207 episodes

This podcast is about the practice of Couples Therapy. Many of the episodes are interviews with leaders in the field of Relationships. The show is meant to help Therapists and Coaches learn how to help people to deepen their connection, but in the process it explores what is most needed for each of us to love, heal, and grow. Each week Shane Birkel interviews an expert in the field of Couples Therapy to explore all about the world of relationships and how to be an amazing therapist.

The Couples Therapist Couch Shane Birkel

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    • 4.3 • 225 Ratings

This podcast is about the practice of Couples Therapy. Many of the episodes are interviews with leaders in the field of Relationships. The show is meant to help Therapists and Coaches learn how to help people to deepen their connection, but in the process it explores what is most needed for each of us to love, heal, and grow. Each week Shane Birkel interviews an expert in the field of Couples Therapy to explore all about the world of relationships and how to be an amazing therapist.

    207: Stay or Go? With Sharon Pope

    207: Stay or Go? With Sharon Pope

    Get the Couples Therapy 101 course: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/
    Join the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new
    In this episode, Shane talks with Sharon Pope about all things divorce. Sharon is a Marriage & Relationship Coach and several-time Bestselling Author on love and relationships, including “Stay or Go?” Hear how to approach divorce, where people get stuck, how women and men differ in divorce, how therapists can guide people towards a decision, and why divorce should always be an option.
    To learn more about Sharon, visit SharonPope.com
    Check out “Stay or Go?” at StayOrGoBook.com

    • 47 min
    206: Sex and Perfectionism with Tom Murray

    206: Sex and Perfectionism with Tom Murray

    Get the Couples Therapy 101 course: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/
    Join the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new
    In this episode, Shane talks with Tom Murray about the intersection of perfectionism and intimacy. Tom is a Sex and Relationship Expert who’s the Author of “Making Nice with Naughty” and a Co-Host of the Making Nice with Naughty podcast. Hear how to predict a couple’s quality of sex life, how anxiety and adrenaline come into play in the bedroom, how therapists can help with sex and relationship issues, the difference between closeness and vulnerability, and the reality of monogamy.
    To learn more about Tom and check out his book, visit MakingNiceWithNaughty.com
    For Tom’s clinical practice, visit APathToWellness.com

    • 46 min
    205: Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Trauma with Leanne Campbell

    205: Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Trauma with Leanne Campbell

    Learn more about the Couples Therapy 101 course: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/
    Learn more about the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new
    In this episode, Shane talks with Leanne Campbell about all things Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and trauma. Leanne is a Speaker, Writer, and EFT Trainer who co-authored the book “A Primer for Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT)” with Sue Johnson. Hear the benefits of EFT, why isolation is traumatizing, how to gather information before diving into experiences, the CARE model to focus on in initial sessions, and how to be careful when working with trauma.
    To learn more about Leanne and check out her books, visit DrLeanneCampbell.com
    Check out Leanne’s previous episode on The Couples Therapist Couch: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/blog/079-eft-and-attachment-injuries-with-leanne-campbell-and-david-fairweather

    • 43 min
    204: Stepfamily Relationships with Patricia Papernow, Part 2

    204: Stepfamily Relationships with Patricia Papernow, Part 2

    Learn more about the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new
    In this episode, Shane continues his talk with Patricia Papernow for Part 2 of a 2-part interview on stepfamily relationships. Patricia is widely recognized as one of the world’s foremost experts on “blended families” and received the 2023 award for Distinguished Contribution to Family Therapy from the American Family Therapy Academy. Hear the benefits of authoritative parenting, how to maintain discipline, why it’s important to talk through things as a couple, the reality of parent-child attachment, and the impact of gray divorce.
    To learn more about Patricia, visit StepfamilyRelationships.com
    Check out Patricia’s books at StepfamilyRelationships.com/Books

    • 53 min
    203: Stepfamily Relationships with Patricia Papernow, Part 1

    203: Stepfamily Relationships with Patricia Papernow, Part 1

    Learn more about the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new
    In this episode, Shane talks with Patricia Papernow for Part 1 of a 2-part interview on stepfamily relationships. Patricia is widely recognized as one of the world’s foremost experts on “blended families” and received the 2023 award for Distinguished Contribution to Family Therapy from the American Family Therapy Academy. Hear why stepfamilies are a fundamentally different structure, how to have a healthy relationship with your stepfamily, the impact on the children, her 5 major challenges for stepfamilies, and how to navigate disciplining children.
    To learn more about Patricia, visit StepfamilyRelationships.com
    Check out Patricia’s books at StepfamilyRelationships.com/Books

    • 46 min
    202: Psychedelics and Relationships with Guy Winch

    202: Psychedelics and Relationships with Guy Winch

    Learn more about the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new
    In this episode, Shane talks with Guy Winch about psychedelics, relationships, and mental health. Guy is a Psychologist, Speaker, and Author who’s a leading advocate for integrating the science of emotional health into our daily lives. Hear why society doesn’t address mental health as much as physical health, how couples can evaluate and improve their relationships, how long it takes to recover from a divorce or break-up, how psychedelics can help in recovery, and how accepted psychedelics are today.
    To learn more about Guy, visit GuyWinch.com
    Check out Guy’s latest book, “Emotional First Aid”
    Check out Guy’s podcast, “Dear Therapists”
    To learn more about ketamine therapy, visit Mindbloom.com

    • 44 min

Customer Reviews

4.3 out of 5
225 Ratings

225 Ratings

klsteph12 ,

EFT interviews

Really enjoy the emotionally focused therapy interviews!

Max Branding ,

Dynamite show

Shane’s the best of the best when it comes to couples therapy, and his show brings endless insight every week. Love tuning in

H. Hake ,

Great resource

I have been in the field for over 30 years. I appreciate how this podcast offered so many learning opportunities for me by listening to all the guests, books mentioned, and joining their facebook group. I find the host, Shane Birkel extremely giving, open and humble. I can’t thank enough for his courage to have taken the journey.

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