This Black Girl Podcast

Hosts: Lola (@ola.ms.lola) feat. The Mr. (@pretenciouslycrass) Instagram: @thisblackgirlpodcast Twitter: @ThisBlackGirlP SYNOPSIS: This episode explores the common misconceptions and pressures that often accompany the first date experience. From societal influences to personal ideals, we dissect the various layers that contribute to the weight of external and internal expectations. Through insightful conversations, we unravel the significance of managing expectations and fostering genuine connections. We discuss the significance of being true to oneself while maintaining an open mind to the possibilities that unfold during this pivotal encounter. We discuss recent viral examples such as "The Cheesecake Factory Girl" and "Oyster Bar Girl" Additionally, we delve into the delicate art of communication, emphasizing the importance of honest dialogue and active listening to foster mutual understanding and respect. Rate & Review us! #TBGP #advice #dating #relationships #delusion #opinion #reality #toronto #exposed #messy #jokes #comedy #responsibility #accountability #thecheesecakefactory #oysterbar #firstdate #tangents --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thisblackgirl/message

Hosts: Lola (@ola.ms.lola) feat. The Mr. (@pretenciouslycrass) Instagram: @thisblackgirlpodcast Twitter: @ThisBlackGirlP SYNOPSIS: In this episode, we discuss what's been keeping our interest. We also discuss our opinion of our preferred couples from 90 Day Fiance: The Last Resort, TLC' newest reality spin-off. We also discuss the big outstanding issue with some of these characters: the perspective would be obvious if the gender roles were reversed.   Rate & Review us! #TBGP #advice #dating #relationships #delusion #opinion #reality #90DayFiance #TheLastResort #toronto #tlc #narcissist #kehaniandasulelu #angelaandmichael #yaraandjovi #kellyandmolly #exposed #messy #jokes #comedy --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thisblackgirl/message

Hosts: Lola (@ola.ms.lola) feat. The Mr. (@pretenciouslycrass) Instagram: @thisblackgirlpodcast Twitter: @ThisBlackGirlP SYNOPSIS: In this episode, we begin by exploring the concepts of accountability and responsibility and how they intersect in our personal lives. Through personal anecdotes and relatable stories, we shed light on the importance of taking ownership of our actions and decisions. From managing our commitments to facing the consequences of our choices, Lola & The Mr. provide valuable insights on how accountability and responsibility shape our character. But the heart of our discussion lies in the essence of true friendship. What does it mean to be a friend, and how do these notions of accountability and responsibility play a pivotal role in nurturing authentic friendships? We share stories of camaraderie and loyalty, emphasizing that true friends are those who stand by you in times of need, share your joys and sorrows, and hold you accountable for your growth and well-being. Throughout the episode, we delve into the qualities that define genuine friendships, such as trust, honesty, and mutual support. Our hosts discuss the importance of being there for your friends, both in good times and bad, and how this reciprocity strengthens the bonds we share. As we wrap up this enlightening conversation, we provide practical tips and guidance on how to cultivate and maintain meaningful friendships based on accountability and responsibility. Rate & Review us! #TBGP #advice #dating #relationships #delusion #opinion #reality #toronto #exposed #messy #jokes #comedy #responsibility #accountability #mentalhealth #tangents --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thisblackgirl/message

Hosts: Lola (@ola.ms.lola) feat. The Mr. (@pretenciouslycrass) Instagram: @thisblackgirlpodcast Twitter: @ThisBlackGirlP SYNOPSIS: In this episode, join us for a casual and insightful conversation about the transformative power of forgiveness and why it holds such immense importance in our lives. Our hosts, Lola (@ola.ms.lola) & The Mr. (@pretenciouslycrass), dive deep into the very essence of forgiveness, exploring its effects on our mental, emotional, and even physical well-being. We start by unpacking the fundamental concept of forgiveness – what it means and what it doesn't mean. Through personal anecdotes and expert insights, we demystify the misconceptions surrounding forgiveness, highlighting that it doesn't always equate to condoning or forgetting hurtful actions. Rate & Review us! #TBGP #advice #dating #relationships #delusion #opinion #reality #toronto #exposed #messy #jokes #comedy #forgiveness #forgive #forget #mentalhealth --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thisblackgirl/message

Hosts: Lola (@ola.ms.lola) feat. The Mr. (@pretenciouslycrass) Instagram: @thisblackgirlpodcast Twitter: @ThisBlackGirlP SYNOPSIS: In this episode, Lola tells The Mr. what girl math is and what girl dinner means. We talk about the love of shopping and review the MTV VMAs. Rate & Review us! #TBGP #advice #dating #relationships #delusion #opinion #reality #beyonce #girlmath #girldinner #toronto #DojaCat #music #exposed #messy #jokes #comedy #shopping #TaylorSwift #DemiLevato #CardiB #MeganTheeStallion #NickiMinaj #mtv #vma --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thisblackgirl/message

Hosts: Lola (@ola.ms.lola) feat. The Mr. (@pretenciouslycrass) Instagram: @thisblackgirlpodcast Twitter: @ThisBlackGirlP SYNOPSIS: In this episode, we discuss where we have been, why there has been such a hiatus, and what we have been doing to return! Rate & Review us! #TBGP #advice #dating #relationships #delusion #opinion #reality #beyonce #renaissance #toronto #dojacat #music #exposed #messy #jokes #comedy --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thisblackgirl/message

Hosts: Lola (@ola.ms.lola) feat. The Mr. (@pretenciouslycrass) Instagram: @thisblackgirlpodcast Twitter: @ThisBlackGirlP SYNOPSIS: In this episode, we discuss what's been occupying our interests in our absence. We also discuss our opinion of the 'least-liked' characters from 90 Day Fiance and a real-life narcissist and the superpower we use against them. We also discuss the big outstanding issue with some of these characters that the perspective would be extremely clear if the gender roles are reversed.   Rate & Review us! #TBGP #advice #dating #relationships #delusion #opinion #reality #90DayFiance #toronto #tlc #narcissist #shaeedaandbilal #angelaandmichael #kimandusman #exposed #messy #jokes #comedy --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thisblackgirl/message

Hosts: Lola (@ola.ms.lola) feat. Dr. Tanya Nichols (@blackgirlwellness.co) Instagram: @thisblackgirlpodcast Twitter: @ThisBlackGirlP SYNOPSIS: In this episode, I sit and discuss the background and journey of Dr. Tanya Nichols, the creator, and founder of Black Girl Wellness. Black Girl Wellness exists to address the emotional impact of the compounding stressors, Black Girl Wellness targets four areas of wellness: mental, physical, career, and financial. This platform is a one-stop shop for wellness solutions that can bring peace, purpose, and fulfillment to the lives of Black women and women of color. www.blackgirlwellness.co/ Rate & Review us! #TBGP #advice #mentalhealth #relationships #physicalhealth #opinion #career #financial #dmv #lifecoach #lifelessons #blackbusiness #blackwomen #blackgirlwellness --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thisblackgirl/message

Hosts: Lola (@ola.ms.lola) feat. The Mr. (@pretenciouslycrass) Instagram: @thisblackgirlpodcast Twitter: @ThisBlackGirlP SYNOPSIS: In this episode, we discuss the possible red flags in dating and what makes a man or a woman a pick-me person. We also discuss a case study in our personal life and how we have tried to break the illusion that people sometimes build a surrounding a person they are interested in. Furthermore, we ask whether or not rejection plays a factor in how we handle each other in the dating space. Rate & Review us! #TBGP #advice #dating #relationships #delusion #opinion #reality #pickme #toronto #tinder #catfish #fantasy #exposed #messy #jokes #comedy --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thisblackgirl/message

Hosts: Lola (@ola.ms.lola) feat. The Mr. (@pretenciouslycrass) Instagram: @thisblackgirlpodcast Twitter: @ThisBlackGirlP SYNOPSIS: In this episode, we discuss the latest antics of Kanye West. We address what could be considered actions associated with mental health and what are not and question the need for a conservatorship. We discuss the vultures preying upon the situation and Lola tells a storytime of why mental health and social media do NOT go together. Furthermore, we tackle the feeling of wanting to help but are not equipped to do so, including the person needing help. Rate & Review us! #TBGP #advice #kanyewest #relationships #delusion #opinion #reality #fashion #toronto #vogue #candiceowens #tuckercarlson #exposed #messy #jokes #comedy --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thisblackgirl/message

Hosts: Lola (@ola.ms.lola) feat. The Mr. (@pretenciouslycrass) Instagram: @thisblackgirlpodcast Twitter: @ThisBlackGirlP SYNOPSIS: In this episode, we could NOT get past this drama with Ned Fulmer and the Try Guys. We continued the conversation about the significant fall-out of Ned Fulmer of the Try-Guys being exposed of being in a 'consensual work relationship' with a colleague. We talk about the viewpoints from a business and legal standpoint and how we would feel if we were in the situation. Rate & Review us! #TBGP #advice #tryguys #relationships #delusion #opinion #reality #dating #toronto #nedfulmer #cheating #tea #exposed #messy #jokes #comedy --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thisblackgirl/message

Hosts: Lola (@ola.ms.lola) feat. The Mr. (@pretenciouslycrass) Instagram: @thisblackgirlpodcast Twitter: @ThisBlackGirlP SYNOPSIS: In this season's premiere, we return! We are back and getting caught up on all the TEA of the past month. From the queen's passing, the newest big brother win, Cardi B's latest charges in court, and much more! We also discuss the big fall-out of Ned Fulmer of the Try-Guys being exposed of being in a 'consensual work relationship' with a colleague. We speculate on what the repercussions couple be moving forward and how it affects ALL parties. Rate & Review us! #TBGP #advice #tryguys #relationships #delusion #opinion #reality #dating #toronto #nedfulmer #cheating #tea #exposed #messy #jokes #comedy --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thisblackgirl/message

Hosts: Lola (@ola.ms.lola) feat. The Mr. (@pretenciouslycrass) Instagram: @thisblackgirlpodcast Twitter: @ThisBlackGirlP SYNOPSIS: In this finale episode, we discuss the weird fatphobic vibes on social media and why it always seems like Lizzo is hated on or disrespected unprovoked. We discuss the backlash on Calvin Kein's and Abercrombie & fitch's recent campaign ads and where the REAL outrage should lie. We also dissect the root of Aries Spears's disrespect disguised as a joke and theorize the real reasons.  Rate & Review us! #TBGP #advice #Lizzo #relationships #delusion #opinion #reality #dating #toronto #ariesspears #fatphobic #jokes #comedy --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thisblackgirl/message

Hosts: Lola (@ola.ms.lola) feat. The Mr. (@pretenciouslycrass) Instagram: @thisblackgirlpodcast Twitter: @ThisBlackGirlP SYNOPSIS: In this episode, we discuss a couple of lists floating around social media discussing turn-offs specifically in men and specifically in women that give people the "ick". We either co-sign or disagree with what is listed and add a few picks of our own. We also talk about people who like to provide real bad advice when it comes to what should be considered turn-offs and why men like Andrew Tate are a full personification of an ICK!  Rate & Review us! #TBGP #advice #ick #relationships #delusion #opinion #reality #dating #toronto #andrewtate #cancelled  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thisblackgirl/message

Hosts: Lola (@ola.ms.lola) feat. The Mr. (@pretenciouslycrass) Instagram: @thisblackgirlpodcast Twitter: @ThisBlackGirlP SYNOPSIS: In this episode, we discuss the struggle of being able to see things objectively and draw examples from stan culture. We discuss when to call a spade, a spade and acknowledge things as they are rather than what we want them to be. We also talk about the frustrations of being self-employed in the creative space and some of the issues we've experienced. Rate & Review us! #TBGP #advice #artist #relationships #delusion #opinion #reality #art #capitalism --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thisblackgirl/message

Hosts: Lola (@ola.ms.lola) feat. The Mr. (@pretenciouslycrass) Instagram: @thisblackgirlpodcast Twitter: @ThisBlackGirlP SYNOPSIS: In this episode, we discuss boundaries in our relationships and what actions (physical or emotional) can be defined as cheating, and what is considered double standards when it comes to men versus women being close. We also talk about drug use in social settings and why we find it somewhat weird.  Rate & Review us! #TBGP #advice #cheating #relationships #kissing #opinion #lgbtqia #lesbian #porn --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thisblackgirl/message

Hosts: Lola (@ola.ms.lola) feat. The Mr. (@pretenciouslycrass) Instagram: @thisblackgirlpodcast Twitter: @ThisBlackGirlP SYNOPSIS: In this episode, we talk about the past weekend with the entire city celebrating Caribana. We explain what the festival is, our personal history with the festival, and our relationship with it. We also address all the parties and festivities surrounding the weekend. We sat out this year's festivities and discuss why there is no Fear Of Missing Out. www.anchor.fm/thisblackgirl Rate & Review us! #TBGP #advice #health #relationships #caribana #opinion #covid #monkeypox  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thisblackgirl/message

Hosts: Lola (@ola.ms.lola) feat. The Mr. (@pretenciouslycrass) Instagram: @thisblackgirlpodcast Twitter: @ThisBlackGirlP SYNOPSIS: In this episode, we talk about the ups and downs and the mess surrounding receiving and giving advice. We talk about our experiences and what we consider bad advice. Our pet peeves about the idea. Stories about advice going very wrong plus address the latest episode of 90 Day Fiance on TLC.  www.anchor.fm/thisblackgirl Rate & Review us! #TBGP #advice #health #relationships #90DayFiance #badadvice #opinion #storytime --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thisblackgirl/message

Host: Lola (@ola.ms.lola) ft. JawJackin Show (@jawjackinshow) | @pbelafontae, @kingzoe3862, @dookielaflare1804 Instagram: @thisblackgirlpodcast // @jawjackinshow |  Twitter: @ThisBlackGirlP  SYNOPSIS: In this episode, I get to discuss the growing pains of skin folk and kinfolk with the amazing trio of the JawJackin Show. We talk about what it's like growing up as an individual black person with our own personal cultural experiences and how it felt to experience the various differences with the black community outside of our race and how it may have affected our dating preferences and/or past and current relationships. If you're interested in learning more about the JawJackin Show, you can visit them on Instagram at @jawjackinshow Have a question, comment, or looking for advice?  Email: thisblackgirlpodcast@gmail.com www.anchor.fm/thisblackgirl Rate & Review us! #tbgp #podcast #dating #race #culture #preference #haiti #relationships --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thisblackgirl/message

Hosts: Lola (@ola.ms.lola) feat. The Mr. (@pretenciouslycrass) Instagram: @thisblackgirlpodcast Twitter: @ThisBlackGirlP SYNOPSIS: In this episode, we talk about managing work-life balance. We address the differences we appreciate and do not appreciate of working from home vs working from the office. We also talk about our real lives, what it's like working with your partner, how we manage our day jobs, and our side hustle.  www.anchor.fm/thisblackgirl Rate & Review us! #TBGP #work #lifestyle #growingup #adulting #workfromhome #wfh --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thisblackgirl/message