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We're Not Fine
We're Not Fine
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Renowned relationship therapists, Doug Jensen and Dr. Talia Jackson explore the ins and outs of relationships in the new podcast, We’re Not... more

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Episodes

Couple’s Therapy 101: Divorce! Couples’ Therapists look for these 11 signs...

In this episode, Doug and Dr. Talia share their 50 years of combined experience in the couples’ therapy room. Being... more

14 May 2024 · 38 minutes
Healing the Mother Wound; A We’re Not Fine Mother’s Day Episode with Gao Motsemme

Meet Gao Motsemme, a Botswana born current resident of Germany, and mother of three from a long ancestral lineage of... more

07 May 2024 · 1 hour, 17 minutes
Too early for divorce? Too late for therapy? Where is the line?

In this mailbag episode, Doug and Dr. Talia hear from two people completely fed up with their spouse and ready... more

30 Apr 2024 · 59 minutes
Bad Dates, Red Flags, and other Cautionary Tales

You know the saying that when you wear rose colored glasses, red flags just look like flags? Well, in this... more

23 Apr 2024 · 1 hour, 6 minutes
Give up the ghost. The reason they ghosted you is...

In this episode, Doug and Dr Talia respond to two mailbags, both from people that explain why they have ghosted... more

16 Apr 2024 · 52 minutes
Your friend hurt you, is your friendship salvageable or do you need to move on?

In this episode, Dr Talia and Doug talk to Minneapolis based, friendship-focused writer and podcaster, Nina Badzin. Your friend hurt... more

09 Apr 2024 · 1 hour, 8 minutes
My late wife’s sister tried sleeping with me...

In this episode Dr Talia and Doug look at two very relatable issues. In the first mailbag, a young father... more

02 Apr 2024 · 1 hour, 9 minutes
Mailbag episode! “I gave myself a total makeover with zero results in the dating department.”

In this episode, Doug and Dr. Talia tackle two heartfelt mailbags. In the first letter, a gentleman who has had... more

26 Mar 2024 · 1 hour, 8 minutes
Not the Man I Used to Be; Getting to Know Yourself Again After a Brain Aneurism with Guest Andrew Davie

In this episode, Doug and Dr Talia talk to Andrew Davie, a true Renaissance man. He is an author of... more

19 Mar 2024 · 1 hour, 15 minutes
Loneliness is the Silent Killer and the here is the Antidote; LIVE episode with guest Anna Bonavita

Loneliness is a global health crisis. In this episode Dr Talia and Doug have a moving conversation with Anna... more

12 Mar 2024 · 1 hour, 6 minutes
Hook Up Horror Stories & Deviant Diaries with guest Demi Wylde

In this episode, Doug and Dr. Talia talk to author and sex educator, Demi Wilde about hook up horror stories... more

05 Mar 2024 · 1 hour, 7 minutes
When I’m Sorry isn't enough; 5 ways to deepen your apology after an affair with guest Dr. Deb Miller

In this episode, Dr. Talia and Doug have a lively conversation with Dr. Deb about how to deepen your apology... more

27 Feb 2024 · 1 hour, 12 minutes
Where did your joy and passion go? What to do when apathy overcomes you

In this episode Doug and Dr Talia tackle the scariest of all emotions; the contagious, heavy, and unmotivated wave ... more

20 Feb 2024 · 59 minutes
Tantric Loving in the Suburbs with our guest Hannah Spanke; Somatic, Sexology, and Tantra Coach

In this episode, Dr Talia and Doug speak with the enigmatic Hannah Spanke, who shares with us her rocky road... more

13 Feb 2024 · 1 hour, 21 minutes
Anger gets a bad rap; how to manage, regulate and express your anger in an adaptive way

Fight, flight or freeze; what is your go to coping strategy? In this episode, Doug and Dr Talia tackle Anger... more

06 Feb 2024 · 1 hour, 4 minutes
Birth, Death and Everything in Between with Sister Doulas Sarah Longacre and Wendy Longacre-Brown

In this second live recording of our We’re Not Fine, Dr Talia and Doug dive deep into the experience of... more

30 Jan 2024 · 1 hour, 29 minutes
Jealousy is not a good look for you

In this episode, Doug and Dr. Talia talk to Shanenn Bryant, host of the podcast Top Self, Jealousy and... more

23 Jan 2024 · 1 hour, 7 minutes
Division of labor; the most relatable relationship woe of our modern day.

In this episode, Dr Talia and Doug take on a listener mailbag about division of labor in a household.... more

16 Jan 2024 · 1 hour, 5 minutes
Becoming Kiki; The Freedom of Being Who You Are & The Power of Making Meaning of Your Pain

In this episode, Kiki Joy Latham shares with us her incredible journey through physical and emotional abuse in her family... more

09 Jan 2024 · 1 hour, 15 minutes
Slow Productivity is this New Year’s Revolutionary Approach to Success with guest Dr Kate Henry

In this episode Doug and Dr Talia speak with Dr Kate Henry about Slow Productivity; a holistic, sustainable and well-being... more

02 Jan 2024 · 1 hour, 10 minutes
Why oh why do my New Year’s Resolutions Fizzle Out? Strategies for outsmarting the hidden obstacles

In this episode, Doug and Dr Talia take on New Year’s Resolutions. Why do so many of us struggle to... more

26 Dec 2023 · 1 hour, 16 minutes
What is happiness and where can you find some?

In this episode, Doug and Dr Talia Jackson discuss the concept of happiness; the hedonic treadmill, dopamine chasing, whether it... more

19 Dec 2023 · 1 hour, 3 minutes
Narcissism and the Enneagram With guest Dr Sterlin Mosley

In this bonus episode, Dr Talia Jackson and Dr Sterlin Mosley talk about narcissism as it relates to the enneagram.We're... more

14 Dec 2023 · 45 minutes
Two Parts! Dr Talia on Boosting Emotional Intelligence & Doug's Complicated Familial Grief

In Part One of our Two Part Guest Spot episode, Dr Talia shares her Summit from the Unlock Your Child’s... more

12 Dec 2023 · 1 hour, 21 minutes
Deep Dive into Narcissism With guest Dr Sterlin Mosley- Bread Crumbing, Love Bombing and Gaslighting

In this episode, Dr Talia and Doug can’t get enough of Professor and Narcissism researcher and author, Dr Sterlin Mosley.... more

05 Dec 2023 · 56 minutes
Managing Holiday Stress even if your family is perfect, you have lots of money, and live in sunshine

In this episode, Doug and Dr Talia tackle the most common stressors of the season with humor and one or... more

28 Nov 2023 · 41 minutes
A Turkey Day PSA; To Accept That You Are a Disappointment is the first step towards Thanksgiving Joy

In this episode, Dr Talia and Doug respond to some Thanksgiving mail bags. Whether the holidays are a time of... more

21 Nov 2023 · 47 minutes
Truth Empowered Relationships with guests Heather and Marshall

In this episode Dr Talia and Doug have a conversation with Heather and Marshall, a couple that met in an... more

14 Nov 2023 · 1 hour, 3 minutes
Whose fault is this break up? It’s yours.

In this episode, Doug and Dr Talia ask the controversial question “Does it always take two to tango” in... more

07 Nov 2023 · 49 minutes
Challenging the stigma of mental health in the skilled trades with Lia Lamella on The Sparky Life

In this episode, we speak with Lia Lamella, previous guest (see our 07/25/23 episode), talented electrician and thought leader, who... more

31 Oct 2023 · 1 hour, 24 minutes
Psychic Secrets: Navigating the Universe and Occasional Plant Slaying with guest Kaya J

In this episode, Dr Talia and Doug have another mind blowing conversation with their favorite psychic and medium, Kaya Jelani.... more

24 Oct 2023 · 1 hour, 16 minutes
How to Cope and Comfort when the World is Too Much

In today’s episode, Doug and Dr. Talia acknowledge the traumatic stress impacting all of us after the terrorist attack on... more

17 Oct 2023 · 1 hour, 4 minutes
Haunting beauty comes from grief; artist Nick Harper shares his experience as a creative

Nick shares how his experience of grief and feeling like an outsider has in fact been a gift of heightened... more

03 Oct 2023 · 1 hour, 8 minutes
Let’s Talk about Sex & Intimacy; Conversations with Dr. April

In this episode, Doug and Dr Talia talk to Dr April Brown about intimacy; why it is crucial and how... more

26 Sep 2023 · 57 minutes
How to Break Toxic Transgenerational Patterns with Susan Gold

In this episode, Doug and Dr Talia talk to Susan Gold, endurance athlete, A-List Talent Agent, and Author of Toxic... more

19 Sep 2023 · 52 minutes
Money Memories and Financial Infidelity; Have the Tough Conversations with Jennifer Rogers Markwell

Why is talking about money so terrifying to most people? Emmy nominated TV journalist and President of Platinum Wealth Management,... more

12 Sep 2023 · 1 hour, 5 minutes
Opposites Attract, but Only Some Last and We Tell You Why

In this episode, Dr. Talia and Doug look at all angles of the theory that opposites attract but don't last.... more

05 Sep 2023 · 1 hour, 1 minute
The Spark Is Gone; Practical Tips for Reigniting and Spicing up Any Relationship

In this episode, Doug and Dr. Talia take on a mail-bag from a young man who has found that the... more

29 Aug 2023 · 51 minutes
My Story May Begin in a Cult, but I Decide How the Narrative Continues, With Guest Shana Francesca

Ethical leadership coach and public speaker, Shana Francesca, shares her powerful story of growing up in an alt right... more

22 Aug 2023 · 1 hour, 9 minutes
Your friend wonders why they are still single. Do you tell them?

Show notes: https://werenotfine.com/episode-54/In this week’s episode, Dr. Talia and Doug cut to the chase with a handful of mailbags from... more

15 Aug 2023 · 1 hour, 1 minute
Having Trouble Bouncing Back? Boost Your Resilience with Holistic Psychiatrist Dr. Henry Emmons

View the show notes here: https://werenotfine.com/episode-53/In this episode, Dr. Talia and Doug talk to Dr. Henry Emmons, a Holistic Psychiatrist... more

08 Aug 2023 · 1 hour, 3 minutes
You Hate Your Friend’s Partner; To Tell or Not to Tell?

You hate your friend’s partner or even worse, your friends hate your partner! In this episode, Doug and Dr.... more

01 Aug 2023 · 57 minutes
Never Give Up Your Light, With Lia Lamela; Hear Her Powerful Story of Escaping Domestic Violence

In this episode, Dr. Talia and Doug talk to Lia Lamela, a spunky and incredibly resilient woman who shares with... more

25 Jul 2023 · 1 hour, 21 minutes
Anniversary disappointments; are your expectations too high or was the effort too low?

In this episode Doug and Dr. Talia hear from two different people who have had opposite but equally miserable anniversaries.... more

18 Jul 2023 · 1 hour, 3 minutes
How to Read Their Body Language and Improve Your Own

In this episode, Doug and Talia crack each other up while taking a look at body language on dates. Are... more

11 Jul 2023 · 57 minutes
Navigate jealousy, agreements and relationship resources; ENM Part 2 with expert Angela Callais.

In this episode Doug, Dr. Talia and special guest Angela Callais dig in deeper to the nooks and crannies... more

04 Jul 2023 · 58 minutes
How to Have Open Conversations with Your Closed Off Teen with Dr. Talia Jackson and host of Your Child’s Full Potential, Billy Ivanova

Billy Ivanova, host of the Unlock Your Child's Full Potential podcast, joins Dr. Talia to discuss how to have a... more

29 Jun 2023 · 45 minutes
Ethical Non-Monogamy; we know you are curious!

In this episode, Doug and Dr. Talia ask all of the questions burning holes in your brain about ethical non-monogamy;... more

27 Jun 2023 · 1 hour, 18 minutes
Let’s F*#%ing Date with Matchmaker Melissa Rogers

Have you ever wondered about matchmaking services? Do you have app fatigue? Unrealistic expectations? Old trauma or low self-esteem getting... more

20 Jun 2023 · 51 minutes
Dating Pet Peeves; it’s not me, it’s you

In this episode, Doug and Talia reach into the mailbag to take a look at dating behaviors that some find... more

13 Jun 2023 · 57 minutes
Why Can Letting Go Feel Like Letting Yourself Down?

This episode tackles a delicate and complicated story close to Doug’s heart. A story of a woman diagnosed with an... more

06 Jun 2023 · 53 minutes
Second Chances After Addiction Featuring Erik Mortimer

Today we talk to Erik Mortimer about his long and painful journey through divorce, addiction, and how he found himself... more

30 May 2023 · 1 hour, 5 minutes
I Want Action Tonight, Olfactory Satisfaction All Right

Connect with us:We're Not Finehttps://werenotfine.comShop the Pod: https://werenotfine.com/shopInstagram: @werenotfinepod Doug JensenProfile: https://werenotfine.com/our-team/Email: contact@werenotfine.comIG: douglasljensenTwitter: dougjensen4CsDr. Talia JacksonProfile: https://werenotfine.com/our-team/Email: contact@werenotfine.comIG: @drtaliajacksonTwitter:... more

23 May 2023 · 54 minutes
It's Manic Season with Gracie Canaan

Connect with us:We're Not Finehttps://werenotfine.comShop the Pod: https://werenotfine.com/shopInstagram: @werenotfinepod Doug JensenProfile: https://werenotfine.com/our-team/Email: contact@werenotfine.comIG: douglasljensenTwitter: dougjensen4CsDr. Talia JacksonProfile: https://werenotfine.com/our-team/Email: contact@werenotfine.comIG: @drtaliajacksonTwitter:... more

16 May 2023 · 57 minutes
Ask me about the Enneagram! What is your deepest fear? Your core motivation ? Part 2

https://www.truity.com/af/dr.taliajackson_4698679Connect with us:We're Not Finehttps://werenotfine.comShop the Pod: https://werenotfine.com/shopInstagram: @werenotfinepod Doug JensenProfile: https://werenotfine.com/our-team/Email: contact@werenotfine.comIG: douglasljensenTwitter: dougjensen4CsDr. Talia JacksonProfile: https://werenotfine.com/our-team/Email: contact@werenotfine.comIG: @drtaliajacksonTwitter:... more

09 May 2023 · 1 hour, 2 minutes
The Enneagram; Your Core Wiring Revealed! Learn how to be the healthiest version of your type

https://www.truity.com/af/dr.taliajackson_4698679Connect with us:We're Not Finehttps://werenotfine.comShop the Pod: https://werenotfine.com/shopInstagram: @werenotfinepod Doug JensenProfile: https://werenotfine.com/our-team/Email: contact@werenotfine.comIG: douglasljensenTwitter: dougjensen4CsDr. Talia JacksonProfile: https://werenotfine.com/our-team/Email: contact@werenotfine.comIG: @drtaliajacksonTwitter:... more

02 May 2023 · 46 minutes
Larger than Life; Welcome to Histrionic Personality Disorder

In this video, we explore part 4 of our series on Cluster B personality disorders. Whether you're dealing with this... more

25 Apr 2023 · 50 minutes
The making of a sociopath; welcome to antisocial personality disorder

In this podcast, we explore part 3 of our series on Cluster B personality disorders. Whether you're dealing with this... more

18 Apr 2023 · 51 minutes
I hate you, don't leave me; Borderline Personality Disorder Explained

In this podcast, we explore part 2 of our series on Cluster B personality disorders. Whether you're dealing with this... more

11 Apr 2023 · 47 minutes
I bet you think this song is about you; Welcome to Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Through Doug and Talia's insightful conversation, they explore the traits and behaviors associated with NPD, how it impacts individuals and... more

04 Apr 2023 · 32 minutes
Break Ups, Picking up the pieces and finding your silver lining

Doug and Talia tell you what REALLY just happened in the we’re not fine journey, and explore how to... more

28 Mar 2023 · 40 minutes
To Tell or Not To Tell? Secrets, Lies and Affair Resolution-We're Not Fine Mailbag

Dan cheated on his girlfriend with his best friend's sister and feels deep regret. We always talk to the cheated... more

21 Mar 2023 · 40 minutes
Managing Mean Girls in the Office & Your Relationship to Work - We're Not Fine Mailbag

How do you manage mean girls in the office and what is the most professional way to switch jobs? What... more

14 Mar 2023 · 40 minutes
Is it OK to Hold a Grudge or How Can I Forgive and Forget? - We're Not Fine Mailbag

How can you avoid carrying anger or rage and forgive but not forget? Is it ok to hold a grudge... more

07 Mar 2023 · 38 minutes
The Alphabet Mafia & When Dating is a Family Affair, the BIGGEST Debate Ever - We're Not Fine Mailbag

The mailbag is back! We're responding to someone who is taking a break from a boyfriend that doesn't recognize her... more

28 Feb 2023 · 55 minutes
What's App With That? Dating Apps and Coaching

Today we review some new up-and-coming apps as well as dating app updates (Candid, Hinge, Tinder, Ditto, IRLY, Fluid) and... more

21 Feb 2023 · 48 minutes
Valentine's Day - When Is Love For The Ex Wrong & The Valentine's Breakup - We're Not Fine Mailbag

Is it wrong to still love the Ex and be there for them in their time of need? Or does... more

14 Feb 2023 · 41 minutes
When Relationships Are Over & It's Time to Pivot (Office Romance) - We're Not Fine Mailbag

"I love you more than anything, but I'm thinking about my co-worker at least once an hour." When are relationships... more

07 Feb 2023 · 33 minutes
Career Advice for Strippers on Tinder & Cheating by Sexting - We're Not Fine Mailbag

Are we cancelled yet? We tackle the important dating questions about stripping careers, determining if sexting is cheating and how... more

31 Jan 2023 · 39 minutes
Put Yourself Out There But Don't Play Games - We're Not Fine Mailbag

Do you find "The One" by being intentional? Or does it happen when you least expect it? Should you qualify... more

24 Jan 2023 · 50 minutes
The Partner Material Girl Seeking Boyfriend Material - We're Not Fine Mailbag

Does having sex too soon ruin the dating experience? What's the difference between boyfriend material and partner material? This week's... more

17 Jan 2023 · 32 minutes
We're Not Fine Dating Series - Dating Sunday - What's App With That?

Dating Apps. What's App With That? This is the first in our dating series examining the best way to use... more

10 Jan 2023 · 51 minutes
Happy New Year! Time for a New Year & New You - Developing Goals that Stick (Guest Lesley Pereira)

Should auld acquaintance be forgot and never brought to mind? Or, is it time for a new beginning. Guest Lesley... more

03 Jan 2023 · 46 minutes
A-sexual problem in a Christian world - We're Not Fine Mailbag

Can a lasting relationship happen in an asexual relationship? Find out with our new Mailbag episode featuring a question about... more

27 Dec 2022 · 33 minutes
Is it OK to NOT be Ready for Marriage? - We're Not Fine Mailbag

We're back unpacking the need for marriage between co-workers with one desperate to get married and the other wanting to... more

20 Dec 2022 · 30 minutes
Tell Me What You Want, What You Really, Really Want...and Need

The gang is back discussing the 4 C's of relationships and communication wants vs. needs. This podcast uses the following... more

13 Dec 2022 · 39 minutes
Who is the Bigger Dick? - We're Not Fine Mailbag

The gang is back tackling grief of an abusive parent and how to nicely tell your boyfriend he has a... more

06 Dec 2022 · 32 minutes
Your Child is Cordially Not Invited - We're Not Fine Mailbag

The gang is back tackling the sticky issue of disallowing kid at an engagement party and how to nicely tell... more

29 Nov 2022 · 23 minutes
Blindsided by Love & On The Prowl - We're Not Fine Mailbag

Today the crew examines an abrupt end to a relationship. Is it possible to save it? Can you convince someone... more

22 Nov 2022 · 38 minutes
We're Triggered & Talking Turkey About Cancelling Thanksgiving

Tis the season for holiday gatherings, emotional manipulation and family! The crew talks turkey about how to manage difficult conversations,... more

15 Nov 2022 · 33 minutes
Why Does Dating Suck? - We're Not Fine Mailbag

Why does dating suck? The team explores the dynamics with ghosting, being vulnerable and recognizing what you need in a... more

08 Nov 2022 · 47 minutes
Do You Hear Dead People?

For our Halloween episode, Doug and Talia welcome Kaya, a psychic to explain what happens on the other side!Website:  www.LivingLifeLuminously.comIG: @LivingLifeLuminouFacebook:  www.facebook.com/ThisLuminousLadyThis... more

01 Nov 2022 · 52 minutes
Being Ghosted & Other Tales of Halloween - We're Not Fine Mailbag

Doug and Talia tackle questions about invitations, the changing dynamics of friend groups and trust with adults and teenagers in... more

25 Oct 2022 · 45 minutes
Don't Be Late to Your Funeral...Or Your Wedding - We're Not Fine Mailbag

Doug and Talia tackle questions about etiquette for attending funerals and how to manage anxiety for attending weddings.This podcast uses... more

18 Oct 2022 · 29 minutes
World Mental Health Day, Origin Stories and How to Recognize Issues

In celebration of World Mental Health Day on October 10, Talia and Doug share their mental health origin stories and... more

11 Oct 2022 · 58 minutes
Red Flags, Ghosts and Disagreements - We're Not Fine Mailbag

Doug and Talia answer mailbag questions with red flags galore.This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Chartable -... more

04 Oct 2022 · 52 minutes
My Wife Gained Weight & Three's a Crowd - We're Not Fine Mailbag

Doug and Talia dive into more of your mailbag questions!This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Chartable -... more

27 Sep 2022 · 38 minutes
Good Grief! How We Grieve For Those We Love And Hate - Guest Kelly Grosklags

Today Kelly Grosklags joins podcast! Today, Kelly joins the podcast to discuss how to handle the many facets of... more

20 Sep 2022 · 45 minutes
Speak Softly and Carry a Big Stick: Our Relationship with Politics - Guest Brian Sims

Today Brian Sims joins the podcast! He has been a democratic member of the Pennsylvania House since 2012. He's also... more

13 Sep 2022 · 44 minutes
How Do I Know When It's Over? - We're Not Fine Mailbag

Can long distance relationships work? How do we know when it's over? Doug and Talia dive into more of your... more

06 Sep 2022 · 24 minutes
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For our Halloween episode, Doug and Talia welcome Kaya, a psychic to explain what happens on the other side!Website:  www.LivingLifeLuminously.comIG: @LivingLifeLuminouFacebook:  www.facebook.com/ThisLuminousLadyThis podcast uses... more