96 episodes

Join us as we navigate the complexities of love, friendship, family, and self-discovery, offering insights & advice that resonate with a diverse audience. Our podcast is a safe space for candid discussions, personal stories, & expert interviews that provide a holistic understanding of modern relationships.

In addition to our focus on relationships, we provide commentary on the latest in popular culture, including in-depth analysis of trending topics & reviews of your favorite TV shows. Our unique blend of relationship wisdom & cultural critique ensures that every episode is a fun journey.

This Black Girl Podcast LOLA (@ola.ms.lola)

    • Society & Culture
    • 5.0 • 3 Ratings

Join us as we navigate the complexities of love, friendship, family, and self-discovery, offering insights & advice that resonate with a diverse audience. Our podcast is a safe space for candid discussions, personal stories, & expert interviews that provide a holistic understanding of modern relationships.

In addition to our focus on relationships, we provide commentary on the latest in popular culture, including in-depth analysis of trending topics & reviews of your favorite TV shows. Our unique blend of relationship wisdom & cultural critique ensures that every episode is a fun journey.

    Season 4 - E:12 - First Date

    Season 4 - E:12 - First Date

    Hosts: Lola (@ola.ms.lola) feat. The Mr. (@pretenciouslycrass)

    Instagram: @thisblackgirlpodcast

    Twitter: @ThisBlackGirlP

    SYNOPSIS: This episode explores the common misconceptions and pressures that often accompany the first date experience. From societal influences to personal ideals, we dissect the various layers that contribute to the weight of external and internal expectations.



    Through insightful conversations, we unravel the significance of managing expectations and fostering genuine connections. We discuss the significance of being true to oneself while maintaining an open mind to the possibilities that unfold during this pivotal encounter. We discuss recent viral examples such as "The Cheesecake Factory Girl" and "Oyster Bar Girl"



    Additionally, we delve into the delicate art of communication, emphasizing the importance of honest dialogue and active listening to foster mutual understanding and respect.



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    • 39 min
    Season 4 - E:11 - The Last Resort

    Season 4 - E:11 - The Last Resort

    Hosts: Lola (@ola.ms.lola) feat. The Mr. (@pretenciouslycrass)

    Instagram: @thisblackgirlpodcast

    Twitter: @ThisBlackGirlP

    SYNOPSIS: In this episode, we discuss what's been keeping our interest. We also discuss our opinion of our preferred couples from 90 Day Fiance: The Last Resort, TLC' newest reality spin-off. We also discuss the big outstanding issue with some of these characters: the perspective would be obvious if the gender roles were reversed.  

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    • 41 min
    Season 4 - E:10 - BIG MAD

    Season 4 - E:10 - BIG MAD

    Hosts: Lola (@ola.ms.lola) feat. The Mr. (@pretenciouslycrass)

    Instagram: @thisblackgirlpodcast

    Twitter: @ThisBlackGirlP

    SYNOPSIS: In this episode, we begin by exploring the concepts of accountability and responsibility and how they intersect in our personal lives. Through personal anecdotes and relatable stories, we shed light on the importance of taking ownership of our actions and decisions. From managing our commitments to facing the consequences of our choices, Lola & The Mr. provide valuable insights on how accountability and responsibility shape our character.

    But the heart of our discussion lies in the essence of true friendship. What does it mean to be a friend, and how do these notions of accountability and responsibility play a pivotal role in nurturing authentic friendships? We share stories of camaraderie and loyalty, emphasizing that true friends are those who stand by you in times of need, share your joys and sorrows, and hold you accountable for your growth and well-being.

    Throughout the episode, we delve into the qualities that define genuine friendships, such as trust, honesty, and mutual support. Our hosts discuss the importance of being there for your friends, both in good times and bad, and how this reciprocity strengthens the bonds we share.

    As we wrap up this enlightening conversation, we provide practical tips and guidance on how to cultivate and maintain meaningful friendships based on accountability and responsibility.

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    • 49 min
    Season 4 - E:9 - Forgive & Forget?

    Season 4 - E:9 - Forgive & Forget?

    Hosts: Lola (@ola.ms.lola) feat. The Mr. (@pretenciouslycrass)

    Instagram: @thisblackgirlpodcast

    Twitter: @ThisBlackGirlP

    SYNOPSIS: In this episode, join us for a casual and insightful conversation about the transformative power of forgiveness and why it holds such immense importance in our lives. Our hosts, Lola (@ola.ms.lola) & The Mr. (@pretenciouslycrass), dive deep into the very essence of forgiveness, exploring its effects on our mental, emotional, and even physical well-being.

    We start by unpacking the fundamental concept of forgiveness – what it means and what it doesn't mean. Through personal anecdotes and expert insights, we demystify the misconceptions surrounding forgiveness, highlighting that it doesn't always equate to condoning or forgetting hurtful actions.


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    • 54 min
    Season 4 - E:8 - Girls do it better!

    Season 4 - E:8 - Girls do it better!

    Hosts: Lola (@ola.ms.lola) feat. The Mr. (@pretenciouslycrass)

    Instagram: @thisblackgirlpodcast

    Twitter: @ThisBlackGirlP

    SYNOPSIS: In this episode, Lola tells The Mr. what girl math is and what girl dinner means. We talk about the love of shopping and review the MTV VMAs.

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    • 44 min
    Season 4 - E:7 - Welp...

    Season 4 - E:7 - Welp...

    Hosts: Lola (@ola.ms.lola) feat. The Mr. (@pretenciouslycrass)

    Instagram: @thisblackgirlpodcast

    Twitter: @ThisBlackGirlP

    SYNOPSIS: In this episode, we discuss where we have been, why there has been such a hiatus, and what we have been doing to return!

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    • 42 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
3 Ratings

3 Ratings

Tamika McTier ,

Great topics

This podcast has so much good information.

Barbara Steve ,

Great show!

Love this podcast! Great show—so uplifting. Thanks, Bri

ariatargaryan ,

Great perspective!

I love the questions Lola asks her guests, she guides the conversations in a thought provoking manner. She has passionate guests who we get to know on a deeper level and gain a new level of perspective.

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