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**UNLADIES' ROOM PATREON TEASER** It's a good thing, this bonus episode. Unladies, we're talking about a trio docs out that... more

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Prepare to burn your old bras and buy a new salad spinner! Custom bra maker, fitter and A Bra That... more

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How much is too much of an age gap in relationships, and do sexist double standards apply? Cristen answers a... more

**UNLADIES' ROOM PATREON TEASER** Why did Casandra "Cassie" Ventura risk everything to come forward about the years of abuse she... more

What happens when women's overlooked attention deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) gets diagnosed? Listeners share the "life-changing" power of finally discovering that... more

When Taylor Swift endorsed Harris/Walz, she cited an “AI of ‘me’ falsely endorsing Donald Trump’s presidential run” as her reason... more

Did you know doctors used to put "too tall" girls (aka, over 5'7") on estrogen to stunt their growth? They... more

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**UNLADIES' ROOM teaser** What’s all the fuss about “historic” voter gender gaps? Does polling actually point to a “boys versus... more

How was Kamala Harris first introduced in the press, and what can it contextualize about her path from prosecutor to... more

**CONSPIRACY, SHE WROTE episodes 1-3 are out now! Subscribe on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss new episodes... more

Roxane Gay never envisioned herself as gun owner, until increasing threats forced her to reconsider what it means to be... more

Are good vibes the secret to success? Cristen revisits psychologist Dr. Gabrielle Oettingen, author of Rethinking Positive Thinking, who rewrites... more

Introducing the debut episode of Cristen's brand new podcast Conspiracy, She Wrote. Where intersectional feminism meet conspiracy theories. Grab your red... more

From "peek n pokes" to chromosome testing, the Olympics has a questionable history of body policing female athletes. Tested host... more

When do we care about women in conflict zones? Feminist activist Lina AbiRafeh has spent decades doing exactly that and... more

Inspired an unlady told her big nose needed "fixing", this 2022 gem asks: What happens when refusing a nose job... more

Why is menstruation still so misunderstood? Ask Kate Clancy, the anthropology professor and period scientist who cared enough to study... more

**UNLADIES' ROOM teaser** Cristen's calling it. The presidential election in November ain't gonna be Trump v Biden. dun dun dunnnn! To... more

Why is number two extra taboo for girls? This listener fave originally aired in 2019, but unlike Joe Biden, it... more

As the old saying goes, horses sweat, men perspire, and women glisten. In which case, call me a horse; I'm... more

Sharing a preview of the Say More podcast, where, in a special series, Boston Globe columnist Shirley Leung is opening... more

Samhita Mukhopadhyay is done sacrificing herself to ambition. Editorial director of The Meteor and former Teen Vogue executive editor, Samhita... more

Women initiate 70 PERCENT of divorces in husband-wife marriages. But why? Are no-fault divorce laws to thank/blame? Cristen digs through... more

Are diaries the ultimate form of authenticity? How do our stories shift when we're journaling for no one to see?... more

What do 400 years-worth of women's published diaries tell us about the kinds of secrets and feelings we keep to... more

How did Bumble get its (celibacy-themed) rebrand so wrong? What does it tell us about general dating app burnout? Cristen... more

Imagine having to host the Pope and the Chinese President. On the same day. Plus, a whole press corps and... more

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What happens when adult women discover they're autistic? Cristen busts the gender stereotypes and neurotypical myths of Autism Spectrum Disorder... more

Exiled from a world of engineered perfection, Demetria crash-lands into the brutal reality of the Outerlands. Distrusted by the defiant... more

Could an 1873 law that hasn't been enforced in nearly a century be a national abortion ban just waiting to... more

**Unladies' Room Patreon preview** What does it take to erect a monument to women's history? Just ask Diane Carlson Evans, without... more

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**Unladies' Room Patreon preview** A labor-free life of feminine leisure, and/or the ultimate self-care con? The SAHGs (stay-at-home girlfriends) of TikTok... more

What's the difference between a white feminist and a mean girl? Not so much, as Kim Hong Nguyen explains this... more

Are butch-femme roles in queer relationships just recycling the same old hetero his 'n' hers gender boxes? What happens when... more

**Unladies' Room Patreon teaser** With spring a few days away, tis the season to talk BODY HAIR! But my 2019 interview... more

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Of all the aunt tropes in pop culture–spinster aunts, sinister aunts, weird aunts, witchy aunts–why is The Cool Aunt so... more

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Wtf just happened with frozen embryos, fertility clinics and IVF in Alabama?? Get ready for the un-true crime, sci-fi Jesus... more

In 1974, what had started as a sexist gimmick became the first and only (so far) professional women's football league... more

The feminist blogosphere era officially ended last November when Jezebel, website and water cooler of millennial feminism, was shut down... more

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**Unladies' Room Patreon preview** Grab your snorkel masks and oxygen tanks, unladies! We're revisiting my 2019 interview with cave diver and... more

What if society exalted the love and commitment of friendship as highly as that of marriage and biological family? How... more

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At 16 years old, Molly McGlynn discovered why she'd never had a period. Diagnosed with MRKH syndrome, Molly was born... more

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Since when did parenting opposite-gender kids get branded as #BoyMoms and #GirlDads (not to be confused with "fathers of daughters")?... more

Ready or not, the 2024 presidential election is fast approaching. So why hasn't the Democratic Party pushed for President Biden... more

The invention of tabloids was both revolutionary and regressive for women, and it all goes back to The Daily Mail... more

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What do Miss Universe, Miss World and international beauty pageants tell us about globalization and national identity, and why are... more

SCOTUS just kicked off a new term, and Strict Scrutiny hosts and law professors Leah Litman and Kate Shaw are... more

Are magic mushrooms poised to become the next big mental health med, and if so, who stands to benefit? Psychologist... more

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To change or not to change? That is the married-last-name question that actor, host and proud hyphenate Ashley Blaine Featherson-Jenkins... more

Why are more young women trading in their natural teeth for veneers, and what does it say about beauty standards,... more

Why are so many women getting into life coaching these days, and is it legit self-help? The Dream host (and... more

Do tarot cards really have secrets to spill? Investigative journalist and Ritually host Nelufar Hedayat shares what happened when she... more

A lifelong self-doubter, comedian Aparna Nancherla decided to get to the bottom of her angst, and things didn't quite go... more

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Why is one of the largest school districts in the country turning libraries into student detention centers? Debbie Hall, certified... more

How are real-life teachers applying “Abbott Elementary” inside and out of the classroom, and what can all of us learn... more

Long live White Gladis, orca queen of the deep. From today's yacht-sinking killer whale moms to 19th-century "devil fish," environmental... more

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Will going on record about your mental illness endanger your career? Mental health advocate, writer and podcaster Allison Raskin, aka... more

How has homeschooling gone from being illegal in the US to wildly unregulated in many states? The Homeschool Legal Defense... more

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It's been a BUSY year for abortion law, ever since the Supreme Court overturned Roe v. Wade. But what should... more

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Do you refuse to laugh at unfunny men, shrug off casual misogyny and/or look past toxic allies? You might be... more

Why waste a good passport marrying a fellow citizen?? What if your long-distance relationship is due to deportation? How realistic... more

Bonus episode alert! Cristen dives into the FASCINATING backstory of the original Little Mermaid, why it almost wasn't made (hint:... more

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What happens when women in long-term relationships with straight men realize they're bi, and why are they less likely to... more

How do you empower nonbinary and trans kids struggling with their changing bodies? Gender Spectrum executive director Cameron Van Fossen... more

What happens when women are the primary or sole earners? Is it only stigmatized if they're coupled up with men?... more

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Unladies, have y'all hear the Love Letters podcast? Love Letters tells stories about romance, marriage, partnership, sex, loss, and the... more

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What is—and isn't—feminist porn, and why even make it? Emerging feminist porn director Bea Blue shares how she got started... more

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Ever feel like 'I love you' expectations are higher than ever in romantic relationships? Is there a right time to... more

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How do you square the circle of recreational pole dancing for pleasure and strip club pole to get paid? Strippers... more

Unladies lead Whatthe way in this important follow-up to The Ozempic Weight-Loss Craze, sharing the less talked about reasons for... more

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Are women expected to put on a happy VOICE? Kristen Meinzer and Jolenta Greenberg from How to Be Fine (formerly... more

Who gets to be a ballerina and why? Erika Lantz, host of The Turning: Room of Mirrors, details the rigid... more

Can toxic relationships be a form of addiction? Codependency is complex, controversial and often ascribed to women. Writer Nina Renata... more

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What happens when someone who built their career on being Indigenous turns out to be ... a white lady? Writer... more

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Welcome to a new era of 'miracle' weight-loss drugs, starring Ozempic. In this Patreon bonus episode, Cristen gets to the... more

What's a daughter to do when her estranged mom won't stop asking for money? Financial abuse expert Axton Betz-Hamilton untangles... more

Can real feminists eat cheese? Vegan geographer Catherine Oliver maps out why most vegans are women and the masculinity of... more

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Today, I’m sharing a preview of a new podcast I’m enjoying and think you will, too. On Come As You... more

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The Christian right has become synonymous with anti-abortion, but what about the Christian left? Reverend Angela Tyler-Williams takes Cristen to... more

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We’re sharing a special episode from another podcast, A Slight Change of Plans, from Pushkin Industries. In this preview, civil rights... more

Can friendship survive the vaccine divide? Is entering a male-dominated industry setting yourself up to fail and/or become the "Mom"... more

Cristen dips her toe into wikiFeet and FeetFinder on a quest to figure out why foot fetishes and feet pics... more

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What attracts women to conspiracy theories? TikTok misinformation researcher Abbie Richards debunks the tinfoil hat stereotype and explains the rise... more

The pod’s officially back, and Cristen’s officially fallen down the conspiracy theory rabbit hole. For research! From the "grand dame... more

Hey unladies! Cristen is back with a LOT of Unladylike questions to answer, gender baggage to check and dumpster fires... more

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**support local abortion clinics and funds via Keep Our Clinics and/or Abortion Care Network**   For 125+ more Extra Unladylike episodes:... more

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