THE MONOGAMISH MARRIAGE

THE MONOGAMISH MARRIAGE

Kate & Liam -- happily married bisexuals and chronic overthinkers -- discuss their personal experience with non-monogamy.

Episodes

March 20, 2025 • 65 mins

In this episode, Kate & Liam tell the crazy story of their recent content creation weekend in Florida.

Find all our Links:                      www.KateMonogamish.com

Travel with Us:                           www.SapioTours.com
Oct 2025 Women's Retreat:    https://sapiotours.com/womens-fall-retreat

Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options
Casual Swinger --
https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/
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February 14, 2025 • 69 mins

In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss where they fit in two different personality typing frameworks -- the Enneagram and the Erotic Blueprint. Find out more about both of these at https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/ and  https://www.https://missjaiya.com/ 

Find all our Links:    www.KateMonogamish.com

Travel with Us:         www.SapioTours.com
Women's Retreat:    https://sapiotours.com/womens-retreat

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January 2, 2025 • 56 mins

In this episode, Kate talks about her night at a Women's Only Party.

Find all our Links:    www.KateMonogamish.com
 
Travel with Us:         www.SapioTours.com
Women's Retreat:    https://sapiotours.com/womens-retreat
 
Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options
Casual Swinger --
https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/
Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad
Pod...

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December 5, 2024 • 65 mins

In this episode, Kate & Liam finally get around to discussing their backyard get-together from the summer of 2024!

To hear a separate discussion of the same event as seen through different eyes, check out Loq and Tryst's fascinating discussion on YouTube!
https://www.youtube.com/live/4k6bOHWeT5k?si=j6aiRMj8tLyhg8Tn

Find all our Links:    www.KateMonogamish.com
 
Travel with Us:         www.Sap...

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November 13, 2024 • 61 mins

In this episode, part of Kate's occasional series called "Bad Ass Women of the Lifestyle," she interviews Lauren Hayes, non-monogamous relationship coach and host of the podcast "The Examined Lives of Mormon
Wives," and her friend Bri, a former LDS church member. Together, Lauren and Bri founded the women's support group "Sacred Sluts" to help women break free from shame and reconnect wit...

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October 16, 2024 • 83 mins

In this episode, Kate and Liam discuss the highlights (and occasional lowlights) of their summer lifestyle travel adventures.

Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com

Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com

Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options
Casual Swinger --
https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/
Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad
Podcast-a-Palooza -- https://li...

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July 25, 2024 • 50 mins

In this episode, Kate and Liam question what often seems like the ultimate swinger taboo.

Find our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com

Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com

Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options
Casual Swinger --
https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/
Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad
Podcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/
Room 77 -- https...

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April 30, 2024 • 53 mins

In this episode, Kate and Liam discuss the ups and downs of desiring -- and being desired --  in the Lifestyle.

Find our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com

Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com

Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options
Casual Swinger --
https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/
Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad
Podcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/...

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March 22, 2024 • 83 mins

In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss the impact of intoxicants on the lifestyle, and in their own lives.

Travel with us: www.SapioTours.com

Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options
Casual Swinger --
https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/
Room 77 -- https://room77life.com/events77-mexico-feb-2023/
Podcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/
Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-bette...

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February 20, 2024 • 43 mins

Kate talks to coach Cara Turnquist about the challenges people with bigger bodies face to feel fully embraced in the Lifestyle.

Links
Cara's Website
https://www.thepushfitness.com/

Kate's Women's Retreat webpage
https://sapiotours.com/womens-retreat

All Kate's Links
https://katemonogamish.com/my-links

The Monogamish Marriage Blog
https://themonogamishmarria...

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January 29, 2024 • 70 mins

In this episode, Kate & Liam talk about their recent orgy experiences...and consider the real possibility that they've gone a little overboard.

Show Links
Email us: The MonogamishMarriage@gmail.com

Support us: www.patreon.com/Kate_and_Liam

Travel with us: www.SapioTours.com

Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options 
Casual Swinger --
https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/
Room 7...

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Kate talks to non-monogamous relationship coach Catherine from Expansive Connection Coaching about inner parts work. She explains The Adult Chair approach to recognizing and having compassion for our inner child and adolescent, especially when faced with the triggers the lifestyle can bring.

Want to dig deeper with Kate and Catherine? Consider joining us for our Women of the Lifestyle wellness retreat this April. Go to www.sapiotour...

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November 13, 2023 • 77 mins

Three months into their online dating experiment, Kate and Liam wrap up their long separate dating saga (spoiler, it doesn't end the way you might think!).

Kate dishes about her sexy -- and not so sexy -- dates with both men and women, including one that goes very wrong (trigger: SA).  Liam reports back on the dates with women he met on two additional dating sites, and lets us know how all his hard-won  freedom and c...

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October 10, 2023 • 70 mins

In response to Liam's continued interest in separate dating, Kate proposed that they both try to find people to go out with online. The plan was that they would post their profiles at the same time, and ideally go on dates with other people on the same evenings.  Equality was the goal. It was a fine idea that brought about all kinds of unforeseen complications.

Links:

Sapio Tours
Small Group European trav...

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September 7, 2023 • 55 mins

Kate & Liam start this episode by describing their experiences at the various lifestyle vacations they took earlier this year, culminating in the launch of their very own travel brand. In the second half, they offer a full report on their first Sapio Tours trip, which was to Crete in June of 2023.  Information on all future Sapio Tours trips can be found at https://SapioTours.com

If you're interested in any of the...

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In this episode, Kate & Liam speak with Dedeker, Emily & Jase of the Multiamory Podcast. They share information about creating healthy boundaries and avoiding common relationship pitfalls. To find out more about them, go to their website,,,
https://www.multiamory.com/

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May 11, 2023 • 59 mins

In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss their experiments with the idea of the 'Three Hour Sex Date' -- an idea they picked up from se & relationship coach Kim Anami.

https://open.spotify.com/episode/5QRhLdb7aV7fIlHscBugXf?si=R1wqLreLQD2sbei-ffqpew

Never have Kate & Liam shared so explicitly about their practices between the sheets as they do here!

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April 4, 2023 • 62 mins

This episode discusses the discovery by Kate of secret messages that Liam had been sending to another woman.  A blow-up ensues, which sends Kate into research mode, where she discovers the EPIC communication model from author Kate Loree.  Focusing on the Emotional, Physical, Intellectual and Compassionate dimensions of conflict, they work through this issue and reach a deeper level of mutual understanding. 

OPEN DEEPLY Pod...

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March 1, 2023 • 58 mins

In this episode, Kate & Liam explore a paradox: why do non-monogamous people go to such extreme lengths to keep their lifestyle a secret when it enriches their lives so much?  

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January 19, 2023 • 74 mins

In this episode, Liam tells the story of his erection struggles in group sex situations, and how he eventually conquered them. Let's just say that Kate is deeply worried.

Important Links:
Support us on Patreon...
   https://Patreon.com/kate_and_liam
Hypnotism...
    https://www.sanfranciscohypnotherapy.com/
Naughty Gym Adventure Travel...
    https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-adventure-tri...

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