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Heart of Dating
Heart of Dating
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The purpose of this podcast, Heart of Dating, is to unmask the ever-so-ambiguous world of dating in the Christian world. While there... more

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Episodes

S14 Ep 252: Being Led On, Mixed Signals, Hot and Cold...Are They ACTUALLY Into Me or Just CONFUSED?

Today we’re diving into all things mixed signals, dissecting the concept of "gophering" in relationships, and how to set boundaries... more

18 Dec 2024 · 52 minutes
Single During the Holidays: A Survival Guide (Patreon December 2024)

Today Kait and JJ are doing you a favor and helping set you up for success to survive this holiday... more

13 Dec 2024 · 14 minutes
S14 Ep251: Compatibility is OVERRATED, Why Opposites MAGNETIZE (& What TRULY Matters)

Today, JJ and Kait dive into compatibility with guests Megan and Casey, shedding light on family dynamics, shared values, and... more

11 Dec 2024 · 1 hour, 5 minutes
S14 Ep 250: What if I Choose Wrong? The CANCER of Endless Options

Today, we’re diving into the depths of decision-making in relationships tackling the concept of FOBO, sharing personal experiences, insights, and... more

04 Dec 2024 · 52 minutes
Love Attachments and Healing Past Hurts with Jason VanRuler (Patreon Bonus November 2024)

Licensed therapist, Jason VanRuler joins us to lead a workshop on figuring out your love attachments and how to heal... more

26 Nov 2024 · 16 minutes
S14 Ep249: Am I too much? Being 100% Yourself and The Struggle of Unavailable Men! with Madison Watkins

Today's guest, Madison Watkins, discusses expressing emotions in relationships and dealing with the fears of being "too much," along with... more

20 Nov 2024 · 57 minutes
S14 Ep248: Break Up or Get Back Together? Here’s What A Pastor and Dating Coach have to Say

Today we’re talking break ups with special guest Mark Evans, exploring the importance of community in relationships and the healing... more

13 Nov 2024 · 45 minutes
S14 Ep247: Two Miscarriages in Two Months, Dealing with Disappointment, Broken Dreams and Wrestling with God

Today Kait and JJ share their journey through disappointment and questioning God, opening up about personal pain and the importance... more

06 Nov 2024 · 36 minutes
LIVE Dating Coaching...Where are Christian Single Women?, Family Drama, and Crushing on the WRONG One! Patreon Bonus October 2024

Today JJ Tomlin provides live dating coaching for two men experiencing issues in their dating lives. Love Heart of Dating... more

31 Oct 2024 · 10 minutes
S14 Ep246: Are Dating Apps Cooked? PLUS a Heated Debate on Christian Nationalism

Today, JJ and Kait explore the rise of dating apps post-COVID and if they’re now on their way out as... more

30 Oct 2024 · 46 minutes
S14 Ep 245: Getting the Ick, Harry Potter vs. LOTR, and Halloween as Christians

Today we’re diving into icks and Halloween! Join JJ and Kait as they navigate noisy eating habits, childhood costumes, and... more

23 Oct 2024 · 47 minutes
S14 Ep 244: Cyberstalking, Online Dating Safety, and Nobody Wants This

Today, we explore cyberstalking through Amy's unsettling story from "Something Was Wrong," while providing essential tips for online dating safety... more

16 Oct 2024 · 48 minutes
S14 Ep 243: We Survived a Hurricane & How Pineapples are Changing the Dating Game

Today we’re talking about Hurricane Helene, Camp HOD, and fun and quirky ways for Christian singles to connect.  Love Heart of... more

09 Oct 2024 · 49 minutes
Controversial Thoughts on the ELECTION and Politics! Patreon Bonus September 2024

Kait is diving into the controversial topic of POLITICS! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a... more

03 Oct 2024 · 10 minutes
Trailer: We're Going Rogue!

Something new is coming to you so soon! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part... more

02 Oct 2024 · 3 minutes
S13 Ep242: Friendationships, Thirst Traps, Prenups, Dating after Trauma, Stuck on an Ex, Interracial Marriage, and More!

Today, we're jumping into rapid-fire hot takes with JJ and Kait, covering singles vs. marrieds, voice memo bans, and even... more

25 Sep 2024 · 43 minutes
S13 MM69: Right Person Wrong Time Is So Stupid

Today JJ explores the idea of "right person, wrong time," sharing his own story and providing insights on commitment, responsibility,... more

20 Sep 2024 · 34 minutes
S13 MM68: Why Do I Settle? Understanding Low Standards and Self-Worth

Today we're diving into a mansode with Kait as a guest, discussing low dating standards, personal experiences, and tips on... more

13 Sep 2024 · 30 minutes
S13 Ep241: Too Picky or Just Right? Why Your Dating Standards Get in the Way

Today Kait and JJ explore the balance of high standards in dating, emphasizing humility, growth, and realistic expectations. Text FIRSTDIBS to... more

11 Sep 2024 · 45 minutes
S13 MM67: Why is it so hard to be a single guy in 2024?: Gender roles, Turnoffs and Feminism

Today JJ Tomlin and a panel of bachelors tackle the challenges of modern dating, from gender roles to financial dynamics!  Love... more

06 Sep 2024 · 29 minutes
Physical Touch and Wandering Eyes (Patreon Bonus August 2024)

Today Kait and JJ are diving into your burning questions. We're talking about 14-year age gaps, physical intimacy, and expectations... more

05 Sep 2024 · 10 minutes
S13 Ep240: Girls CAN Make a Move: Double Standards and Fear of Rejection

Today Kait and JJ explore the fears and double standards around women showing interest in men and highlight the importance... more

04 Sep 2024 · 38 minutes
S13 MM66: 12 Month Rule: Get Married or Break Up

Today, JJ Tomlin tackles the choice: get married or break up after dating a while. Tune in for some candid... more

30 Aug 2024 · 29 minutes
S13 Ep239: Male Headship and Submission: Is this for modern marriages? What about Abuse victims? with Nika and Emeka

Today we have Nika and Emeka sharing their journey with headship and submission in marriage, and how the Holy Spirit... more

28 Aug 2024 · 1 hour, 14 minutes
S13 MM65: Find Your Spouse Here: Where to Find a Quality Partner

Today we're diving in with JJ as he tackles the scarcity mindset in dating, shares practical tips for finding godly... more

23 Aug 2024 · 29 minutes
S13 Ep238: Christian Single Men CRISIS: Shortage Of Good Men, If They Exist, How To Find Them

Today we’re asking: Where Are the Good Single Christian Men? Join us to deep dive into social media’s impact, emotional... more

21 Aug 2024 · 43 minutes
S13 MM64: Can I Miss The Spouse God Has For Me?

Today, JJ dives into aligning our will with God's desires and emphasizes wisdom's role in daily decisions, especially in relationships. Love... more

16 Aug 2024 · 45 minutes
S13 Ep237: No Such Thing As A Soulmate with Deb Fileta

Deb Fileta sits down with Kait and JJ to debunk the myth of soulmates, dive into the importance of soul... more

14 Aug 2024 · 1 hour, 3 minutes
S13 MM63: The Person You Really Need To Marry

Today, JJ's diving deep into the loaded topic of purity, breaking down why it's so much more than just sexual... more

09 Aug 2024 · 26 minutes
S13 Ep236: Should I Only Marry A Virgin? With Daniel and Elles Maddry

In this juicy ep, JJ, Kait, Daniel, and Elles dive deep into the sticky subject of marrying a virgin and... more

07 Aug 2024 · 59 minutes
S13 MM62: If You Sleep Together, Break Up ASAP

Adam Weber is here today talking about mixing grace with truth, why sinners were so into Jesus, and how leaning... more

02 Aug 2024 · 36 minutes
S13 Ep 235: Relationship anxiety or God's warning: Should you break up? With Joy and Mathieu Rossignol

Joy and Mathieu spill the tea on relationship anxiety, dishing on past baggage, toxic thoughts, and the wild ride of... more

31 Jul 2024 · 1 hour, 13 minutes
How Love Languages Make You A Better Partner ( Patreon Bonus July 2024)

Join Kait and JJ as they talk about how love languages are important, how you can be a better partner... more

29 Jul 2024 · 10 minutes
S13 MM61: Why Girls Choose the Bad Boy

Today we’re diving into why women often go for the bad boy instead of the nice guy, with JJ Tomlin... more

26 Jul 2024 · 41 minutes
S13 Ep234: Date The Boring Guy with Jess Cheung

Today we're diving in with Jess Chung as she gets real about dating the "mysterious guy" and discovering genuine connections... more

24 Jul 2024 · 57 minutes
S13 MM60: Date Your Friend

Today, we're jumping into where JJ Tomlin talks about the perks of dating friends and shares tips on transitioning smoothly... more

19 Jul 2024 · 37 minutes
S13 Ep233: Date the Unexpected

Today we’re with JP Pokluda, chatting about why over-spiritualizing dating can be tricky—all sprinkled with personal stories and solid advice! Love... more

17 Jul 2024 · 58 minutes
S13 MM 59: Please Don't Spiritually Lead Your Girlfriend

Today, JJ Tomlin chats about taking a six-month break from dating, building strong friendships, and how to lead spiritually without... more

12 Jul 2024 · 44 minutes
S13 Ep232: Christians Over-Spiritualizing Dating... “God Told me You’re my Spouse" with JP Pokluda

Today we’re with JP Pokluda, chatting about why over-spiritualizing dating can be tricky—all sprinkled with personal stories and solid advice! Love... more

10 Jul 2024 · 1 hour, 17 minutes
S13 Ep231: Third Wheeling Doesn't Have to Suck with Ryan Wekenman

Today we’re joined by, Ryan Wekenman as he talks about feeling like a third wheel, embracing singleness, and building strong... more

03 Jul 2024 · 56 minutes
Stop Self-Sabotaging, Should I date them if I'm not attracted?, and Heartbreak Q&A (Patreon June 2024)

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01 Jul 2024 · 13 minutes
S13 MM58: You Always Marry The Wrong One

Today, JJ Tomlin busts the myth of the "right one" and dives deep into love and forgiveness! Love Heart of Dating... more

28 Jun 2024 · 36 minutes
S13 Ep230: Yes, You can be a GAY Christian with Greg Coles

Today, we chat with Greg Coles about his life as a single, gay Christian, why words matter, and how we... more

26 Jun 2024 · 52 minutes
S13 MM57: Nix The Coffee Shop Date

Today we’re diving into another mini mansode where JJ explains why we should skip the coffee shop date and gives... more

21 Jun 2024 · 31 minutes
S13 Ep229: Don’t Date for Marriage with Jayme Vainer

Today we're diving into dating history and chatting with Jayme Vainer about her switch from hyper-attachment to casual dating! Love Heart... more

19 Jun 2024 · 59 minutes
S13 MM56:Being a Player vs Dating Multiple People with Alec Bevere

Today we’re diving into another mansode where Alec Bevere joins JJ Tomlin to unpack his dating challenges, share his journey... more

14 Jun 2024 · 56 minutes
S13 Ep228: You’re the Reason You’re Still Single with Dr. Henry Cloud

Today we’re diving in with Dr. Henry Cloud, who’s dismantling the myth of "the one," sharing insights on navigating dating... more

12 Jun 2024 · 1 hour,
S13 MM 55: Men Won’t Date Women They’re Not Attracted To

Today, JJ Tomlin dives deep into the essential topic of attraction in dating, discussing the balance between physical, emotional, and... more

07 Jun 2024 · 38 minutes
S13 Ep 227: I wasn’t Initially Attracted to My Husband

Today Kait Tomlin opens up about not being initially attracted to JJ, as they explore the complexities of physical attraction,... more

05 Jun 2024 · 1 hour, 2 minutes
Eleanor’s Birth Story, Moving, and Other Life Updates! (Patreon May 2024)

In today's episode Kait and JJ talk about all the personal things from their birth story to moving across the... more

31 May 2024 · 16 minutes
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S13 Ep 227: I wasn’t Initially Attracted to My Husband
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Today Kait Tomlin opens up about not being initially attracted to JJ, as they explore the complexities of physical attraction, societal standards,... more