pod.link/1585015034
pod.link copied!
Pulling The Thread with Elise Loehnen
Pulling The Thread with Elise Loehnen
Elise Loehnen and Audacy

Writer Elise Loehnen explores life’s big questions with today’s leading thinkers, experts, and luminaries: Why do we do what we do? How... more

Listen now on

Apple Podcasts
Spotify
Overcast
Podcast Addict
Pocket Casts
Castbox
Podbean
iHeartRadio
Player FM
Podcast Republic
Castro
RSS

Episodes

The Life Review (Connie Zweig, PhD)

“There's no generation before us that’s had this opportunity to find this treasure,” says therapist Connie Zweig, PhD. Zweig is... more

21 Nov 2024 · 51 minutes
Doing Beautiful Things (Richard Christiansen)

Everything Richard Christiansen creates is incredibly beautiful and special. Christiansen is the founder of Flamingo Estate and the author of... more

14 Nov 2024 · 50 minutes
How Do We Work with Our Darkest Energy? (Thomas Hübl, PhD)

Spiritual teacher Thomas Hübl, PhD, returns for a deeper exploration of shadow. We talk about our instinct to disown what... more

07 Nov 2024 · 51 minutes
Working with Your Enemies (Sharon McMahon)

Rightful Instagram celebrity Sharon McMahon is known as “America’s Government Teacher.” Her new book, The Small and the Mighty, was an... more

31 Oct 2024 · 53 minutes
Staying Rooted in What You Want (Monthly Solo)

In this solo episode, I share some things that are on my mind right now, including: An experience I had... more

28 Oct 2024 · 54 minutes
The Women Who Raised Consciousness (Clara Bingham)

In this moving, live conversation with journalist Clara Bingham, we delve into the incredible stories that make up her latest... more

24 Oct 2024 · 54 minutes
The Birth of the Allomother (Sarah Blaffey Hrdy, PhD)

Legendary anthropologist Sarah Blaffer Hrdy gave us the term “allomother,” and by extension, “alloparent”—the pioneering idea that mutual care is... more

17 Oct 2024 · 44 minutes
Need A Lift? - Episode Preview

Sharing an episode of Need a Lift?, a show that focuses on bringing people together during a tough time in our culture. Host... more

16 Oct 2024 · 50 minutes
Thinking Impossibly (Jeffrey Kripal, PhD)

“We need to be open to things that offend or transcend our worldview because they're clearly doing that for a... more

10 Oct 2024 · 1 hour, 3 minutes
Evolving, Not Revolving (Edith Eva Eger, PhD)

“I think it's good to relive the past and then revise your life,” says Edith Eva Eger. “Go through it,... more

03 Oct 2024 · 47 minutes
The Neuroscience of Manifestation (James Doty, M.D.)

Dr. Jim Doty is a neurosurgeon, neuroscientist, and the director of Stanford Center for Compassion and Altruism Research and Education.... more

26 Sep 2024 · 50 minutes
Creating from (False) Fundamentals (Sarah Lewis, PhD)

Dr. Sarah Elizabeth Lewis has one of the most illustrious resumés of all the guests on Pulling the Thread—and I... more

19 Sep 2024 · 54 minutes
On Finding Our Soul's Vocation (James Hollis, PhD)

James Hollis, PhD is a Jungian analyst who is still in private practice in Washington D.C. Hollis started his career... more

12 Sep 2024 · 1 hour, 2 minutes
Why Cynicism is Not Smart (Jamil Zaki, PhD)

Dr. Jamil Zaki is a professor of psychology at Stanford University and the director of the Stanford Social Neuroscience Lab.... more

05 Sep 2024 · 56 minutes
Finding Your Inner Mentor (Tara Mohr)

Tara Mohr is a coach, educator and the author of Playing Big: Practical Wisdom for Women Who Want to Speak... more

29 Aug 2024 · 1 hour, 6 minutes
The Upper Limit Problem (Katie Hendricks, PhD)

Dr. Katie Hendricks is the co-founder of The Hendricks Institute and the co-author of 12 books, including the bestseller, Conscious... more

22 Aug 2024 · 55 minutes
Why We Overthink (Amanda Montell)

Amanda Montell is the author of the New York Times bestseller The Age of Magical Overthinking: Notes on Modern Irrationality,... more

15 Aug 2024 · 47 minutes
Being Better Leaders (Jerry Colonna)

Jerry Colonna is the founder of Reboot and one of the most sought after CEO coaches in the world. Before... more

08 Aug 2024 · 53 minutes
Staying with Discomfort (Thomas Hübl)

Spiritual teacher Thomas Hübl is back for the second part of a series we’ve decided to undertake. If you missed... more

01 Aug 2024 · 54 minutes
Really Hearing Our Own Voices (Carol Gilligan): GROWING UP

Dr. Carol Gilligan is an esteemed professor and developmental psychologist, who is the author of a landmark book called In... more

29 Jul 2024 · 54 minutes
Finding Shadow in the Body (Thomas Hübl)

You’ve likely heard spiritual teacher Thomas Hübl on my podcast before. This conversation actually happened on his podcast, The Point... more

25 Jul 2024 · 53 minutes
Signs of High Intuition (Carissa Schumacher): GROWING UP

Long-time listeners will recognize Carissa Schumacher from this podcast. Carissa is an incredible forensic medium—which means that yes, sometimes the... more

22 Jul 2024 · 1 hour, 31 minutes
The Life-Saving Power of Friendship (Mark Nepo)

Poet and author Mark Nepo has now written nearly 30 books, including mega-bestsellers like The Book of Awakening. In this... more

18 Jul 2024 · 45 minutes
The Long-Term Implications of Sleep (Harvey Karp, M.D.): GROWING UP

Dr. Harvey Karp is the author of The Happiest Baby on the Block which has Bible-like status in the world... more

15 Jul 2024 · 54 minutes
The Deconstruction of Belief (Sarah Bessey)

Sarah Bessey is the author or editor of five books, including Field Notes for the Wilderness: Practices for an Evolving... more

11 Jul 2024 · 59 minutes
The Critical Need for Deep Connection (Niobe Way, PhD): GROWING UP

Dr. Niobe Way is an internationally-recognized Professor of Developmental Psychology, the founder of the Project for the Advancement of Our... more

08 Jul 2024 · 1 hour,
What Makes a Good Relationship (Stan Tatkin)

Stan Tatkin is an author, therapist, and researcher who guides couples toward more durable relationships. He developed the Psychobiological Approach... more

03 Jul 2024 · 51 minutes
Coming Soon: Special Series on Growing Up

Hi, It’s Elise, host of Pulling the Thread. Starting next Monday, I’m doing another special series—this one is about growing... more

01 Jul 2024 · 1 minute
Working With Your Energy System (Prune Harris)

Prune Harris has been able to see, study, and shift energy fields since she was born—a gift she didn’t fully... more

27 Jun 2024 · 58 minutes
Where the Brain and Mind Meet (Karl Deisseroth, M.D., PhD)

Karl Deisseroth is a psychiatrist, neuroscientist and bioengineering professor at Stanford. Karl is also the author of Projections: The New... more

20 Jun 2024 · 53 minutes
To Transcend and Include (Ken Wilber)

Ken Wilber's work and intellect is difficult to describe. Throughout a long career—and the authoring of 20 books, including A... more

13 Jun 2024 · 1 hour, 20 minutes
Working with the Divine (Nicole Avant)

Nicole Avant is a philanthropist, filmmaker, and former diplomat. In her recent memoir, Think You’ll Be Happy, Nicole describes attending... more

06 Jun 2024 · 49 minutes
Recovering Our Ability to Feel (Prentis Hemphill): TRAUMA

“I think we need each other. I say this all the time, there are some things that are too big... more

03 Jun 2024 · 51 minutes
The Myth of Resilience (Soraya Chemaly)

“This is the richness of the traditional wife explosion, right? There's this simple idea that you get to choose. Now... more

30 May 2024 · 58 minutes
Finding Fear in the Body (Resmaa Menakem): TRAUMA

“Here's what I would say: peace will happen when people invest in cultivating peace as opposed to war. Peace will... more

27 May 2024 · 47 minutes
Take Back Your Brain (Kara Loewentheil)

“There are studies showing that, once your basic needs are met, and you're not worried about losing your house, losing... more

23 May 2024 · 53 minutes
Where Trauma Begins (Peter Levine, Ph.D): TRAUMA

“There are therapies where the person is made to relive their traumas over and over and over again. It's called... more

20 May 2024 · 47 minutes
Choosing Wholeness Over Wokeness (Africa Brooke)

“In writing my book, I wanted to bring it back to the self because being online allows us to have... more

16 May 2024 · 58 minutes
A Toolkit for Working with Your Trauma (James Gordon, M.D.): TRAUMA

“Now the tragedy, in one sense is a tragedy, that often people only become open when they've suffered horribly when... more

13 May 2024 · 1 hour, 2 minutes
The Complexity of Weight Loss Drugs (Johann Hari)

“I realized I think there's a few things that are in our heads that are so deep in the culture.... more

09 May 2024 · 1 hour, 34 minutes
Coming Soon: Special Series on Trauma

Hi, It’s Elise, host of Pulling the Thread. Starting next Monday, I’m doing another special series—this set is about trauma,... more

06 May 2024 · 1 minute
Loving the End (Alua Arthur)

“When we can pause for a moment and rifle through all that noise to figure out what the root of... more

02 May 2024 · 51 minutes
On Telling The Truth (Nell Irvin Painter)

“But one thing the whole “Karen” thing did, which I think was very good, was that it pointed out the... more

25 Apr 2024 · 47 minutes
When it's Time to Leave (Joy Sullivan)

“What is that instinct that might be asking me to do something really unadvisable or radical or leap outside the... more

18 Apr 2024 · 56 minutes
Introducing: Million Dollar Advice

Million Dollar Advice is a work and career advice podcast hosted by friends and colleagues Kim Lessing and Kate Arend.... more

16 Apr 2024 · 2 minutes
When Love Feels Unbearable (Anne Lamott)

“You want to find yourself? Give. We're not hungry for what we're not getting. We're hungry for what we're not... more

11 Apr 2024 · 45 minutes
Understanding the Drama Triangle (Courtney Smith)

“From my perspective, one of the reasons we tell stories is it helps give us a sense of who we... more

04 Apr 2024 · 1 hour, 3 minutes
The Power of Girls (Mattie Kahn)

“I think historically we have always seen that intergenerational partnership is the way that movements grow and expand and the... more

28 Mar 2024 · 56 minutes
Breaking Family Patterns (Vienna Pharaon)

“Part of middle life is that hopefully there's a little bit of wisdom there. And I think that is part... more

21 Mar 2024 · 55 minutes
The Upsides of Menopause (Lisa Mosconi, PhD)

Neuroscientist Lisa Mosconi, PhD currently has 11 grants—including four from the NIH—to study Alzheimers, menopause, and the female brain. Dr.... more

14 Mar 2024 · 1 hour, 6 minutes
When Spirituality and Science are the Same (Jeffrey Kripal)

“Historically, there's no such thing as a pure tradition. And I also think as human beings, we transcend these religions... more

07 Mar 2024 · 1 hour,
Five Things I’m Thinking About: The Creative Process, Pricing Your Work, Inspiration vs. Discernment, Insanity, and the Etymology of Should

Hi, it’s Elise Loehnen, host of PULLING THE THREAD. Today, it’s just me. I’m sharing five things I’ve been thinking... more

29 Feb 2024 · 37 minutes
The Basics of Spiral Dynamics (Nicole Churchill)

“Turquoise is looking for how do we bring back the village? How do we live in community again? Why are... more

22 Feb 2024 · 1 hour, 19 minutes
On Being Basic (Kate Kennedy)

“When I went back and looked at some of these shows that I loved, I noticed that the writer's room... more

15 Feb 2024 · 1 hour, 1 minute
On Maintaining Desire (Emily Nagoski, PhD)

“The deal is your bodies are going to change over time and people can stay attracted to somebody's body over... more

08 Feb 2024 · 59 minutes
Why Conflict is Critical (John & Julie Gottman, PhDs)

“Every single human being is a pack animal. That's what we are biologically. We would die if we didn't depend... more

01 Feb 2024 · 1 hour, 1 minute
Where Does Fatphobia Come From? (Kate Manne)

“I think there's a lot of assumptions in play here that a good body is a thin one, a thin... more

25 Jan 2024 · 1 hour, 1 minute
On Self-Regulation (Aliza Pressman, PhD)

“I think that with regulation, the funny thing is that it's either I want to control the weather around my... more

18 Jan 2024 · 1 hour, 1 minute
Seeing Each Other’s Pain (Rabbi Sharon Brous)

"How do we center the voices that traditionally and historically we know existed, but were only marginalized in the tradition?... more

11 Jan 2024 · 1 hour, 2 minutes
Embracing the Shadow (Connie Zweig, PhD)

“If you have a reaction to a stranger or someone in the media or someone in politics or someone who's... more

04 Jan 2024 · 54 minutes
Five Things I’ve Learned this Year

Today, it’s just me. I thought I’d round out the year by trying something different, and offering five big things... more

28 Dec 2023 · 42 minutes
What Actually Motivates Change? (Carrie Wilkens, PhD): ADDICTION

“Nobody wants to be somebody with a serious substance use problem. Nobody wants to be addicted to a substance. I... more

26 Dec 2023 · 59 minutes
How Story Can Heal (Akiva Goldsman)

“I think what's interesting about healing, psychological healing, is there's always a narrative that helps. So sometimes when you go to... more

21 Dec 2023 · 50 minutes
On Reducing Harm & Saving Lives (Maia Szalavitz): ADDICTION

“I think it's really important for, you know, people to realize that you can totally be an absolutely excellent parent... more

18 Dec 2023 · 59 minutes
The Malleability of the Brain (David Eagleman)

“As you grow older, your brain is able to keep rewiring all the time. And so we have this impression... more

14 Dec 2023 · 1 hour, 6 minutes
Breaking the Addiction Binary (Carl Erik Fisher, M.D.): ADDICTION

“I want to say that it's not just some idea about suffering, it's also a function of social and economic... more

11 Dec 2023 · 1 hour,
The Gordian Knot of Mental Illness (Rachel Aviv)

“I think what one of the things that's interesting to me is like when we think about what causes distress... more

07 Dec 2023 · 43 minutes
Reimagining Recovery (Holly Whitaker): ADDICTION

“For years, I was asking myself whether or not I was an alcoholic versus really asking myself whether or not... more

04 Dec 2023 · 57 minutes
Grappling with Part X (Phil Stutz)

“If there is this part of you that you think is inferior, the weak spot, something you're ashamed of, etc.,... more

30 Nov 2023 · 43 minutes
Coming Soon: Special Series on Addiction

Starting next Monday, I’m doing another special series—this set is about addiction. You’ll hear from four distinct voices in the... more

27 Nov 2023 · 2 minutes
On Cultivating Creativity & Abundance (Richard Christiansen)

“I’m grateful for seasons. I'm so happy that there can be a winter and there can be a spring and... more

22 Nov 2023 · 58 minutes
The Risk It Takes To Bloom (Raquel Willis)

“Well, the interesting thing is, I guess some of this came from writing the book too, but all of those... more

16 Nov 2023 · 45 minutes
Human Design as a Road Map to the Soul (Chetan & Carola): MYSTICAL SYSTEMS

Chetan: “The human design chart, is basically a match to your unique particular frequency, whether it's partially ancestral, whether it's... more

13 Nov 2023 · 1 hour, 5 minutes
Does Love Require Complete Acceptance? (Jedidiah Jenkins)

“Nature, the universe, speaks in metaphor, and one of its truest things is paradox, is holding two things that are... more

09 Nov 2023 · 54 minutes
The Mystical Roots of Tarot (Mark Horn): MYSTICAL SYSTEMS

“One of the things that we do on Yom Kippur is we read the story of Jonah, the prophet who... more

06 Nov 2023 · 47 minutes
Whose Pain Counts? (Susan Burton)

“I mean, I do think that I have an abiding interest in women's bodies. In how our bodies can be... more

02 Nov 2023 · 57 minutes
The Secret Astrological System (Jade Luna): MYSTICAL SYSTEMS

“The more we let go of, the more we receive. I feel that I live in that light. I believe... more

30 Oct 2023 · 1 hour,
When We Hold Ourselves Apart (Chloé Cooper Jones)

“That's just like the human struggle, is how is it that our interiority and the way that we're perceived externally,... more

26 Oct 2023 · 57 minutes
The Practical Magic of the Enneagram (Courtney Smith): MYSTICAL SYSTEMS

"Part of what happens when human beings experience difficulty is the same difficulty, the same fact pattern, can resonate very... more

23 Oct 2023 · 1 hour, 21 minutes
Conflict as a Tool for Growth (Esther Perel)

“You cannot differentiate when you never fight. Fighting is also a tool for differentiation, for having two people be able... more

19 Oct 2023 · 59 minutes
Air the Griefances, not the Grievances (Yeshua, channeled by Carissa Schumacher)

This is a channeled transmission of Yeshua, from Thursday, October 12, 2023.  This was part of an online study group for... more

17 Oct 2023 · 2 hours, 2 minutes
Coming Soon: Special Series on Mystical Systems

Yes, it’s a Monday and not a Thursday, but today, I’m announcing something special. Kicking off next week, we’re going... more

16 Oct 2023 · 3 minutes
Simplifying Wellness (Liz Moody)

“I just think that never being the one to say no to yourself is so powerful for so many reasons.... more

12 Oct 2023 · 1 hour,
Healing Our Money Fears (Farnoosh Torabi)

“We think that money is just going to solve the problem. We think that we can get rid of the... more

05 Oct 2023 · 59 minutes
Feeling into Collective Presence (Thomas Hübl)

“Everything we heal, we mature, we develop in ourselves, is never just for ourselves only. It's always also eco-systemically relevant.... more

28 Sep 2023 · 1 hour, 7 minutes
Thinking Our Way to Health (Ellen Langer)

“But it's also okay not to get it right. You know, people mistakenly think that they want perfection, say you're... more

21 Sep 2023 · 50 minutes
Contending with Panic (Matt Gutman)

“I think a lot of us embody this, what I call the paradox of the courageous coward, right? Like, we're... more

14 Sep 2023 · 1 hour, 8 minutes
The Science of Failing Well (Amy Edmonson)

“It’s, you know, all but hardwired to resist failure, to not want to be blamed. You know, it's an instinct... more

07 Sep 2023 · 52 minutes
On What We Can Become (Kate Bowler)

“I’m really hopeful that we're evolving past our very hyper individualistic understanding of like, my health, wealth and happiness is... more

31 Aug 2023 · 58 minutes
Why Do We Expect Life to Be Any Other Way? (Nora McInerny)

“Sometimes it feels like empathy, sympathy, sorrow, grief are scarce resources, because we certainly treat them like that. And if... more

24 Aug 2023 · 1 hour, 11 minutes
Navigating Heartbreak (Florence Williams)

“It's okay to not be perfect. I don't wanna be judging myself for my imperfections. I actually wanna be accepting... more

17 Aug 2023 · 59 minutes
What We’ve Chosen to Forget (Baratunde Thurston)

“Energy doesn't dissipate. You know it moves, but it doesn't die. And the big bang that happened 15.7 billion years... more

10 Aug 2023 · 1 hour, 1 minute
Accepting the Invitation (Frank Ostaseski)

“Acceptance is kind of a choice. We say, I accept this. That's the way they are. Surrender feels different. It... more

03 Aug 2023 · 57 minutes
Contending with Fear (Jakki Leonardini)

“A loving being isn't domineering and a loving being is not going to judge you and certainly isn't going to... more

27 Jul 2023 · 1 hour, 1 minute
Our Collective Psychological Development (John Churchill, Psy.D)

“There's a deep need for all of us to grow up, like we are now being handed tools of the... more

20 Jul 2023 · 1 hour, 8 minutes
The WiFi of the Body (Lauren Roxburgh)

"So trauma can get stuck in our tissues.You know, our emotions can actually be stuck in our tissues because in... more

13 Jul 2023 · 51 minutes
When Women Tell the Truth About Their Lives (Dre Bendewald)

“So circling can be very personal, meaning you have your own awareness. It's not like, you know, you come to... more

06 Jul 2023 · 1 hour,
Reconciling with What We Didn’t Receive (Minka Kelly)

“And I am not thankful for how hard it was. I don't believe we have to suffer to be great... more

29 Jun 2023 · 1 hour, 5 minutes
Standing at the Edge (Roshi Joan Halifax)

“I think there are a number of ways that we move into action that's characterized by integrity and where, you... more

22 Jun 2023 · 46 minutes
Finding Our Desire (Emily Morse)

“Sex is not a quick fix when there's these foundational challenges that you're having, you're like, I know how to... more

15 Jun 2023 · 1 hour, 11 minutes
The Myth of the Linear Life (Bruce Feiler)

“A million Americans a week are quitting a job. This number is almost twice as high as it's ever been... more

08 Jun 2023 · 1 hour, 6 minutes
Being Transcendent (Geena Rocero)

“I believe certainly, I know now, after have going through this years and years of feeling ashamed of who I... more

01 Jun 2023 · 1 hour, 6 minutes
How to Change the World (Austin Channing Brown)

“When you are quite literally told that you are not human. What option do you have? What’s the other option... more

25 May 2023 · 59 minutes
The Making of On Our Best Behavior (my editor, Whit Frick)

“If I remember correctly, I think you ran as fast as you could to the thing that you're more comfortable... more

18 May 2023 · 1 hour, 20 minutes
What Makes Marriages Work (Stan Tatkin)

“One thing my work has taught me is how human interaction is a comedy of errors. People are making so... more

11 May 2023 · 1 hour, 1 minute
The Best Strangers in the World (Ari Shapiro)

“But I now think about how wonderful it is that some of these radio stories that meant a lot to... more

04 May 2023 · 59 minutes
Knitting Together our Lives (Peggy Orenstein)

“Women spent so much time in the ancient world spinning, like they spent all their time, any spare moment. And... more

27 Apr 2023 · 52 minutes
A Fully Sensed Life (Gretchen Rubin)

“So one of the things I explored in life in Life in Five Senses was the value of boredom. Because... more

20 Apr 2023 · 56 minutes
Reconceiving Our Lives (Maggie Smith)

“For people who have been in a long relationship and then it goes off the rails and ends, it’s a... more

13 Apr 2023 · 58 minutes
Igniting Creativity (Ozan Varol)

“Ideas don't arrive with a bang. There is no parade. The big thing never screams that it's a big thing.... more

06 Apr 2023 · 58 minutes
Making Sense of Time (Jenny Odell)

“I guess for me the real tragedy is this idea of a life where you're getting further and further away from... more

30 Mar 2023 · 53 minutes
A Mapmaker for the Soul (Cynthia Bourgeault)

“We are in a time where everything that we think we have taken for granted in terms of human achievement,... more

23 Mar 2023 · 1 hour, 2 minutes
The Origins of Inequality (Angela Saini)

“People have always fought against anyone trying to impose power on them or trying to assert their status on them.... more

16 Mar 2023 · 1 hour, 3 minutes
Falling in Love With the World (Katherine May)

“When I'd gone off and got lost in the woods and I walked for hours and I just couldn't find... more

09 Mar 2023 · 1 hour, 2 minutes
Self-Healing In The Dark (Tara Schuster)

“And we are made of stars, you know. It's not some fun little thing I'm trying to make everyone feel... more

02 Mar 2023 · 54 minutes
Managing Unhealthy Family Relationships (Nedra Tawwab)

“I think the biggest challenge with codependency is, when a family member is catered to when their unhealthy or toxic... more

23 Feb 2023 · 51 minutes
The Friendships We Need (Will Schwalbe)

“A conversation that I hope this book sparks, because it's such a fun conversation, is the conversation about like, gay... more

16 Feb 2023 · 57 minutes
Learning to See Our Parents as They Are (Priscilla Gilman)

“And the moment when she admitted that she had been wrong, that was the greatest healing moment for me of... more

09 Feb 2023 · 1 hour, 2 minutes
What We’re After (Solo Episode)

In today’s episode—my first ever solo attempt—I explain how my spirituality emerged out of a largely secular, nature-based childhood, how... more

02 Feb 2023 · 52 minutes
Understanding Spiritual Power (Carissa Schumacher)

“This is the time where it's kind of like the things that we didn't get right. We need to start... more

26 Jan 2023 · 1 hour, 50 minutes
Pulling The Thread with Elise Loehnen
Making Sense of Time (Jenny Odell)
Pulling The Thread with Elise Loehnen
0:00
-0:00

Listen now on

Apple Podcasts
Spotify
Overcast
Podcast Addict
Pocket Casts
Castbox
Podbean
iHeartRadio
Player FM
Podcast Republic
Castro
RSS

Description

“I guess for me the real tragedy is this idea of a life where you're getting further and further away from something meaningful... more