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Welcome to More Than Roommates, where we want to help you take the next step to be more intentional in your marriage. We want to help you avoid falling into the trap of being merely roommates with your spouse. We hope that through authentic, biblical, and practical conversation you will gain tools and wisdom to help you take one step closer to the Lord and the marriage He intends for you and your spouse. Listen in as Scott Kedersha, Gabrielle McCullough, and Derek Davidson help you intentionally strengthen your relationship.
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Welcome to More Than Roommates, where we want to help you take the next step to be more intentional in your marriage. We want to help you avoid falling into the trap of being merely roommates with your spouse. We hope that through authentic, biblical, and practical conversation you will gain tools and wisdom to help you take one step closer to the Lord and the marriage He intends for you and your spouse. Listen in as Scott Kedersha, Gabrielle McCullough, and Derek Davidson help you intentionally strengthen your relationship.
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1 Episode 121 - Christ Is the Melody of Your Marriage (feat. John Elmore) 36:24
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In this episode of More Than Roommates, John Elmore shares an incredibly powerful message about how Jesus is to be the composer, the conductor, and the canon of the melody of our marriage. This talk was recorded live at the 2025 More Than Roommates Marriage Conference at Harris Creek Baptist Church. Scriptures: Genesis 2:20b-25 Matthew 19:4-6 Colossians 3:18-19 John 17:17 Ephesians 5:22-33 Questions to Discuss: 1. Do you act like you’re the composer of your marriage, or do you acknowledge that Jesus is the composer of marriage? 2. How can you let Christ be the conductor of your marriage? 3. Take time to listen to Canon in D and pray for and reflect upon your marriage as John guides in the message. Resources This is an edited version of the talk. If you want to watch the video of the Melody talk, you can watch it through this link – Melody Video .…
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1 Episode 120 - 7 Things Healthy Couples Do To Stay in Harmony in Their Marriage 35:57
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In this episode of More Than Roommates, Scott & Kristen Kedersha discuss how to be in Harmony with one another in marriage. This talk was recorded live at the 2025 More Than Roommates Marriage Conference at Harris Creek Baptist Church. Scriptures: John 15:5 Matthew 19:3-6 Ecc 9:9 Gen 2:18 Heb 10:24-25 Matthew 7:3-5 1 Corinthians 10:12 Questions to Discuss: 1. Of the 7 aspects of Harmony shared by Scott & Kristen, where are you doing well? 2. Of these 7 aspects of Harmony shared by Scott & Kristen, where are you struggling? 3. Ask each other the 7 tune-up questions shared throughout this talk. Resources: This is an edited/condensed version of the talk. If you want to watch the entirety of the Harmony message, you can watch it through this link - Harmony Video .…
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1 Episode 119 - How To Invest Time, Money, and Energy Into Your Marriage 25:27
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In this episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott talk about the importance of good investments. There are many ways we can invest our time, money, and energy, and in this episode we discuss the importance of regularly investing in your marriage. Resources: Book - Surrendered Sexuality: How Knowing Jesus Changes... Everything , by Juli Slattery (release July 1, 2025) MTR Episode 62 – Your Marriage and the Unhurried Life (feat. Chris Schultz) MTR Episode 64 – Questions to Ask Your Spouse Every Week MTR Episode 90 – Our Favorite Marriage Resources Intentionality In Your Marriage – John & Pam McGee, Uncommon Marriage Conference 2022 Scriptures: Ephesians 5:25 Matthew 6:21 Questions to Discuss: What are some areas of your life where you invest your time, money, and energy? How can you invest more time and energy in your marriage? How can you invest more money in your marriage?…
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1 Episode 118 - Small Things Make a Big Difference in Marriage – (feat. Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goi 30:08
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In Part 2 of their interview with Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss how the little things truly matter in marriage. We discuss the importance of believing the best about our spouse and why we need a combination of quality and quantity time together. Scriptures: 1 Peter 3:9 Rom 2:4 Phil 4:8 Questions to Discuss: What are some small changes you can make in your marriage that could make a big difference? How do you and your spouse do at believing the best about your spouse’s intentions? How can you create more quality and quantity time together with your spouse? Resources: Book - The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages: The Little Things That Make a Big Difference , by Shaunti Feldhahn Shaunti’s Website – Shaunti.com Follow Shaunti on Instagram Follow Brian on Instagram Married With Benefits Podcast (FamilyLife Network) Podcast - I Wish You Could Hear This with Shaunti & Jeff Feldhahn…
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1 Episode 117 - Changing the Way We Talk About Marriage – (feat. Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins) 26:12
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In Part 1 of a 2-Part interview, Gabrielle, Derek, and Scott interview Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins about the small things that make all the difference in marriage. In Part 1 we discuss the myth that 50% of all marriages end in divorce and why it’s harmful to perpetuate this myth Scriptures: 1 Cor 13:13 Hebrews 3:13 1 Cor 7:28 Questions to Discuss: How can you build your sense of hope in your marriage? What would you tell a young couple before they get married? How would you encourage or challenge them? What are some ways you need to change the way you talk about marriage with others? Resources: Shaunti’s Website – Shaunti.com Follow Shaunti on Instagram Follow Brian on Instagram Married With Benefits Podcast (FamilyLife Network) Podcast - I Wish You Could Hear This with Shaunti & Jeff Feldhahn…
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1 Episode 116 - How Can You Serve Each Other in Marriage When You Don’t Feel Like It? 24:09
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In this episode of More Than Roommates, Gabrielle, Derek, and Scott discuss the importance and centrality of serving your spouse in marriage when life is full and busy and when you don’t feel like it! Scriptures: Mark 10:45 Gal 5:13 Phil 2:1-11 Phil 1:27 1 Cor 13:6 1 Peter 3:7 Resources: Book – Us in Mind: How Changing Your Thoughts Can Change Your Marriage , by Ted Lowe More Than Roommates – Episode 16 – The Importance of Empathy in Marriage (feat. Ted Lowe) Questions to Discuss: 1. What is the thing around the house you hate to do? 2. What is one thing your spouse hates to do around the house? 3. What Does It Look Like to Serve Each Other in Your Marriage?…
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1 Resources to Help Marital Intimacy and What To Do Next? MTR Quickies Episode 12 10:52
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In this mini episode of More Than Roommates (our last “Quickie”), Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss what’s next—what do you do with all that’s been shared in these 12 days of Quickie episodes. We also share some recommended resources to help you take the next step in your marriage and sexual intimacy. Questions to Discuss: Which episode of the 12 days of Quickies was most helpful to you? What’s something you learned in this series that you want to apply in your marriage? Are there some concepts discussed in these episodes that would be good to discuss with community to help encourage and challenge each other? Resources: Book – Married Sex: A Christian Couple’s Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life , by Gary Thomas and Debra Fileta Website – Authentic Intimacy Podcast – Christian Sexuality – Java with Juli Podcasts – The Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis and Marriage on the Line with Dave & Ashley Book – A Celebration of Sex for Newlyweds , by Douglas Rosenau Book - Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference , by Shaunti Feldhahn and Michael Sytsma…
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1 Frequently Asked Questions About Sex - MTR Quickie Episode 11 14:42
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In this mini episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss some frequently asked questions about sex, including questions about cussing in the bedroom, sexual abuse, can I say “No,” sex during menstruation, and more. Scriptures: 1 Corinthians 7:1-5 Hebrews 13:4 Ephesians 4:29 Questions to Discuss: How do you handle it in your marriage when one of you is in the mood for sex and the other isn’t? Is there any part of your past/your story that would be helpful to discuss a counselor or doctor to get some help and guidance? What questions do you still have about sex and marriage? Email them in to marriage@harriscreek.org for future episodes. Resources: Book – Married Sex: A Christian Couple’s Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life , by Gary Thomas and Debra Fileta Website – Authentic Intimacy Ministry for those who have experienced sexual abuse – Courageous Hope at Harris Creek Book – Rid of My Disgrace: Hope and Healing for Victims of Sexual Assault , by Justin & Lindsey Holcomb…
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1 Is the Goal of Sex Mutual Orgasm? MTR Quickie Episode 10 12:37
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In this mini episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss a frequently asked question about orgasms—for him, for her, and the elusive unicorn of mutual orgasm. We also discuss some common differences between the male and female orgasm. Questions to Discuss: Have you and your spouse discussed your expectations about how to please each other? How can you take one step to help your spouse reach orgasm? How do you do in giving feedback to each other in the bedroom? Resources: Book – Married Sex: A Christian Couple’s Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life , by Gary Thomas and Debra Fileta Podcast – The Naked Marriage Podcast – Should We Orgasm Together? Website – Authentic Intimacy…
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1 A Christian Perspective on Birth Control - MTR Quickie Episode 9 14:17
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In this mini episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss a frequently asked question— how followers of Christ should think about and make decisions about birth control. What does the Bible say and how Christians should think about birth control. Scriptures: Psalm 127:3 Romans 12:2 1 Cor 6:19-20 Questions to Discuss: Have you and your spouse discussed your views about birth control? Take some time to pray about what God would have you do regarding birth control. Do some research about birth control and discuss with your doctor and your community as needed. Resources: Book – Married Sex: A Christian Couple’s Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life , by Gary Thomas and Debra Fileta Podcast – More Than Roommates Episode 42 – When’s the Right Time to Grow Your Family? Website – Authentic Intimacy…
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1 Addressing Common Myths About Sex - MTR Quickie Episode 8 12:33
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In this mini episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss some common myths and stereotypes about sex drive, desire, and frequency and some potential differences between men and women. Questions to Discuss: What’s the biggest challenge you face in your marriage related to sex drive, desire, and frequency? Have a conversation with your spouse about the topics raised in this episode. Make sure you listen well and seek to understand. Resources: Book – Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference , by Shaunti Feldhahn and Dr. Michael Sytsma Book – Married Sex: A Christian Couple’s Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life , by Gary Thomas and Debra Fileta Podcast – Married with Benefits (FamilyLife Network) Website – Authentic Intimacy…
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1 What If There’s Pain, Guilt, or Shame in Sex? MTR Quickie Episode 7 12:26
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In this mini episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss common challenges couples face with sexual intimacy. These challenges (such as past abuse and trauma, physical pain, guilt and shame) are more common than we might realize, and if you’re struggling, you are not alone! Scriptures: Romans 8:1 Genesis 3 2 Cor 5:17 Questions to Discuss: What’s been the biggest challenge the two of you have faced in sexual intimacy? Who can you connect with to discuss any issues/challenges you face/could face when it comes to sexual intimacy? Resources: Book – Married Sex: A Christian Couple’s Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life , by Gary Thomas and Debra Fileta Website – Authentic Intimacy…
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1 Married Sex In Different Seasons of Life - MTR Quickie Episode 6 10:54
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In this mini episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss how sex changes in different seasons of marriage – newlyweds, with a newborn, with kids in the house, empty nest, and everything in between. Scriptures: 1 Peter 3:7 Genesis 2:25 Song of Solomon Questions to Discuss: How can you best serve each other in marriage and sexual intimacy in your current season of marriage? What’s one challenge you anticipate in the season ahead and how can you proactively address some of the potential challenges? Resources: Book – Married Sex: A Christian Couple’s Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life , by Gary Thomas and Debra Fileta…
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1 Is It Okay To Have a Quickie? - MTR Quickie Episode 5 10:33
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In this mini episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss whether or not it’s within bounds to “have a quickie.” We discuss different ways to think about sex depending on your schedule and margin, and how to have a healthy rhythm of intimacy. Questions to Discuss: 1. Are you and your spouse on the same page when it comes to quickies? 2. How can you make space for more extended time for intimacy together? Resources: Book – Married Sex: A Christian Couple’s Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life , by Gary Thomas and Debra Fileta The Naked Marriage Podcast…
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1 Specific Questions of What’s In and Out of Bounds - MTR Quickie Episode 4 14:04
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In this mini episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss specific questions of what’s in and out of bounds in the bedroom. What does the Bible say about specific questions such as pornography, masturbation, positions, oral sex, and so much more. Scriptures: Hebrews 13:4 1 Cor 6:18 Ephesians 5:3 MT 5:27-28 1 Cor 10:31 Questions to Discuss: 1. What are some ways you can honor your spouse and serve them in the bedroom? Discuss with one another. 2. Take a few moments to pray and ask God to help you honor God and your spouse when it comes to what’s in bounds and out of bounds. Pray for grace, patience, and tenderness with one another. Resources: Book – Married Sex: A Christian Couple’s Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life , by Gary Thomas and Debra Fileta…
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