The Openlove101 Show

Apr 16 2024 117
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This is your show to discuss open relationships, the swinger lifestyle, consensual non-monogamy - however you describe it, we’re here to talk about it. Your podcast is hosted by John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs and the award-winning blog Openlove101.com. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, they are here to share with you the trials, tribulations, passion, and positivity of love and the lifestyle.

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Navigating Religious Perspectives in Open Relationships

Apr 16 2024 15 mins  
In this episode, John and Jackie respond to a viewer's question about reconciling religious beliefs with an open relationship. John and Jackie share their personal journeys of questioning and deconstructing religious beliefs as they explored open relationships John and Jackie encourage you to embrace your authentic self, challenge societal norms, and recognize the strength in hold

How to Talk to Your Dating Partner About Your Open Relationship

Apr 09 2024 12 mins  
In this episode, we answer one of your questions posted in the YouTube comments in one of our videos: ​What about the folks you're dating? Do they know about your relationship and how do they fit in? And if there are issues, why did you continue and why not just stop? A very good series of questions, I might add!

Navigating Uncomfortable Boundaries in Open Relationships

Apr 02 2024 16 mins  
In this episode, John and Jackie discuss the complexities of dealing with uncomfortable boundaries in open relationships. The episode explores various approaches to handling discomfort when partners want to explore activities that may challenge established boundaries. They touch on options such as refraining from the activity, finding ways to ease discomfort, and introducing play p

Importance of Honesty in Open Relationships

Mar 26 2024 12 mins  
#116 So what happens when your partner is honest (which of course you want them to be) and they share something with you... ​ And that honest something makes you sad, makes you angry, makes you scared, or worse. ​ What do you do now with that? ​ That's what we talk about today!

Does Fantasizing About Someone Else Mean Cheating?

Mar 12 2024 10 mins  
#112 A couple asked us the other day if it's bad to fantasize about someone else while being intimate with your partner. Is that wrong? Is it cheating? Is it bad? Let's dive into this rabbit hole of fantasy talk and where it could go!

Becoming Role Models in the Lifestyle

Mar 05 2024 12 mins  
In today's episode, John and Jackie explore the topic of being role models in the lifestyle. Jackie shares her personal journey into non-monogamy, emphasizing the importance ofexploring sexuality with love and breaking free from societal stigmas. They discuss how beingopen about their experiences has allowed them to become advocates for the lifestyle,encouraging others to prioritiz

How do you NOT approach couples in swinging lifestyle? 🚩

Mar 05 2024 11 mins  
Today, John and Jackie discuss red flags to keep in mind when you are looking to meet people in the lifestyle! From being too direct out the gate to ignoring their boundaries, there are many red flags to look out for when talking to someone.

Dealing with Fear in Open Relationships

Feb 27 2024 11 mins  
#113 The other day we did some coaching for a couple who wanted some help with their open relationship. They had finally found a third person who was interesting and attractive to both of them and they wanted this person to be part of their throuple. The couple was both excited about it, but as time went on, the woman in the relationship became more encompassed in her fear, wh

Why Non-Monogamy Fails!

Feb 20 2024 23 mins  
In today’s episode, John and Jackie explore the reasons why non-monogamous relationships may fail. Listen in as they discus the crucial aspects of communication, consideration of partner’s feelings, managing expectations, and the significance of respecting boundaries. They also share personal insights and experiences, emphasizing the importance of open and honest discussions in

Introducing Consensual Non-monogamy to Your Partner

Feb 13 2024 15 mins  
#111 Ok so you're interested in this consensual non-monogamy thing, but how do you tell your partner about it? How do you approach the topic and introduce them to CNM without freaking them out?! Watch this video (perhaps together) and discover how!