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Bill Wilson, co-founder of Alcoholic's Anonymous, wrote in 1952, "If we examine every disturbance we have, great or small, we will find at the root some unhealthy dependence and its consequent demand." Wilson suggested that if we could identify and continually surrender these unrealistic and unrecognizable demands, that we may then be able to accomplish what he imagined to be recovery's next frontier - something he called emotional sobriety.
 
Flash forward 70 years, and join psychotherapists and best-selling authors Thom Rutledge and Dr. Allen Berger, who have taken up the mantle of exploring Bill Wilson's new frontier. Welcome to Emotional Sobriety.

Emotional Sobriety: The Next Step in Recovery Allen Berger & Thom Rutledge

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    • 4.7 • 41 Ratings

Bill Wilson, co-founder of Alcoholic's Anonymous, wrote in 1952, "If we examine every disturbance we have, great or small, we will find at the root some unhealthy dependence and its consequent demand." Wilson suggested that if we could identify and continually surrender these unrealistic and unrecognizable demands, that we may then be able to accomplish what he imagined to be recovery's next frontier - something he called emotional sobriety.
 
Flash forward 70 years, and join psychotherapists and best-selling authors Thom Rutledge and Dr. Allen Berger, who have taken up the mantle of exploring Bill Wilson's new frontier. Welcome to Emotional Sobriety.

    So Worth It

    So Worth It

    Allen, Thom, and Patrick read another emotional sobriety anecdote from the AA Grapevine and discuss early sobriety, sponsors, and attempting to live better lives.
     
    This week’s “Emotional Sobriety” Grapevine Article, “So Worth It”: https://www.aagrapevine.org/magazine/2024/jan/so-worth-it
     
    Check out Howard Malitz’ Seasons of Sobriety podcast: https://pod.link/1460539626
     
    Upcoming events with Allen Berger: https://abphd.com/events/
     
    Follow us on social media.
    Podcast Twitter: @EmSobrietyPod
    Instagram: thomrutledge2
    Joe C. Twitter: @Rebellion_Dogs
     
    Friendly Circle Berlin Workshop Group meets every Monday @ 7:30pm (Berlin), 6:30pm (Ireland & UK), 1:30pm EST, 10:30am PST
    Zoom Link:  https://us02web.zoom.us/j/5505019905
     
    Info for the upcoming London International AA Convention: https://londonaaconvention.com/
     
    Allen’s book, 12 Essential Insights for Emotional Sobriety: https://www.amazon.com/12-Essential-Insights-Emotional-Sobriety/dp/1955415129/
     
    Thom's book, Embracing Fear: https://www.amazon.com/Embracing-Fear-Turn-Scares-Greatest/dp/0062517759/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=
     
    Join Allen & Thom at our Thursday night, 7pm PST Zoom meeting on Emotional Sobriety and the Steps (login information below):
     
    https://zoom.us/j/330149513
    Password: 375986
     
    For our ongoing workshop video series on Emotional Sobriety and the 12 Steps, visit our YouTube channel here:
    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHEM2-kqLkfp3I4c0jy-X-g
     
    Also, please join our “Emotional Sobriety and Recovery” FB Group at the following link:
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/120450976662519
    We’d love to stay in touch in between meetings.
     
    We appreciate feedback! Contact Patrick, our producer, at pndirective4@gmail.com for any questions or comments.

    • 25 min
    Courage to Change

    Courage to Change

    Thom and Patrick discuss a friend whose wife and baby are in the hospital this weekend in dire straits, as well as Patrick’s recent elective surgery and Tom’s ephemeral challenge of procrastination. In each case we practice serenity - not only accepting that which we don’t control, but stepping up to the plate and taking any and all positive actions available to us.
     
    Check out Howard Malitz’ Seasons of Sobriety podcast: https://pod.link/1460539626
     
    Upcoming events with Allen Berger: https://abphd.com/events/
     
    Follow us on social media.
    Podcast Twitter: @EmSobrietyPod
    Instagram: thomrutledge2
    Joe C. Twitter: @Rebellion_Dogs
     
    Friendly Circle Berlin Workshop Group meets every Monday @ 7:30pm (Berlin), 6:30pm (Ireland & UK), 1:30pm EST, 10:30am PST
    Zoom Link:  https://us02web.zoom.us/j/5505019905
     
    Info for the upcoming London International AA Convention: https://londonaaconvention.com/
     
    Allen’s book, 12 Essential Insights for Emotional Sobriety: https://www.amazon.com/12-Essential-Insights-Emotional-Sobriety/dp/1955415129/
     
    Thom's book, Embracing Fear: https://www.amazon.com/Embracing-Fear-Turn-Scares-Greatest/dp/0062517759/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=
     
    Join Allen & Thom at our Thursday night, 7pm PST Zoom meeting on Emotional Sobriety and the Steps (login information below):
     
    https://zoom.us/j/330149513
    Password: 375986
     
    For our ongoing workshop video series on Emotional Sobriety and the 12 Steps, visit our YouTube channel here:
    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHEM2-kqLkfp3I4c0jy-X-g
     
    Also, please join our “Emotional Sobriety and Recovery” FB Group at the following link:
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/120450976662519
    We’d love to stay in touch in between meetings.
     
    We appreciate feedback! Contact Patrick, our producer, at pndirective4@gmail.com for any questions or comments.

    • 38 min
    Dream Come True

    Dream Come True

    Allen mines some lessons from a death in the family and Thom reflects on an inspiring recent phase of good health as we land on our latest Grapevine article, which has to do with finding recovery and fellowship in meetings around the world. Remaining flexible, finding Solution within shifting conditions is at the heart of emotional sobriety. 
     
    This week’s “Emotional Sobriety” Grapevine Article, “Dream Come True”: https://www.aagrapevine.org/magazine/2024/jan/dream-come-true
     
    Check out Howard Malitz’ Seasons of Sobriety podcast: https://pod.link/1460539626
     
    Upcoming events with Allen Berger: https://abphd.com/events/
     
    Follow us on social media.
    Podcast Twitter: @EmSobrietyPod
    Instagram: thomrutledge2
    Joe C. Twitter: @Rebellion_Dogs
     
    Friendly Circle Berlin Workshop Group meets every Monday @ 7:30pm (Berlin), 6:30pm (Ireland & UK), 1:30pm EST, 10:30am PST
    Zoom Link:  https://us02web.zoom.us/j/5505019905
     
    Info for the upcoming London International AA Convention: https://londonaaconvention.com/
     
    Allen’s book, 12 Essential Insights for Emotional Sobriety: https://www.amazon.com/12-Essential-Insights-Emotional-Sobriety/dp/1955415129/
     
    Thom's book, Embracing Fear: https://www.amazon.com/Embracing-Fear-Turn-Scares-Greatest/dp/0062517759/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=
     
    Join Allen & Thom at our Thursday night, 7pm PST Zoom meeting on Emotional Sobriety and the Steps (login information below):
     
    https://zoom.us/j/330149513
    Password: 375986
     
    For our ongoing workshop video series on Emotional Sobriety and the 12 Steps, visit our YouTube channel here:
    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHEM2-kqLkfp3I4c0jy-X-g
     
    Also, please join our “Emotional Sobriety and Recovery” FB Group at the following link:
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/120450976662519
    We’d love to stay in touch in between meetings.
     
    We appreciate feedback! Contact Patrick, our producer, at pndirective4@gmail.com for any questions or comments.

    • 31 min
    Party Guy

    Party Guy

    The Grapevine story Carol, Allen, Thom, and Patrick get into this week has to do with a longtime AA member fielding some annoying criticism from a Fellow and being brought into deeper contact with recovery and all the reasons to “keep coming back.”
     
    This week’s “Emotional Sobriety” Grapevine Article, “Party Guy”: https://www.aagrapevine.org/magazine/2024/jan/party-guy
     
    Check out Howard Malitz’ Seasons of Sobriety podcast: https://pod.link/1460539626
     
    Upcoming events with Allen Berger: https://abphd.com/events/
     
    Follow us on social media.
    Podcast Twitter: @EmSobrietyPod
    Instagram: thomrutledge2
    Joe C. Twitter: @Rebellion_Dogs
     
    Friendly Circle Berlin Workshop Group meets every Monday @ 7:30pm (Berlin), 6:30pm (Ireland & UK), 1:30pm EST, 10:30am PST
    Zoom Link:  https://us02web.zoom.us/j/5505019905
     
    Info for the upcoming London International AA Convention: https://londonaaconvention.com/
     
    Allen’s book, 12 Essential Insights for Emotional Sobriety: https://www.amazon.com/12-Essential-Insights-Emotional-Sobriety/dp/1955415129/
     
    Thom's book, Embracing Fear: https://www.amazon.com/Embracing-Fear-Turn-Scares-Greatest/dp/0062517759/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=
     
    Join Allen & Thom at our Thursday night, 7pm PST Zoom meeting on Emotional Sobriety and the Steps (login information below):
     
    https://zoom.us/j/330149513
    Password: 375986
     
    For our ongoing workshop video series on Emotional Sobriety and the 12 Steps, visit our YouTube channel here:
    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHEM2-kqLkfp3I4c0jy-X-g
     
    Also, please join our “Emotional Sobriety and Recovery” FB Group at the following link:
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/120450976662519
    We’d love to stay in touch in between meetings.
     
    We appreciate feedback! Contact Patrick, our producer, at pndirective4@gmail.com for any questions or comments.

    • 49 min
    Getting the Help

    Getting the Help

    Carol Carter joins the pod again (and will be returning next week!) to discuss depth and stages of recovery, culling from a recent Emotional Sobriety-focused Grapevine article.
     
    This week’s “Emotional Sobriety” Grapevine Article, “Getting the Help”: https://www.aagrapevine.org/magazine/2024/jan/getting-help
     
    Check out Howard Malitz’ Seasons of Sobriety podcast: https://pod.link/1460539626
     
    Upcoming events with Allen Berger: https://abphd.com/events/
     
    Follow us on social media.
    Podcast Twitter: @EmSobrietyPod
    Instagram: thomrutledge2
    Joe C. Twitter: @Rebellion_Dogs
     
    Friendly Circle Berlin Workshop Group meets every Monday @ 7:30pm (Berlin), 6:30pm (Ireland & UK), 1:30pm EST, 10:30am PST
    Zoom Link:  https://us02web.zoom.us/j/5505019905
     
    Info for the upcoming London International AA Convention: https://londonaaconvention.com/
     
    Allen’s book, 12 Essential Insights for Emotional Sobriety: https://www.amazon.com/12-Essential-Insights-Emotional-Sobriety/dp/1955415129/
     
    Thom's book, Embracing Fear: https://www.amazon.com/Embracing-Fear-Turn-Scares-Greatest/dp/0062517759/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=
     
    Join Allen & Thom at our Thursday night, 7pm PST Zoom meeting on Emotional Sobriety and the Steps (login information below):
     
    https://zoom.us/j/330149513
    Password: 375986
     
    For our ongoing workshop video series on Emotional Sobriety and the 12 Steps, visit our YouTube channel here:
    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHEM2-kqLkfp3I4c0jy-X-g
     
    Also, please join our “Emotional Sobriety and Recovery” FB Group at the following link:
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/120450976662519
    We’d love to stay in touch in between meetings.
     
    We appreciate feedback! Contact Patrick, our producer, at pndirective4@gmail.com for any questions or comments.

    • 40 min
    Unity = Love

    Unity = Love

    This week we discuss the “peaceful leveling” that occurs in fellowship, how with greater emotional sobriety our alienating differences can melt away. When we align with reality, staying "right-sized," we don’t over inflate our own importance, nor do we minimize the importance of others. 
     
    This week’s “Emotional Sobriety” Grapevine Article, “Unity = Love”: https://www.aagrapevine.org/magazine/2024/jan/unitylove
     
    Check out Howard Malitz’ Seasons of Sobriety podcast: https://pod.link/1460539626
     
    Upcoming events with Allen Berger: https://abphd.com/events/
     
    Follow us on social media.
    Podcast Twitter: @EmSobrietyPod
    Instagram: thomrutledge2
    Joe C. Twitter: @Rebellion_Dogs
     
    Friendly Circle Berlin Workshop Group meets every Monday @ 7:30pm (Berlin), 6:30pm (Ireland & UK), 1:30pm EST, 10:30am PST
    Zoom Link:  https://us02web.zoom.us/j/5505019905
     
    Info for the upcoming London International AA Convention: https://londonaaconvention.com/
     
    Allen’s book, 12 Essential Insights for Emotional Sobriety: https://www.amazon.com/12-Essential-Insights-Emotional-Sobriety/dp/1955415129/
     
    Thom's book, Embracing Fear: https://www.amazon.com/Embracing-Fear-Turn-Scares-Greatest/dp/0062517759/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=
     
    Join Allen & Thom at our Thursday night, 7pm PST Zoom meeting on Emotional Sobriety and the Steps (login information below):
     
    https://zoom.us/j/330149513
    Password: 375986
     
    For our ongoing workshop video series on Emotional Sobriety and the 12 Steps, visit our YouTube channel here:
    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHEM2-kqLkfp3I4c0jy-X-g
     
    Also, please join our “Emotional Sobriety and Recovery” FB Group at the following link:
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/120450976662519
    We’d love to stay in touch in between meetings.
     
    We appreciate feedback! Contact Patrick, our producer, at pndirective4@gmail.com for any questions or comments.

    • 25 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
41 Ratings

41 Ratings

DianePfandler ,

Thank you

Thank you.
I asked my HP for help and you'll delivered.

Squinte ,

My top sobriety podcast

I discovered this when Celeste Yvonne came on. Now I listen every night. Such good work and helpful thinking around emotional sobriety. Thank you for the gift of creating and sharing something so important and thoughtful. You have helped me a lot as I do my own work.

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True Acceptance podcast

Thank you guys for this episode. It’s right on time for me and much needed. Blessings from Tennessee.

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