
Recovering From Reality
Hosted by mental health advocate and former reality television star Alexis Haines, Recovering from Reality illuminates the messy and magical path of coming home to yourself. Whether you’re on the road to recovery, seeking self-care techniques for surviving the capitalist machine, or just need a moment to remember that you’re not alone in your loneliness, we’re serving up the ultimate truth: your trauma doesn’t define you - your decision to deal with it does.
Razor sharp, modern, and culturally resonant, Alexis delivers intimate conversations and expert insights to empower you on the road to authentic wellness. Are you ready to recover from reality?
Produced by Dear Media.
155 episodes • 0 archived •
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Dear MediaE155·
Jun 26, 2023
Jun 26, 2023
1 min
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Ep. 153 Reflections + Gratitude for Recovering From RealityE154·
Aug 1, 2022
Aug 1, 2022
4 mins
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Ep. 152 AMA with Serena F*cking Kerrigan on Dating App Prompts, Perfecting Banter, and Making Yourself UnavailableE153·
Jul 18, 2022
Jul 18, 2022
49 mins
E152
Ep. 151 Bekah Martinez on Becoming Pro-Choice, Politics + Parenting, and Performative ActivismE152·
Jul 11, 2022
Jul 11, 2022
56 mins
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Ep. 150 My Last Solo EpisodeE151·
Jul 4, 2022
Jul 4, 2022
40 mins
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PRIDE HIGHLIGHT: Ep. 62 Becoming the Messenger That You’ve Been Waiting For with Ashlee Marie PrestonE150·
Jun 27, 2022
Jun 27, 2022
1h 35m
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Ep. 149 Embracing Parenting and Postpartum as a Season of Change with Brandi JordanE149·
Jun 20, 2022
Jun 20, 2022
31 mins
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Ep. 148 Caroline Stanbury on Being a Single & Working Mother, Reality TV Misconceptions, and Navigating a Public DivorceE148·
Jun 13, 2022
Jun 13, 2022
38 mins
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Ep. 147 Happy Fucking Pride with Jeff EpsteinE147·
Jun 6, 2022
Jun 6, 2022
59 mins
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Ep. 146 Navigating Divorce and Co-Parenting with Attorney Nicole SodomaE146·
May 30, 2022
May 30, 2022
45 mins
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Ep. 145 Planned Parenthood’s Dr. Meera Shah on the Rode v. Wade Reversal, Reproductive Rights, and Action Steps to TakeE145·
May 23, 2022
May 23, 2022
44 mins
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Ep. 144 Parenting a Special Needs Child While in Recovery with Ashley MontanoE144·
May 16, 2022
May 16, 2022
59 mins
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Ep. 143 Unpacking Aging, Femininity, and Movement with Dr. Amanda HansonE143·
May 9, 2022
May 9, 2022
45 mins
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Ep. 142 Q+A: Your May Reading, My New Relationship, and Working Through AbandonmentE142·
May 2, 2022
May 2, 2022
44 mins
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Ep. 141 Empowering ourselves with knowledge about our reproductive health with Dr.GhadirE141·
Apr 25, 2022
Apr 25, 2022
49 mins
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Ep. 140 Rachel Slawson on being the first openly LGBTQ Miss USAE140·
Apr 18, 2022
Apr 18, 2022
43 mins
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Ep. 139 Understanding our different parts using Internal Family Systems with my mom, Andrea ArlingtonE139·
Apr 11, 2022
Apr 11, 2022
50 mins
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Ep. 138 An Update on My MarriageE138·
Apr 4, 2022
Apr 4, 2022
41 mins
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Ep. 137 Turning our adversities into our advantages with Doug BopstE137·
Mar 21, 2022
Mar 21, 2022
1h 2m
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Ep. 136 Using manifestation for the greater good with Gabby BernsteinE136·
Mar 14, 2022
Mar 14, 2022
49 mins
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Ep. 135 March Q&AE135·
Mar 7, 2022
Mar 7, 2022
49 mins
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Ep. 134 What's blocking you from love? with Liz MarzE134·
Feb 28, 2022
Feb 28, 2022
38 mins
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Ep. 133 Your Worst Date Stories feat. Ali KolbertE133·
Feb 21, 2022
Feb 21, 2022
57 mins
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Ep. 132 Sofia Franklyn on Public Scandals, Attachment Issues, Healing, and ManifestationsE132·
Feb 14, 2022
Feb 14, 2022
48 mins
E131
Ep. 131 Manifesting Your Perfect Partner, Dating Conversation Starters, Navigating GhostingE131·
Feb 7, 2022
Feb 7, 2022
45 mins
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Ep. 130 Deconstructing Polyamory, Jealousy, and Cheating with Morgan, Creator of ChillpolyamoryE130·
Jan 31, 2022
Jan 31, 2022
55 mins
E129
Ep. 129 Creating Authentic Friendships in Adulthood with Danielle Bayard JacksonE129·
Jan 24, 2022
Jan 24, 2022
48 mins
E128
Ep. 128 Supporting Addicts with Connection Not Control with Tarah DowlingE128·
Jan 17, 2022
Jan 17, 2022
44 mins
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Ep. 127 Johann Hari on Reclaiming Your Stolen FocusE127·
Jan 10, 2022
Jan 10, 2022
1h 5m
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Ep. 126 Doja Cat, the Devine Feminine, and Radical AcceptanceE126·
Jan 3, 2022
Jan 3, 2022
42 mins
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Ep. 125 Spiritual Trauma, Being Addicted to Emotions, and Innate Worthiness with Scout SobelE125·
Dec 27, 2021
Dec 27, 2021
39 mins
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Ep. 124 Lala Kent on Insecurities, California Sober, and MocktailsE124·
Dec 13, 2021
Dec 13, 2021
52 mins
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Ep. 123 To My Younger Self—E123·
Dec 6, 2021
Dec 6, 2021
42 mins
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Ep. 122 Shifting the Recovery Narrative with Evan HainesE122·
Nov 29, 2021
Nov 29, 2021
47 mins
E121
Ep. 121 Asexuality, Kinks, and Sensuality with Ev’Yan WhitneyE121·
Nov 22, 2021
Nov 22, 2021
54 mins
E120
Ep. 120 Pecan Pie, Panties, and Parenting with my Mom, Andrea ArlingtonE120·
Nov 15, 2021
Nov 15, 2021
44 mins
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Ep. 119 Normalizing Suicidal Ideation with Tara BixbyE119·
Nov 8, 2021
Nov 8, 2021
49 mins
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Ep. 118 Q+A: Supporting Someone Who is Suicidal & Natural Depression RemediesE118·
Nov 1, 2021
Nov 1, 2021
42 mins
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Ep. 117 Meet My Girlfriend KrisE117·
Oct 25, 2021
Oct 25, 2021
53 mins
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Ep. 116 Exploring and Understanding Sexual Desires with Angelika AlanaE116·
Oct 18, 2021
Oct 18, 2021
50 mins
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Ep. 115 Our Open Marriage with Evan HainesE115·
Oct 11, 2021
Oct 11, 2021
47 mins
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Ep. 114 Welcome HomeE114·
Oct 4, 2021
Oct 4, 2021
27 mins
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Ep. 113 Bye for now...E113·
Mar 1, 2021
Mar 1, 2021
22 mins
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Ep. 112 Unpacking Britney with Evan HainesE112·
Feb 22, 2021
Feb 22, 2021
59 mins
E111
Ep. 111 Your Quality of Life Matters with Dr. Will ColeE111·
Feb 15, 2021
Feb 15, 2021
57 mins
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Ep. 110 Ego States and Setting Boundaries in Family Systems with Andrea ArlingtonE110·
Feb 8, 2021
Feb 8, 2021
1h 6m
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Ep. 109 Q+A: Why I Got Vaccinated, Processing Emotional Eating, Adoption Updates, and more!E109·
Feb 1, 2021
Feb 1, 2021
57 mins
E108
Ep. 108 Politics and Spirituality Are Not Mutually Exclusive with Marianne WilliamsonE108·
Jan 25, 2021
Jan 25, 2021
50 mins
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Ep. 107 Using Food as Empowerment with Dr. Will BulsiewiczE107·
Jan 18, 2021
Jan 18, 2021
1 hr
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Ep. 106 Behind the Backstreet Boy with AJ McLeanE106·
Jan 11, 2021
Jan 11, 2021
54 mins
E105
Ep. 105 Q+A The Social Causes of Addiction and Mental Health with Bob Forrest and Evan HainesE105·
Jan 4, 2021
Jan 4, 2021
1h 33m
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Ep. 104 Self-Accountability and Sobriety with Kat Von DE104·
Dec 28, 2020
Dec 28, 2020
48 mins
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Ep. 103 Our Brains Aren’t Broken, Our Society Is with Johann HariE103·
Dec 21, 2020
Dec 21, 2020
1h 17m
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Ep. 102 Teenage Depression and Behavior Modification Programs with Sadie SuttonE102·
Dec 14, 2020
Dec 14, 2020
1h 9m
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Ep. 101 Q+A: Holiday Traditions, Real Housewives, Postpartum Anxiety, and more!E101·
Dec 7, 2020
Dec 7, 2020
52 mins
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Ep. 100 Improving Your Intuition with Laura DayE100·
Nov 30, 2020
Nov 30, 2020
52 mins
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Ep. 99 Surviving Breast Cancer with Selin EsendagliE99·
Nov 23, 2020
Nov 23, 2020
41 mins
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Ep. 98 The Agricultural Crisis with Ryland EngelhartE98·
Nov 16, 2020
Nov 16, 2020
58 mins
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Ep. 97 Dating and Sobriety with Lindsey MetselaarE97·
Nov 9, 2020
Nov 9, 2020
37 mins
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Ep. 96 Q+A: Self-sabotage, Crystal Recommendations, Spirituality Advice, Recovery and Careers, and Emotional AwarenessE96·
Nov 2, 2020
Nov 2, 2020
41 mins
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Ep. 95 My Sister’s Birth StoryE95·
Oct 26, 2020
Oct 26, 2020
57 mins
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Ep. 94 Healing Your Body with Vanessa FitzgeraldE94·
Oct 19, 2020
Oct 19, 2020
56 mins
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Ep. 93 Playing the Internet like a Church Organ with Caroline CallowayE93·
Oct 12, 2020
Oct 12, 2020
1h 32m
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Ep. 92 Creating a New Way of Life with Susan BurtonE92·
Oct 5, 2020
Oct 5, 2020
53 mins
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Ep. 91 Q&A with Arielle LorreE91·
Sep 28, 2020
Sep 28, 2020
1h 6m
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Ep. 90 Sexuality and Empowerment with Zara BarrieE90·
Sep 21, 2020
Sep 21, 2020
1h 1m
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Ep. 89 Perception vs Reality with Kara LowentheilE89·
Sep 14, 2020
Sep 14, 2020
58 mins
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Ep. 88 Exploring Gender Creative Parenting with Kyl MyersE88·
Sep 7, 2020
Sep 7, 2020
1h 10m
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Ep. 87 Girl Insta-rupted with Syd WilderE87·
Aug 31, 2020
Aug 31, 2020
43 mins
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Ep. 86 You Are Worthy of Healing with Ruthie LindseyE86·
Aug 24, 2020
Aug 24, 2020
1 hr
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Ep. 85 Getting Chatty about Birth and Motherhood with Jess and Bekah from The Chatty Broads PodE85·
Aug 17, 2020
Aug 17, 2020
39 mins
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Ep. 84 Baited with The One And Only ZiweE84·
Aug 10, 2020
Aug 10, 2020
1h 1m
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Ep. 83 Q+A with AlexisE83·
Aug 3, 2020
Aug 3, 2020
58 mins
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Ep. 82 Exploring Different Paths To Sobriety with Jess and Kate from Seltzer SquadE82·
Jul 27, 2020
Jul 27, 2020
53 mins
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Ep. 81 Radically Shifting the Narrative with Shaman DurekE81·
Jul 20, 2020
Jul 20, 2020
1h 17m
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Ep. 80 Restorative justice: the sacred act of confronting your rapist outside of the legal system with Marlee Liss.E80·
Jul 13, 2020
Jul 13, 2020
1h 27m
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Ep. 79 Gay Junkie Pop Culture Icons with Jeff EpsteinE79·
Jul 9, 2020
Jul 9, 2020
33 mins
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Ep. 78 Being Hot And Woke Aren't Mutually ExclusiveE78·
Jul 6, 2020
Jul 6, 2020
59 mins
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Ep. 77 Having A Money Mentality MakeoverE77·
Jun 29, 2020
Jun 29, 2020
55 mins
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Ep. 76 Processing our feelings surrounding racism, therapy, and reality TV with The Bachelor’s Taylor NolanE76·
Jun 22, 2020
Jun 22, 2020
1h 9m
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Ep. 75 Giving Birth in Prison with Jessica KentE75·
Jun 15, 2020
Jun 15, 2020
1h 30m
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Ep. 74 How I Manifested Pretty Wild and What Went WrongE74·
Jun 8, 2020
Jun 8, 2020
41 mins
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Ep. 73 Surviving on connections with Dr. Carder StoutE73·
Jun 4, 2020
Jun 4, 2020
55 mins
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Ep. 72 Navigating Our Grief with Therapist Claire Bidwell SmithE72·
Jun 1, 2020
Jun 1, 2020
49 mins
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Ep. 71 Creating Space For Black Women In The Work Place with Laurise McMillianE71·
May 25, 2020
May 25, 2020
47 mins
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Ep. 70 And She Rose with Rising Woman's Sheleana AiyanaE70·
May 18, 2020
May 18, 2020
54 mins
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Ep. 69 Being an ally in your own transformation with Alyson StonerE69·
May 11, 2020
May 11, 2020
1h 2m
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Ep. 68 Learning to become our own Guru’s with the girls from Thats So RetrogradeE68·
May 4, 2020
May 4, 2020
56 mins
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Ep. 67 How stress effects our brains with holistic psychologist Dr. Meredith SaganE67·
Apr 27, 2020
Apr 27, 2020
48 mins
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Ep. 66 When Emotional Pain Turns Into Physical PainE66·
Apr 20, 2020
Apr 20, 2020
1 hr
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Ep. 65 Q&A With Evan Haines and myselfE65·
Apr 13, 2020
Apr 13, 2020
51 mins
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Ep. 64 Everything Iconic with Danny PellegrinoE64·
Apr 6, 2020
Apr 6, 2020
50 mins
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Ep. 63 From the hearts of highly sensitive people with my husband, Evan HainesE63·
Mar 30, 2020
Mar 30, 2020
59 mins
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Ep. 62 Becoming the Messenger That You've Been Waiting For with Ashlee Marie PrestonE62·
Mar 23, 2020
Mar 23, 2020
1h 35m
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Ep. 61 Lifting Each Other up with Khalil RafatiE61·
Mar 16, 2020
Mar 16, 2020
1h 4m
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Ep. 60 Getting Down to the Basics with Tara SchusterE60·
Mar 9, 2020
Mar 9, 2020
43 mins
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Ep. 59 Taking Charge of Our Own Healing with Luke StoreyE59·
Mar 2, 2020
Mar 2, 2020
1h 8m
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Ep. 58 The real life of a Youtube star with Tana MongeauE58·
Feb 24, 2020
Feb 24, 2020
51 mins
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Ep. 57 Navigating the body positivity space with Katie WillcoxE57·
Feb 17, 2020
Feb 17, 2020
1h 5m
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Ep. 56 Impeachment, she wroteE56·
Feb 10, 2020
Feb 10, 2020
44 mins
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Ep. 55 Bad advice with Dr. Venus NicolinoE55·
Feb 3, 2020
Feb 3, 2020
47 mins
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Ep. 54 From “Recovering” to “Living” with Zahara ZimringE54·
Jan 27, 2020
Jan 27, 2020
1h 1m
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Ep. 53 Make Sure Your Friends Are Okay with Hunter MorenoE53·
Jan 20, 2020
Jan 20, 2020
35 mins
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Ep. 52 Call in show with yours trulyE52·
Jan 13, 2020
Jan 13, 2020
44 mins
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Ep. 51 New year, same us!E51·
Jan 6, 2020
Jan 6, 2020
53 mins
E50
Ep. 50 Turning Your Karma Into Your Dharma w/ Angelika AlanaE50·
Dec 30, 2019
Dec 30, 2019
48 mins
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Ep. 49 Life after OJ with Kim GoldmanE49·
Dec 23, 2019
Dec 23, 2019
1h 5m
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Ep. 48 Drugs Aren’t the Answer, Honey!E48·
Dec 16, 2019
Dec 16, 2019
51 mins
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Ep. 47 Turning your mess into your message with Cathy HellerE47·
Dec 9, 2019
Dec 9, 2019
59 mins
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Ep. 46 Healing From Sex Addiction with Staci SproutE46·
Dec 2, 2019
Dec 2, 2019
44 mins
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Ep. 45 Call-in Show with My Mom Andrea ArlingtonE45·
Nov 25, 2019
Nov 25, 2019
56 mins
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Ep. 44 The Age of AnxietyE44·
Nov 18, 2019
Nov 18, 2019
47 mins
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Ep. 43 From Meme to Marvelous With Rebecca BlackE43·
Nov 11, 2019
Nov 11, 2019
50 mins
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Recovering From Reality - TrailerE155·
Nov 11, 2019
Nov 11, 2019
1 min
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Ep. 42 73 QuestionsE42·
Nov 4, 2019
Nov 4, 2019
26 mins
E41
Ep. 41 Turning Pain into Comedy with Ali WeissE41·
Oct 28, 2019
Oct 28, 2019
54 mins
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Ep. 40 Unshakable Faith with Dr. James MellonE40·
Oct 21, 2019
Oct 21, 2019
49 mins
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Ep. 39 Becoming the Head of the Pack w/ Zach Skow from the Pawsitive Change ProgramE39·
Oct 14, 2019
Oct 14, 2019
1h 5m
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Ep. 38 Getting Inappropriate W/ Heather McdonaldE38·
Oct 7, 2019
Oct 7, 2019
1h 3m
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Ep. 37 Let's Talk About Sex w/ Jamie Elizabeth the Holistic Sex CoachE37·
Sep 30, 2019
Sep 30, 2019
51 mins
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Ep. 36 Exploring cannabinoids and the effects of micro-dosing w/ Joseph Sheehey and Lo BondiE36·
Sep 27, 2019
Sep 27, 2019
47 mins
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Ep. 35 Not All Heroes Wear Capes w/ Bree OlsonE35·
Sep 23, 2019
Sep 23, 2019
55 mins
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Ep. 34 Repairing Your Marriage w/ Adam and Danielle from Marriage and MartinisE34·
Sep 20, 2019
Sep 20, 2019
48 mins
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Ep. 33 Call-In Show W/ Sarah Nicole Landry (The Birds Papaya)E32·
Sep 16, 2019
Sep 16, 2019
43 mins
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Ep. 32 Being In a VICE Documentary Changed My Life w/ KevinE32·
Sep 13, 2019
Sep 13, 2019
48 mins
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Ep. 31 Overcoming Depression Without DrugsE31·
Sep 9, 2019
Sep 9, 2019
37 mins
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Ep.30 Call-In Show With Dr. Judy HoE30·
Sep 6, 2019
Sep 6, 2019
34 mins
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Ep. 29 Psychic Vibes With Heather AubleE29·
Sep 2, 2019
Sep 2, 2019
47 mins
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Ep. 28 The Dark Side of Teen Behavioral Modification Programs with Sydney MontanaE28·
Aug 27, 2019
Aug 27, 2019
53 mins
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Ep. 27 Bridging the Cultural DivideE27·
Aug 20, 2019
Aug 20, 2019
47 mins
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Ep. 26 Call In Show With Bob ForrestE26·
Aug 16, 2019
Aug 16, 2019
35 mins
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Ep. 25 Wake Up B*itch It’s 2019 w/ Laganja EstranjaE25·
Aug 13, 2019
Aug 13, 2019
1h 9m
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Ep. 24 Nancy Jo, Your Bias is ShowingE24·
Aug 6, 2019
Aug 6, 2019
31 mins
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Ep. 23 The Journey to Motherhood Matters w/ Ali LevineE22·
Jul 30, 2019
Jul 30, 2019
53 mins
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Ep. 22 Literally Pretty Wild w/ Dan LevyE22·
Jul 22, 2019
Jul 22, 2019
48 mins
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Ep. 21 Heavily Influenced w/ Josi PellicanoE21·
Jul 18, 2019
Jul 18, 2019
43 mins
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Ep. 20 The Drama Stops With Me - Recovering From RealityE20·
Jul 15, 2019
Jul 15, 2019
51 mins
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Ep. 19 And So It Is w/ Andrea Arlington - Recovering From RealityE19·
Jul 8, 2019
Jul 8, 2019
55 mins
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Ep. 18 Reasons To Stay Vigilant w/ Molly Jong-Fast - Recovering From RealityE18·
Jul 1, 2019
Jul 1, 2019
1h 10m
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Ep. 17 Honey, You Gotta Do The Work - Q+A w/ Alexis - Recovering From RealityE17·
Jun 24, 2019
Jun 24, 2019
42 mins
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Ep. 16 The Intersections of Feminism w/ Lauren Sundstrom - Recovering From RealityE16·
Jun 17, 2019
Jun 17, 2019
55 mins
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Ep. 15 Let Food Be Thy Medicine and Medicine Be Thy Food with Vanessa Fitzgerald - Recovering From RealityE15·
Jun 10, 2019
Jun 10, 2019
41 mins
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Ep. 14 Celebrating Body Diversity with Sarah Landry (The Birds Papaya) - Recovering From RealityE14·
Jun 3, 2019
Jun 3, 2019
1h 6m
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Ep. 13 Birth, Babies and Circumcision with Robyn Pool from PUSH Midwifery - Recovering From RealityE13·
May 27, 2019
May 27, 2019
1h 3m
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Ep. 12 You Do You, I'm Gonna Do Me w/ Lauryn Evarts Bosstick - Recovering From RealityE12·
May 20, 2019
May 20, 2019
41 mins
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Ep. 11 Sober Kindred Souls w/ Arielle Lorre - Recovering From RealityE11·
May 13, 2019
May 13, 2019
34 mins
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Ep. 10 Living Anonymously with Dave from Dopey - Recovering From RealityE10·
May 6, 2019
May 6, 2019
36 mins
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Ep. 8 We Met in AA - Recovering From RealityE8·
Apr 22, 2019
Apr 22, 2019
22 mins
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Ep. 7 Would You Rather - Recovering From RealityE7·
Apr 15, 2019
Apr 15, 2019
41 mins
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Ep. 6 Sorry, Kristin Cavallari - Recovering From RealityE6·
Apr 8, 2019
Apr 8, 2019
43 mins
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Ep. 5 My Shrink Knows About You - Recovering From RealityE5·
Apr 1, 2019
Apr 1, 2019
33 mins
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Ep. 4 I Love You, Mom - Recovering From RealityE4·
Mar 25, 2019
Mar 25, 2019
48 mins
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Ep. 3 Variations of Normal - Recovering From RealityE3·
Mar 18, 2019
Mar 18, 2019
37 mins
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Ep. 2 The Reunion - Recovering From RealityE2·
Mar 11, 2019
Mar 11, 2019
29 mins
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Ep. 1 A Special Kind of Hell - Recovering from RealityE1·
Feb 18, 2019
Feb 18, 2019
37 mins