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We're Not Fine
We're Not Fine
WNF Media LLC

Renowned relationship therapists, Doug Jensen and Dr. Talia Jackson explore the ins and outs of relationships in the new podcast, We’re Not... more

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Episodes

Are we more Honest when we are Drunk? A Holiday PSA!

In this episode, Dr. Talia and Doug agree partially but not totally on whether we are more honest when we... more

24 Dec 2024 · 16 minutes
How Fine Are We with our Partner Liking their Ex’s Stuff Online?

In this Mailbag Episode, Doug and Dr Talia take on the many angles, caveats and exceptions to whether liking and... more

17 Dec 2024 · 22 minutes
Mama’s Boy; Hot or Not?

In this mailbag episode, Dr. Talia and Doug are faced with one woman’s disgust with her boyfriend’s all too close... more

10 Dec 2024 · 22 minutes
Doug & Dr Talia’s Top 5 Questions for Assessing Your Best Dating Fit vs. Best Marriage Fit

In this episode, Doug & Dr Talia chose their top 5 favorite questions to ask a potential partner! Some of... more

03 Dec 2024 · 31 minutes
Just replace 2023 COVID with the 2024 Election and you will have the same Thanksgiving you had last year! Cheers!

Happy Thanksgiving WNF Family! We got great feedback about this Turkey Day episode from last year, so we are airing... more

26 Nov 2024 · 1 hour, 5 minutes
How Chronic Pain Affects our Mental Health and Relationships; LIVE Episode featuring Rhianna Gawrys, CYT, Somatic Yoga Therapist and Pain Specialist, Part 2

In the second half of this amazing LIVE recorded episode, Doug and Dr Talia dive into how Rhianna’s history of... more

19 Nov 2024 · 55 minutes
How Chronic Pain Affects our Mental Health and Relationships; LIVE Episode featuring Rhianna Gawrys, CYT, Somatic Yoga Therapist and Pain Specialist, Part 1

In the first half of this amazing LIVE recorded episode, Doug and Dr Talia dive into Rhianna’s personal story of... more

12 Nov 2024 · 50 minutes
My girlfriend has conflicts with so many important people in her life, but insists it is not her

In this mailbag, Doug and Dr Talia respond to our listener “Giuseppe”, who is in love with his girlfriend and... more

05 Nov 2024 · 25 minutes
Anxiety or Intuition? Why is my Aura Gray? And F*%# Pants! Our favorite Psychic Kaya is Back!

For the third Halloween in a row, our favorite Mystic, Medium, Psychic and Healer Kaya Jelani returns to answer all... more

29 Oct 2024 · 51 minutes
"They're way out of my league, and no one understands why we are together. Are we doomed?"

In this mail bag episode, Dr. Talia and Doug respond to a self-conscious 31 year old man who says that... more

22 Oct 2024 · 20 minutes
The Dying Teach Us How to Live featuring Kelly Grosklags, LICSW; live at the Rogue Buddha Gallery

Nothing makes our intentions to grow and change, to start a good habit, stop a bad one, feel more poignant... more

15 Oct 2024 · 1 hour, 33 minutes
Apologize Well Once, or Apologize Badly for the Rest of your Life

In this final sixth of a six part mini-sode series “How to Love Better”, Doug and Dr Talia discuss how... more

08 Oct 2024 · 18 minutes
Your partner is not psychic, so you do need to tell them what you need.

In this fifth of a six part mini-sode series “How to Love Better”, Doug and Dr Talia discuss how to... more

01 Oct 2024 · 18 minutes
Give your Partner the Benefit of the Doubt, or Pigeon Hole them into the Role you least Want Them

In this fourth of a six part mini-sode series “How to Love Better”, Doug and Dr Talia offer their favorite and most... more

24 Sep 2024 · 19 minutes
“Harmony” or “Authenticity”? What makes you feel most connected in your love relationship?

In this third of a six part mini-sode series “How to Love Better”, Doug and Dr Talia offer their favorite... more

17 Sep 2024 · 19 minutes
Don’t Drop the Rope! How to Love Better Ep.2

In this second of a six part mini-sode series “How to Love Better”, Doug and Dr Talia offer their favorite... more

10 Sep 2024 · 18 minutes
If You Don’t Do Your Work, Everyone Around You Will Have To | How to Love Better Ep.1

In this first of a six part mini-sode series “How to Love Better”, Doug and Dr Talia offer their favorite... more

03 Sep 2024 · 17 minutes
A Couple’s Bumpy Journey through IVF, Post-Partum Depression/Psychosis and now Menopause, Pt 2 of 2. LIVE recording at the Rogue Buddha Gallery

Dr Talia & Doug welcome you to Part 2 of our two-part series recorded LIVE at the Rogue Buddha! Have... more

27 Aug 2024 · 51 minutes
A Couple’s Bumpy Journey through IVF, Post-Partum Depression/Psychosis and now Menopause, Pt 1 of 2. LIVE recording at the Rogue Buddha Gallery

Dr Talia & Doug welcome you to Part 1 of our two-part series recorded LIVE at the Rogue Buddha! Have... more

20 Aug 2024 · 50 minutes
Divorced? It’s never too late to find the next love of your life!

Divorce is not the end, and it definitely does not need to be a black ominous mark in your life... more

13 Aug 2024 · 1 hour,
What you don't realize about ADHD in relationships - featuring executive ADHD Coach Elle O’Flaherty

Dear WNF listener, if you have listened to our show, you will know that ADHD is a topic so near... more

06 Aug 2024 · 1 hour, 25 minutes
Platonic Relationships are a Fantasy

Are there scenarios in which a potential love or sex interest could be a platonic friend? Mayyyyyyyyyybe, but unlikely. In... more

30 Jul 2024 · 47 minutes
Ultimatum Mailbag Episode - We're Not Fine Podcast

In this classic Mailbag Episode Dr Talia and Doug tackle two tough but relatable relationship issues. In the first, Amy... more

23 Jul 2024 · 53 minutes
Finding Your Way after Catastrophic Loss featuring Dr Kim Harms

In this LIVE recorded episode, Doug and Dr Talia have a conversation with Kim Harms, DDS about her journey through... more

16 Jul 2024 · 1 hour, 28 minutes
Want to be less angry at your loved ones? Boundaries 101

In this episode, Dr Talia and Doug talk boundaries with Dr Catherine Cleveland. Boundaries really get a bad rap. We... more

09 Jul 2024 · 1 hour, 25 minutes
Fireworks and Family: Quick Holiday Update

Hey listeners, this is We're Not Fine with a quick update. We're taking a break this week to celebrate the... more

02 Jul 2024 · 1 minute
WE DID IT! Our 100th Episode Reflections and Team Secrets

WNF Family, we did it! And we couldn’t have done it without you! Our 100th episode marks two years of... more

25 Jun 2024 · 1 hour, 13 minutes
The 5 Traits of Personality

In this episode, Dr. Talia Jackson and Doug Jensen discuss the five main personality traits: openness, conscientiousness, extraversion, agreeableness, and... more

18 Jun 2024 · 56 minutes
Dating with Daddy Issues feat. Matchmaker Melissa Rogers

Today’s topic is Dating with Daddy Issues in honor of Father’s Day. Here’s to all of the amazing dad’s out... more

11 Jun 2024 · 1 hour, 6 minutes
How Facing His Anxiety & OCD Ultimately Set News Anchor Bryan Piatt Free

In this live recorded episode, Dr Talia and Doug have a chance to talk to the beloved former news anchor... more

04 Jun 2024 · 1 hour, 24 minutes
Mismatched Libido; Can't meet your partner's needs?

In this mailbag episode, Doug and Dr. Talia respond to real life couples struggling with mismatched libidos that are negatively... more

28 May 2024 · 1 hour, 4 minutes
Is your sex drive disparity causing problems in your relationship?

In this episode, Dr. Talia and Doug tackle one of the most common relationship problems; mismatched sex drives. In many... more

21 May 2024 · 1 hour, 18 minutes
Couple’s Therapy 101: Divorce! Couples’ Therapists look for these 11 signs...

In this episode, Doug and Dr. Talia share their 50 years of combined experience in the couples’ therapy room. Being... more

14 May 2024 · 38 minutes
Healing the Mother Wound; A We’re Not Fine Mother’s Day Episode with Gao Motsemme

Meet Gao Motsemme, a Botswana born current resident of Germany, and mother of three from a long ancestral lineage of... more

07 May 2024 · 1 hour, 17 minutes
Too early for divorce? Too late for therapy? Where is the line?

In this mailbag episode, Doug and Dr. Talia hear from two people completely fed up with their spouse and ready... more

30 Apr 2024 · 59 minutes
Bad Dates, Red Flags, and other Cautionary Tales

You know the saying that when you wear rose colored glasses, red flags just look like flags? Well, in this... more

23 Apr 2024 · 1 hour, 6 minutes
Give up the ghost. The reason they ghosted you is...

In this episode, Doug and Dr Talia respond to two mailbags, both from people that explain why they have ghosted... more

16 Apr 2024 · 52 minutes
Your friend hurt you, is your friendship salvageable or do you need to move on?

In this episode, Dr Talia and Doug talk to Minneapolis based, friendship-focused writer and podcaster, Nina Badzin. Your friend hurt... more

09 Apr 2024 · 1 hour, 8 minutes
My late wife’s sister tried sleeping with me...

In this episode Dr Talia and Doug look at two very relatable issues. In the first mailbag, a young father... more

02 Apr 2024 · 1 hour, 9 minutes
Mailbag episode! “I gave myself a total makeover with zero results in the dating department.”

In this episode, Doug and Dr. Talia tackle two heartfelt mailbags. In the first letter, a gentleman who has had... more

26 Mar 2024 · 1 hour, 8 minutes
Not the Man I Used to Be; Getting to Know Yourself Again After a Brain Aneurism with Guest Andrew Davie

In this episode, Doug and Dr Talia talk to Andrew Davie, a true Renaissance man. He is an author of... more

19 Mar 2024 · 1 hour, 15 minutes
Loneliness is the Silent Killer and the here is the Antidote; LIVE episode with guest Anna Bonavita

Loneliness is a global health crisis. In this episode Dr Talia and Doug have a moving conversation with Anna... more

12 Mar 2024 · 1 hour, 6 minutes
Hook Up Horror Stories & Deviant Diaries with guest Demi Wylde

In this episode, Doug and Dr. Talia talk to author and sex educator, Demi Wilde about hook up horror stories... more

05 Mar 2024 · 1 hour, 7 minutes
When I’m Sorry isn't enough; 5 ways to deepen your apology after an affair with guest Dr. Deb Miller

In this episode, Dr. Talia and Doug have a lively conversation with Dr. Deb about how to deepen your apology... more

27 Feb 2024 · 1 hour, 12 minutes
Where did your joy and passion go? What to do when apathy overcomes you

In this episode Doug and Dr Talia tackle the scariest of all emotions; the contagious, heavy, and unmotivated wave ... more

20 Feb 2024 · 59 minutes
Tantric Loving in the Suburbs with our guest Hannah Spanke; Somatic, Sexology, and Tantra Coach

In this episode, Dr Talia and Doug speak with the enigmatic Hannah Spanke, who shares with us her rocky road... more

13 Feb 2024 · 1 hour, 21 minutes
Anger gets a bad rap; how to manage, regulate and express your anger in an adaptive way

Fight, flight or freeze; what is your go to coping strategy? In this episode, Doug and Dr Talia tackle Anger... more

06 Feb 2024 · 1 hour, 4 minutes
Birth, Death and Everything in Between with Sister Doulas Sarah Longacre and Wendy Longacre-Brown

In this second live recording of our We’re Not Fine, Dr Talia and Doug dive deep into the experience of... more

30 Jan 2024 · 1 hour, 29 minutes
Jealousy is not a good look for you

In this episode, Doug and Dr. Talia talk to Shanenn Bryant, host of the podcast Top Self, Jealousy and... more

23 Jan 2024 · 1 hour, 7 minutes
Division of labor; the most relatable relationship woe of our modern day.

In this episode, Dr Talia and Doug take on a listener mailbag about division of labor in a household.... more

16 Jan 2024 · 1 hour, 5 minutes
Becoming Kiki; The Freedom of Being Who You Are & The Power of Making Meaning of Your Pain

In this episode, Kiki Joy Latham shares with us her incredible journey through physical and emotional abuse in her family... more

09 Jan 2024 · 1 hour, 15 minutes
Slow Productivity is this New Year’s Revolutionary Approach to Success with guest Dr Kate Henry

In this episode Doug and Dr Talia speak with Dr Kate Henry about Slow Productivity; a holistic, sustainable and well-being... more

02 Jan 2024 · 1 hour, 10 minutes
Why oh why do my New Year’s Resolutions Fizzle Out? Strategies for outsmarting the hidden obstacles

In this episode, Doug and Dr Talia take on New Year’s Resolutions. Why do so many of us struggle to... more

26 Dec 2023 · 1 hour, 16 minutes
What is happiness and where can you find some?

In this episode, Doug and Dr Talia Jackson discuss the concept of happiness; the hedonic treadmill, dopamine chasing, whether it... more

19 Dec 2023 · 1 hour, 3 minutes
Narcissism and the Enneagram With guest Dr Sterlin Mosley

In this bonus episode, Dr Talia Jackson and Dr Sterlin Mosley talk about narcissism as it relates to the enneagram.We're... more

14 Dec 2023 · 45 minutes
Two Parts! Dr Talia on Boosting Emotional Intelligence & Doug's Complicated Familial Grief

In Part One of our Two Part Guest Spot episode, Dr Talia shares her Summit from the Unlock Your Child’s... more

12 Dec 2023 · 1 hour, 21 minutes
Deep Dive into Narcissism With guest Dr Sterlin Mosley- Bread Crumbing, Love Bombing and Gaslighting

In this episode, Dr Talia and Doug can’t get enough of Professor and Narcissism researcher and author, Dr Sterlin Mosley.... more

05 Dec 2023 · 56 minutes
Managing Holiday Stress even if your family is perfect, you have lots of money, and live in sunshine

In this episode, Doug and Dr Talia tackle the most common stressors of the season with humor and one or... more

28 Nov 2023 · 41 minutes
A Turkey Day PSA; To Accept That You Are a Disappointment is the first step towards Thanksgiving Joy

In this episode, Dr Talia and Doug respond to some Thanksgiving mail bags. Whether the holidays are a time of... more

21 Nov 2023 · 47 minutes
Truth Empowered Relationships with guests Heather and Marshall

In this episode Dr Talia and Doug have a conversation with Heather and Marshall, a couple that met in an... more

14 Nov 2023 · 1 hour, 3 minutes
Whose fault is this break up? It’s yours.

In this episode, Doug and Dr Talia ask the controversial question “Does it always take two to tango” in... more

07 Nov 2023 · 49 minutes
Challenging the stigma of mental health in the skilled trades with Lia Lamella on The Sparky Life

In this episode, we speak with Lia Lamella, previous guest (see our 07/25/23 episode), talented electrician and thought leader, who... more

31 Oct 2023 · 1 hour, 24 minutes
Psychic Secrets: Navigating the Universe and Occasional Plant Slaying with guest Kaya J

In this episode, Dr Talia and Doug have another mind blowing conversation with their favorite psychic and medium, Kaya Jelani.... more

24 Oct 2023 · 1 hour, 16 minutes
How to Cope and Comfort when the World is Too Much

In today’s episode, Doug and Dr. Talia acknowledge the traumatic stress impacting all of us after the terrorist attack on... more

17 Oct 2023 · 1 hour, 4 minutes
Haunting beauty comes from grief; artist Nick Harper shares his experience as a creative

Nick shares how his experience of grief and feeling like an outsider has in fact been a gift of heightened... more

03 Oct 2023 · 1 hour, 8 minutes
Let’s Talk about Sex & Intimacy; Conversations with Dr. April

In this episode, Doug and Dr Talia talk to Dr April Brown about intimacy; why it is crucial and how... more

26 Sep 2023 · 57 minutes
How to Break Toxic Transgenerational Patterns with Susan Gold

In this episode, Doug and Dr Talia talk to Susan Gold, endurance athlete, A-List Talent Agent, and Author of Toxic... more

19 Sep 2023 · 52 minutes
Money Memories and Financial Infidelity; Have the Tough Conversations with Jennifer Rogers Markwell

Why is talking about money so terrifying to most people? Emmy nominated TV journalist and President of Platinum Wealth Management,... more

12 Sep 2023 · 1 hour, 5 minutes
Opposites Attract, but Only Some Last and We Tell You Why

In this episode, Dr. Talia and Doug look at all angles of the theory that opposites attract but don't last.... more

05 Sep 2023 · 1 hour, 1 minute
The Spark Is Gone; Practical Tips for Reigniting and Spicing up Any Relationship

In this episode, Doug and Dr. Talia take on a mail-bag from a young man who has found that the... more

29 Aug 2023 · 51 minutes
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In this episode, Dr Talia and Doug have another mind blowing conversation with their favorite psychic and medium, Kaya Jelani. She answers... more