturbating You Need To Watch Out For
Aug 14, 2024
179 - How Long Does It Take For Your Brain To Conquer Pornography ?
Aug 13, 2024
178 - Porn Addiction Recovery 18 Years Free and Counting
Aug 08, 2024
How To Observe Your Thoughts. Epi 177
Aug 06, 2024
176 - Erectile Dysfunction from Porn: 3 Key Warning Signs
Aug 05, 2024
175 - How To Keep Your Freedom Post Porn Addiction
Aug 03, 2024
174 - 5 Steps To Stop Lusting Over Women
Aug 03, 2024
173 - How to Stop Relapsing: 4 Hidden Habits Keeping You Addicted To Pornography
Jul 30, 2024
172 - 7 Reasons Why Struggling To Eliminate Negative Thoughts
Jul 27, 2024
171 - How I Won My Battle Against Pornography Addiction
Jul 25, 2024
170 - How To Build Good Habits
Jul 21, 2024
169 - How To Clean Out Dirty Mind
Jul 19, 2024
168 - 5 Reasons Why I Stop Lusting Over Women
Jul 18, 2024
167 - Why You Must Learn To Forgive Yourself
Jul 17, 2024
166 - How To Stop Negative Repetitive Thoughts
Jul 16, 2024
165 - How To Be Happy As A single Guy
Jul 12, 2024
164 - I Wasted My 20s and I Regretted It. Here Are 5 Steps To Recover Lost Time
Jul 11, 2024
163 - Pornography Will Not Prepare You For Marriage
Jul 09, 2024
162 - How To Eliminate Sexual Performance Anxiety
Jul 08, 2024
161 - Is Today’s Culture Training Young Men To To Pornography
Jul 06, 2024
160 - Clearing the Fog: Overcoming Brain Fog on Your Journey Away from Pornography
Jul 05, 2024
159 - Escape the Trap: Mastering the Proactive Mindset for Recovery
Jul 04, 2024
158 - How to Break Free of Negative Thoughts
Jun 27, 2024
157 - I used to be insecure about myself. Here is my advice
Jun 26, 2024
156 - Habits Exposed: Are You Sabotaging Your Love Life?
Jun 25, 2024
155 - How to Stop The Urge of Watching
Jun 24, 2024
154 - What Masturbating Did to My Erection
Jun 23, 2024
153 - How To Become The Best Version of Yourself
Jun 22, 2024
152 - 4 Critical Actions to Conquer Pornography Addiction
Jun 21, 2024
151 - How Watching Slowly Kills My Erection
Jun 20, 2024
150 - 3 Toxic Mindset That Keeps You Trapped In Viewing Pornography
Jun 19, 2024
149 - How Watching Porn Ruined My Brain
Jun 18, 2024
148 - Ruined My Life: This Is My Personal Story
Jun 17, 2024
147 - No. 1 Way To Bounce Back From Slip Up
Jun 16, 2024
146 - Affirmations: The Secret Weapon for Reprogramming Your Life
Jun 15, 2024
145 - The Taboo Talk: Masturbation and the Creator’s Perspective
Jun 14, 2024
144 - Breaking Free with a Pen: The Transformative Role of Journaling in Your Pornography Recovery Journey
Jun 13, 2024
143 - Chaos, Be Gone: 5 Transformative Steps to Unleash Clarity and Embrace Recovery
Jun 12, 2024
142 - Unleash Your Voice: 3 Powerful Reasons Why Speaking Up Matters
Jun 11, 2024
141 - Old Man Out: Resurrecting Your Best Self
Jun 10, 2024
140 - Cracking the Code: The Step-by-Step Guide to Loving Yourself
Jun 09, 2024
139 - When Dad Wasn’t There: Confronting the Abandoned Child Within
Jun 08, 2024
138 - What I Wish I Knew In My 30s
Jun 07, 2024
137 - How to Hack Your Brain: From Pessimist to Optimist
Jun 06, 2024
136 - Break Free: Using Repetition to Transform Your Recovery Journey
Jun 05, 2024
135 - From ’I Do’ to ’Oh My!’: Surprises Every Newlywed Faces
Jun 04, 2024
134 - From Pixels to Progress: Celebrating Each -Free Step
Jun 03, 2024
133 - How to Keep Your Recovery on Rails: Avoiding ’s Traps
Jun 02, 2024
132 - The Long Haul: Understanding the Real Path to Recovery
Jun 01, 2024
131 - My and Me: Navigating Masturbation’s Impact - A Personal Journey
May 31, 2024
130 - Things I Wish I knew In My 20s
May 30, 2024
129 - Your Voice: Your Greatest Asset During Recovery
May 29, 2024
128 - Breaking Free: The Power of Self-Love and Christ’s Unconditional Love in Recovery
May 28, 2024
127 - The Unexpected Dangers of Dating During Recovery
May 27, 2024
126-From Shame to Celebration: 3 Revelations Fuelling PornFree Triumph
May 26, 2024
125 - The Relapse Insight Goldmine: How to Leverage Your Journal
May 25, 2024
124 - The Struggle: Staying PornFree When Your Pregnant Wife Says No
May 24, 2024
123 - Childhood Wounds That Never Heal (Until You Apply This Approach)
May 23, 2024
122 - Lust in Marriage: The Elephant in The Bedroom
May 22, 2024
121 - The Hard Truth of Refused Intimacy After Kicking
May 21, 2024
120 - How to Rebuild Rock-Solid Self-Esteem After ’s Degradation
May 20, 2024
119 - Dismantling ’s Mental Loops Through Thought-Questioning
May 19, 2024
118-My Stolen Decades:How Stole My Brain (And How I Took It Back)
May 18, 2024
117 - Can a Addict Change ?
May 17, 2024
116 - Why We Need to Talk About Consequences of Hypersexuality
May 16, 2024
115 - No Pain, No Gain: Leaning Into the Discomfort of Recovery
May 15, 2024
114 - When the Flesh Fails, The Spirit Redeems: A Addict’s Prayer
May 14, 2024
113- Stop Counting The Days You Stop Watching Porn
May 13, 2024
112 - Navigating in Committed Relationships
May 12, 2024
111 - Surviving the First 48 Hours: Relapse’s Point of No Return
May 11, 2024
110 - The 3 Goal-Setting Traps Sabotaging Your Recovery
May 10, 2024
109 - 2 Roadblocks Keeping You Stuck in (And How I Broke Through)
May 09, 2024
108 - Overcoming : The Overlooked Root Causes of Toxic Shame
May 08, 2024
107 - The Surprising Reasons I Decided to Stop Masturbating
May 07, 2024
106 - Why You Need to Forgive Yourself for Wasted Hours Watching
May 06, 2024
105 - How To Break The Grip of Masturbation Using God's Word
May 05, 2024
104 - How to Overcome The Fear of Starting Your Recovery From
May 04, 2024
103 - How To Journal Effectively During Your Recovery from
May 03, 2024
102 - How To Win The Battle Over Negative Thoughts
May 02, 2024
101 - How To Disrupt Your Old Ways of Thinking About Porn
May 01, 2024
100 - Discover Why Your Words Is Holding You Back
Apr 30, 2024
99 - Failure Is a Word I Cannot Accept
Apr 29, 2024
98 - How To Set Goals For Recovery
Apr 29, 2024
97 - Stop Befriending Your Inner Child
Apr 28, 2024
96 - You Slip Up ? So What
Apr 28, 2024
95 - How to Develop the Power of Your Inner Self Over Your Body
Apr 27, 2024
94 - Harnessing the Power of the Blood of Jesus On Toxic Thoughts
Apr 27, 2024
93 - How To Deal With Negative Thoughts
Apr 26, 2024
92 - How To Date After Addiction: Building for Lasting Love
Apr 26, 2024
91 - Why You Are Having Wet Dreams During Your Recovery Journey
Apr 25, 2024
90 - How Do I Forgive Myself From The Pain I Experienced As a Child
Apr 25, 2024
89 - Why Do You Reject Yourself ?
Apr 24, 2024
88 - How To Stop Comparing Yourself With Others
Apr 24, 2024
87 - One Day at a Time: How Daily Choices Shape Your Recovery
Apr 23, 2024
86 - How To Make It Past The First 7 Days Of Your Recovery
Apr 23, 2024
85 - Sperm Health Exposed: The Truth About Masturbation
Apr 22, 2024
84 - Setting Up Guardrails In Your Journey Towards Recovery
Apr 22, 2024
83 - Stop Telling Yourself You Cant Quit Watching Pornography
Apr 21, 2024
82 - You Are Not Powerless
Apr 21, 2024
81 - Breaking Free: Transforming Fantasy into Intimate Connection
Apr 20, 2024
80 - Help! I’ve Lost Motivation for Recovery
Apr 20, 2024
79 - Mind Mastery: Unlocking Recovery Success Through Laser Focus
Apr 19, 2024
78 - THE Wandering MIND Vs Passive Mind Vs Engaged MIND
Apr 19, 2024
77 - 3 Types of Actions That Gets You Results During Your Recovery
Apr 18, 2024
76 - 5 Key Components for Practicing Self Awareness During Recovery
Apr 18, 2024
75 - Picturing Yourself Without The DESIRE To Watch
Apr 17, 2024
74 - The Real You Is a Spiritual Being
Apr 17, 2024
73 - Beware Of Familiarity Trap
Apr 16, 2024
72 - Why Are You Bored With Life ?
Apr 16, 2024
71 - 5 Goals You Must Set For Yourself Before Embarking on Recovery
Apr 15, 2024
70 - Self Forgiveness
Apr 15, 2024
69 - The Dark Side of Recovery
Apr 14, 2024
68 - The Wandering Vs The Focused Mind
Apr 14, 2024
67 - Taking advantage of Flatline During Your Recovery
Apr 13, 2024
66 - The Journey Vs The Destination
Apr 13, 2024
65 - Deprive The Urge , Feed Your Future
Apr 12, 2024
64 - Indecision Is Stealing Your Recovery
Apr 12, 2024
63 - Celebrate You
Apr 11, 2024
62 - The Reasons Why I quit Viewing Porn
Apr 11, 2024
61 - How to Woo Your Wife Again After Quitting
Apr 10, 2024
60 - Pornography Trap : How To Avoid It
Apr 09, 2024
59 - Setting Boundaries When Your Partner Is Struggling With
Apr 08, 2024
58 - The Stress Trap : Escaping False Promises
Apr 07, 2024
57 - My Wife Caught Me Watching
Apr 06, 2024
56 - Why You Should Eliminate Toxic People from Your Life
Apr 05, 2024
55 - Should I Delete My Social Media Account ?
Apr 04, 2024
54 - Unveiling the Mask of Intimacy : What Taught Me In 14 Years
Apr 03, 2024
53 - A Guide to Unstoppable Recovery
Apr 02, 2024
52 - How To Breaking Free From Victim Mindset
Apr 01, 2024
51 - Uncovering Your True Self in Recovery
Mar 31, 2024
50 - Jesus Is Interested In Your Recovery Over Pornography ?
Mar 30, 2024
49 -You Need A Plan For Recovery: Navigating Addiction’s Grip
Mar 29, 2024
48 - The Secret Erection Killer
Mar 28, 2024
47 - Use Your Slip Up As a Data Intelligence Gathering Exercise
Mar 27, 2024
46 - Navigating Intimacy: Overcoming ’s Impact on Married Life
Mar 26, 2024
45 - Sexual Performance Anxiety Got the Best of Me
Mar 25, 2024
44 - Willpower Alone Won’t Cut It, But Prayer Can Conquer Lust
Mar 24, 2024
43. How To Cultivate a Freedom Mindset
Mar 23, 2024
42. Signposts on Your Journey: What to Look For in Recovery
Mar 22, 2024
#41. Self-Sabotage: How My Childhood Impacted Mine Dating Life
Mar 21, 2024
#40. Discovering Your True ”Why” for Quitting
Mar 20, 2024
39 - Uncovering the Heart of the Heavenly Father
Mar 19, 2024
38 - Mastering Your Thoughts 6.0 : A New Mind Audit
Mar 18, 2024
#37. How Your Thought Determine Your Success In Recovery
Mar 17, 2024
#36. How To Rise Above Shame
Mar 16, 2024
#35. The Problem With Relying On Will Power To Recover From
Mar 15, 2024
#34. How To Regain Control Your Imagination
Mar 14, 2024
#33. What Is The Origin Story Of Your
Mar 13, 2024
#32. Boundaries 6.0
Mar 12, 2024
#31. How To Regain The Control Of Your Mental State
Mar 11, 2024
#30. Forgive Yourself
Mar 10, 2024
#29. -Free But Not Healed? What Comes Next and Why
Mar 09, 2024
#28. How to Make Each Day in Recovery More Fulfilling
Mar 08, 2024
27 - How To Identify Why You Watch Porn
Mar 07, 2024
#26. Healing Your Heart: The Inner Work Crucial for Recovery
Mar 06, 2024
#25. How Occasional Use Became a Full-Blown Addiction
Mar 05, 2024
#24. Maximizing Recovery Means More Than Just Avoiding
Mar 04, 2024
#23. Slip Up? Time to Learn, Not Beat Yourself Up. Here Are Next Steps
Mar 03, 2024
#22. This Bible Verse Helped Me Quit for Good
Mar 02, 2024
#21. Singles vs Married in Recovery : Who Has it Tougher ?
Mar 01, 2024
#20. Coping With Embarrassing Erections in Public
Feb 29, 2024
#19. Daybreak Freedom: How A.M. Habits Anchor Your Recovery
Feb 28, 2024
#18. Staying on Track With Recovery Despite Your Busy Calendar
Feb 27, 2024
#17. Breaking The Relapse Cycle
Feb 26, 2024
#16. Thinking Twice Before Making Ur Partner Ur Accountability Partner
Feb 25, 2024
#15. Is Dating a Good Idea While Watching Pornography?
Feb 24, 2024
#14. Uncovering Pornography Use in Marriage: Recognizing Red Flags
Feb 23, 2024
#13 . The Recovery Mindset: Moving Beyond Day Counting
Feb 22, 2024
#12. Pornographic Perversions in Public: Redirecting Explicit Thoughts
Feb 20, 2024
11- Unleash Your Mind: Harnessing Imagination for Good
Feb 19, 2024
#10. Think Fantasies Are Harmless? How Mine Derailed My Recovery
Feb 17, 2024
#9. Is There Hope For Me ?
Feb 16, 2024
#8. Using Spirituality When Quitting
Feb 15, 2024
#7. Regret Your Sexual Past? How I Finally Broke Free
Feb 12, 2024
6 - Does Watching Pornography Affect Sexual Orientation?
Feb 07, 2024
#5 Affirm To Transform : Speak Recovery Into Existence
Feb 05, 2024
#4. 5 ways P*rn destroy your brain
Feb 03, 2024
3 - Mummy, What is P*rn? My 9-Year-Old Son Asked
Jan 30, 2024
2 Parenthood: My Struggle With Masturbation During Pregnancy
Jan 28, 2024
1- My Brink of Death at Soho : Where a Prostitute Nearly Ended My Life
Jan 27, 2024