Dear Matchmaker

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  Join me in this special episode from the hosts of 'Othered" where we talk all things matchmaking, dating and connection!  You can find Othered here: https://uploadmediagroup.com/othered And here: https://www.instagram.com/otheredthepodcast/  

Welcome Jean Atman to Dear Matchmaker!  Jean is a Soul Evolution Specialist and Quantum Healer. She assists purpose-driven women to embark on a soul-stirring journey of self-discovery, unearthing their true purpose and bravely confronting and releasing the shackles of their past. As they let go of old wounds, they free themselves to embody a brighter future and fully step into their limitless potential, embracing the powerful vision of who they can be. You can find her here: https://www.facebook.com/JeanAtmanEnergyAlchemist/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-NrTBudMteZpdUjDmY8Smg

In this episode of "Dear Matchmaker," Cat addresses three key pet peeves in online dating. First, she advises against demanding confirmation on the day of a date, arguing that it stems from insecurity and fear. Second, Cat discourages putting pressure on potential future dates immediately after the first encounter, suggesting instead to give both parties time to process and reflect. Finally, she advocates for presenting one's best self in online dating profiles, likening it to preparing for a job interview. Cat's advice centers on fostering healthy communication, setting realistic expectations, and prioritizing self-confidence in the dating journey.

In this heartwarming episode of 'Dear Matchmaker,' your host, Cat, invites you on a journey to explore the transformative power of shifting your mindset when it comes to dating and relationships. With genuine warmth, Cat urges us to embrace the beauty of life's positives, encouraging us to leave behind the nagging thoughts of what we may lack. Cat shares insightful perspectives on the evolution of dating, reminding us that the quest for romance and enduring partnerships is a relatively recent development, made even more complex in the era of online connections. She delves into attachment theory, unraveling how our upbringing shapes our behavior within relationships, making the topic feel like a heartfelt conversation with an old friend. Drawing from her own life experiences, Cat opens up about her personal triumphs over adversity, instilling in us the belief that we too can conquer challenging circumstances. She lovingly encourages us to take a moment to reflect on our own achievements and guides us through a New Year's exercise – listing ten things we are truly proud of and setting heartfelt intentions for the future. As the episode draws to a close, Cat leaves us with a powerful message of hope and a gentle reminder that love has a way of finding us when we radiate joy and positivity throughout our lives. Tune in, as Cat's warm and relatable storytelling will leave you inspired to embrace a brighter, love-filled future.

In this episode of "Dear Matchmaker," Cat delves into the intriguing world of first impressions and the pivotal role that one's image plays on a first date. She explores the significance of appearance, clothing choices, body language, and grooming in shaping initial perceptions. Discover how these elements can influence attraction, chemistry, and the overall success of a burgeoning romantic connection. Tune in to gain valuable tips and strategies for making an unforgettable first impression on your next date. Don't miss this episode's deep dive into the importance of image in the world of modern dating.

In this enlightening episode of 'Dear Matchmaker,' we are thrilled to welcome Kristin Sokol, a seasoned Science-Based Dating Coach with nearly two decades of expertise in the field. Kristin, a graduate from the University of Texas with a specialization in coaching and holding a prestigious ICF Professional Certified Coach credential, brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to the table. Our conversation delves into Kristin's unique and successful formula, designed to transition individuals from singlehood to marriage within a time frame of 6 to 18 months. We explore the practical steps, psychological insights, and strategic approaches that Kristin employs in her coaching practice, which have contributed to the successful marital journeys of numerous clients. Kristin's methods are not just about finding a match but also about personal growth and readiness for a committed relationship. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking a scientific and structured approach to dating, aiming for a meaningful and lasting partnership. Join us as we uncover the secrets to accelerating your journey from being single to saying 'I do.' You can find Kristin here: https://www.instagram.com/kristinsokol/ https://www.facebook.com/KristinSokolCoach https://kristinsokol.com/

In this solo episode of 'Dear Matchmaker,' we take a heartfelt look into the nuanced world of dating with a significant age gap. Drawing from both personal insights and shared experiences, I delve into the complexities and challenges that couples face when there's a notable age difference between them. From navigating societal judgments to balancing different life stages and understanding the dynamics of maturity and power, this episode sheds light on the realities of age-gap relationships. Join me as I explore how these unique partnerships can thrive despite the obstacles, offering advice and support to those who find love outside the conventional age boundaries. More about my services: www.theheartagency.com Submit your question: www.dearmatchmaker.com 

In this eye-opening episode of 'Dear Matchmaker', we tackle the frequently voiced concern: "Why can't I find a good man?" Join us as we delve into the heart of this question, exploring the possibility that often, the right men might be right before our eyes. We discuss how societal changes are encouraging men to address their inner traumas and emotional health, making them more open and ready for deep, meaningful connections. This episode aims to shift perspectives, encouraging women to recognize and welcome the emotionally mature, self-aware men who are emerging in today's dating world. Tune in to discover how opening your heart and adjusting your viewpoint could reveal that the good men you seek have been there all along.

Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker!  Join me for a unique episode as I get interviewed by Dean & Miles from The Legion Lifestyle Podcast where we discuss all things dating, sex, attachment styles and more!  Want more information about Cat?  Visit here: www.theheartagency.com 

Dear listeners, join me, Cat Cantrill, in a deeply personal exploration of what it means to step back into the dating world as a single mom in this week's episode of "Dear Matchmaker." In today’s heart-to-heart episode, I’ll be sharing stories and gentle advice from my own experiences, weaving through the joys and hurdles of merging the delicate worlds of new love and parenthood.  Want more information about my services?  Click here:  www.theheartagency.com Want to submit your own question?   www.dearmatchmaker.com

Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker!  Join us as we dive deep into the mysterious world of 'ghosting' – the unsettling act of ending a relationship by suddenly going silent without any explanation. In this introspective episode, we draw from personal anecdotes, listener experiences, and my own understanding to unpack the psychology behind ghosting. Discover why some choose to disappear rather than face confrontation and the emotional aftermath it leaves in its wake.  For more information about Cat, click here: www.theheartagency.com 

Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker!  In today's digital age, where instant messaging is second nature, have we lost the beauty of anticipation? This episode delves deep into the art and psychology of communication, specifically focusing on the period leading up to the coveted first date. We explore why resisting the urge to text might not only heighten excitement and curiosity but also set the stage for a more authentic connection. Whether you're swiping right or have been set up the old-fashioned way, this episode might make you reconsider reaching for your phone. So, before you hit send on that emoji or GIF, give this a listen – it could transform your dating game! Submit your own question here: www.dearmatchmaker.com More information about my stuff here: www.theheartagency.com 

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  Please help me welcome Linda Clemons!  Linda Clemons is a charismatic speaker and corporate trainer with more than three decades’ experience helping clients boost their sales. As a nonverbal communications expert, she provides sales and leadership teams with an awareness of how body language can improve performance and outcomes. Based in Indianapolis, Indiana, Linda is the CEO of Sisterpreneur® Inc, an organization that educates and empowers female entrepreneurs to become successful and reach their goals through self-empowerment and entrepreneurial training. Linda is a Body Language Expert trained and certified in Analytic Interviewing and Statement Analysis,™ a process used to detect deception. She is an award-winning, record-setting sales producer, as well as one of the top sales trainers in the world. Utilizing her multifaceted skills, Linda has generated over $2 billion in sales for her clients in the hospitality, travel, and luxury lifestyle industries. You can find her free ebook here: https://lindaclemonsebooks.com/products/linda-clemons-ebook  Website: https://lindaclemons.com/  Body Language Course: https://www.mindvalley.com/attraction?otag=linda-clemons-quest-aff  Have a question?  Submit it to me at www.dearmatchmaker.com  Find more about me here: www.theheartagency.com   

Welcome to another episode to Dear Matchmaker! In this week's episode, we talk about the topic of intimidating men and whether women should be concerned or change themselves. I share my own personal experience of being told I was intimidating and how I initially considered changing myself to attract love.  Take a listen!  You can find more info about my services here: www.theheartagency.com  Want to get on the waitlist for my upcoming retreat?  Click here: https://theheartagency.com/retreats/ Want to submit a question?  Click here: www.dearmatchmaker.com 

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!    In this episode, I discuss the difference between dating for Mr. or Ms. Right Now versus dating for a long-term partner. I talk about the importance of compatibility and vulnerability in a relationship. I also touch on the challenges of dating someone significantly younger or older and the importance of shared values and goals.   Its time to stop settling for short-term relationships and to hold out for a compatible long-term partner.    You can find more info about me here: www.theheartagency.com   You can email me here: cat@theheartagency.com         

Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker!  In this week's episode, I do a bit of a catsplanation of what a TRUE red flag is.  I dive into the issue that people are very quick to label others and the lack of empathy in the dating world. Take a listen!  Website: www.theheartagency.com Submit a question: www.dearmatchmaker.com Email me: cat@theheartagency.com 

Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker!  On this episode, Cat interviews Treva Brandon Scharf an International Coaching Federation-certified life/dating/relationship coach, former fitness professional, midlife marriage first-timer, and author of Done Being Single: A Late Bloomer’s Guide to Love. www.trevabrandonscharf.com Podcast Done Being Single  https://donebeingsingle.com/ Here is where you can find Treva: https://www.instagram.com/trevabme/  https://www.linkedin.com/in/trevabrandonscharf/  https://twitter.com/trevabme  https://www.facebook.com/treva.brandonscharf Want to join the waitlist for my retreat Spring 2024? Click here to email me: cat@theheartagency.com  More info about Cat: www.theheartagency.com   

Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker!  This week, I have a very special guest, Astrologer Lucy Porter! Lucy Porter is an Astrologer focused on love, sex and relationships. Her passion is the re-emergence of mysticism in a humorous, accessible and juicy way. She is an initiated High Priestess & Certified Matchmaker, she calls herself a ‘Priestess in the City'—like a spiritual Carrie Bradshaw who walks around with a bunch of sage, instead of a Marlboro Light! Come and listen as we talk about love, astrology, matchmaking and so much more!  You can find Lucy: https://www.instagram.com/lucy.porter.portal www.lucy-porter.com If you wish to submit a question to Dear Matchmaker, go to www.dearmatchmaker.com For more information about my services, go to www.theheartagency.com  Follow me on IG: https://instagram.com/catcantrill    

On this episode of Dear Matchmaker Cat gives her Cat-spin on the topic “Love Bombing”, What is it? The difference between Love Bombing and Anxious Attachment, The 4 Phases of love bombing, and the 9 Signs you should look for to avoid this toxic behavior.  Link to previous episodes: Love Addiction, Codependency & Narcissism  My Love Story  Visit Us: www.theheartagency.com Email us: matchmaker@theheartagency.com

Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker!  Today's episode, I have a special guest - Men's Dating Coach Ege Reynolds.  In this episode, Ege shares his own personal journey as an introverted man in the dating world and how it led him to become a dating coach. Ege shares the four principles he teaches to help his clients create the greatest connection.   We discuss how introverts can date with confidence and so much more!   A little bit about Ege: Ege Reynolds is a former software engineer who is now the founder & CEO of the Charming Man, helping genuine, analytical men attract & date women authentically. He's passionate about using dating as a vehicle to help men step into their higher self & helps his clients transform holistically through the REEL Attraction System. He helps these men become more attractive to women by focusing on four principles: Relaxation, Expression, Empathy & Leading. These principles guide our clients like a compass for their dating lives & allow them to meet and date women in a sustainable way that is a win for them & the women they meet. Here is where you can find Ege:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realcharmingman/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ege.reynolds/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheCharmingMan/