
It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain
Lalalaletmeexplain is here to answer all YOUR questions around love, dating, sex, and relationships. Her unfiltered advice is not only candid and insightful, but she delivers you tough love when needed. Having swam the depths of the dating pool herself, Lala’s advice comes from a place of experience and expertise.
On Mondays Lala will be addressing a hot topic of the week, whether it’s a discussion around female misogyny blowing up your timeline or the arguments around Sex Education in schools that’s splashed across the headlines. Wednesdays she’s tackling your issues and conundrums around love, sex and relationships and on Fridays Lala will be diving into your dating dilemmas, red flag alerts, instant ick reactions and sharing her weekend reminders. And twice a month she’ll be joined by a guest to deliberate your questions.
Lala is the author of the best-selling dating guide Block, Delete, Move On, OK Mag’s resident agony aunt, a sexual health and relationship educator and she’s a social worker with over a decade of experience in child safeguarding and child protection. It's Not You, It's Them...But it Might Be You is the trustworthy, down to earth advice that you've been waiting for!
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To get in touch please DM Lala in instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain.
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column. https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/
On Mondays Lala will be addressing a hot topic of the week, whether it’s a discussion around female misogyny blowing up your timeline or the arguments around Sex Education in schools that’s splashed across the headlines. Wednesdays she’s tackling your issues and conundrums around love, sex and relationships and on Fridays Lala will be diving into your dating dilemmas, red flag alerts, instant ick reactions and sharing her weekend reminders. And twice a month she’ll be joined by a guest to deliberate your questions.
Lala is the author of the best-selling dating guide Block, Delete, Move On, OK Mag’s resident agony aunt, a sexual health and relationship educator and she’s a social worker with over a decade of experience in child safeguarding and child protection. It's Not You, It's Them...But it Might Be You is the trustworthy, down to earth advice that you've been waiting for!
A Sony Music Entertainment production.
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
To get in touch please DM Lala in instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain.
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column. https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/
149 episodes • 0 archived •
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Tell Him How Many Times You've Had An Orgasm!S1 E119·
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Father LalaS1 E117·
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Lala's Confession BoxS1 E114·
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Usher, Rap WhatsApps and Stump IcksS1 E108·
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Tate Debate & Sex Drive DiscussionS1 E107·
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Red Flags with Katie PriceS1 E105·
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Contraception, Condoms and Casual SexS1 E104·
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New Year..... Same You!S1 E76·
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Why Didn't He Choose Me? Can I Call Her A Slut? Your Boner Problems AnsweredS1 E74·
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Best of The Icks Part 2S1 E73·
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The Pain Of Heartbreak: What NOT To DoS1 E61·
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Understanding Limerence: From Infatuation to ObsessionS1 E58·
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24 mins
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18 mins
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Too Much Too Soon, Mismatched Sex Drives, and No Labels Fuck BoysS1 E50·
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20 mins
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Embarrassing Clownery: Why Do We Do It?!S1 E49·
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23 mins
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Kathy Burke Tackles Your Dating DilemmasS1 E48·
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22 mins
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22 mins
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Married At First Sight: Recognising and Escaping Narcissistic Abuse and Spiritual F**kboysS1 E40·
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Daisy May Cooper Takes On Your Dating DilemmasS1 E39·
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26 mins
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It was 4 Inches not 12, Anonymous Only Fans and Is My Friend’s Partner a Predator?S1 E38·
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Oct 11, 2023
20 mins
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Why We Need To Talk About TateS1 E37·
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Oct 9, 2023
27 mins
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Apathy for Asthmatics, Perspiration Peeves and Titty Tuesday IcksS1 E36·
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21 mins
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Casual Sex, Body Count Bias and a Situationship Gone WrongS1 E35·
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Oct 4, 2023
21 mins
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When Age Gaps Become ProblematicS1 E34·
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Oct 2, 2023
24 mins
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Bed Making, D**k Slapping and Second Date IcksS1 E33·
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23 mins
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More BJ’s, Anxious Attachment and A Case of LimerenceS1 E32·
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23 mins
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24 mins
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20 mins
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Sep 20, 2023
37 mins
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Track Your Cycle to Change Your LifeS1 E28·
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24 mins
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Polyamory Red Flag and The Power Of Forest GumpS1 E27·
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22 mins
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Lost in Translation, Love Bombing and Navigating InfidelityS1 E26·
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20 mins
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'Slut Shaming' Her To Get To Him – Logan Paul vs Dillon DanisS1 E25·
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17 mins
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Untamed Bush and Bringing Lube To a First DateS1 E24·
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23 mins
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Feeld, Female Misogynist and an Overly Familiar ExS1 E23·
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24 mins
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Two Banana’s, A Blood Bath And a Trip to A&ES1 E22·
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The Lighthouse Family Ick, Misogynist Red Flags and The Lasagne VirginS1 E21·
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22 mins
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Is Porn Making Men Bad in Bed?S1 E20·
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23 mins
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Navigating Life with ADHDS1 E19·
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25 mins
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21 mins
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Girl Code and the Disappearing Willy WasherS1 E17·
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20 mins
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Body Counts - Why People Who Use Them Against Women Are IdiotsS1 E16·
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26 mins
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Lord Coldimort Icks, Naked Panic and a Failed HousewarmingS1 E15·
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Bisexual Boyfriends and X Rated Over SharingS1 E14·
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Aug 16, 2023
18 mins
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Not Guilty Doesn't Mean Innocent: A Discussion About the Justice System and Rape with Grace CampbellS1 E13·
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22 mins
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Narcissism, Stag Woes and Finding Out He's MarriedS1 E11·
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Aug 9, 2023
23 mins
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Understanding Limerence: From Infatuation to ObsessionS1 E10·
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Aug 7, 2023
20 mins
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F**kboy Replies, Welcome Breeze Icks, and a Big UpdateS1 E9·
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Aug 4, 2023
26 mins
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One Night Stands, Fancying Colleagues and Dating as a MumS1 E8·
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Aug 2, 2023
20 mins
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What About Men?S1 E7·
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Jul 31, 2023
27 mins
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Negging Trolls, Needing Space and a Mail Order Bride?S1 E5·
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Jul 26, 2023
24 mins
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The Problem With Female Misogynist GriftersS1 E4·
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Jul 24, 2023
23 mins
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The OG of Ick StoriesS1 E3·
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Jul 21, 2023
22 mins
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Squirting, Sleeping With Brothers and Labia WoesS1 E2·
Jul 19, 2023
Jul 19, 2023
21 mins
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Is sex education controversial?S1 E1·
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Jul 17, 2023
19 mins
Introducing: It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain
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