Each month, Sara and Jay explore topics in sex health, relationships, queer identities, BDSM, kink, sex work, and more. This podcast is... more
Sara and Jay are back this week to finish our discussion of justice-centered sex education! This week we discuss moral... more
This week, Sara and Jay talk about the difference between "trans-inclusive" sex ed and building sex ed based on a... more
Join Jay and Sara as we explore the innies and outies of genital torture play (sometimes called CBT). We'll talk... more
Sara and Jay jump into the first topic discussion of Season 2, how to navigate sex and dysphoria as a... more
Season 2 kicks off with a question episode catching up on your emails to us over the break! We discuss... more
This week, Jay and Sara spend some time talking about the general changes people can expect when starting testosterone or... more
Jay and Sara answer more questions from you, the listeners! Questions include bondage for disabled folks, lower sex drive on... more
Sara and Jay spend this week's episode discussing the legal and political movement to outlaw abortion in the United States,... more
This week Jay and Sara give tips on doing kink play in free and cheap ways! Also discussed: Pervertables, classism... more
This week Sara and Jay are talking about online dating, hooking up, consent communication online, and the culture of dick... more
This is the culmination of our four-part series on transgender medicine, focused on what a trans liberation future really looks... more
This week Jay and Sara dig down into "biological sex" and break down why it's a problem, how it's more... more
This week Sara and Jay begin their series about everything anal! This show covers the basics of butt anatomy, ass... more
Jay and Sara continue their discussion of trans medicine by focusing on current barriers to care caused by our medical... more
Sara and Jay discuss the recently finalized trans military ban, including how we must address the impact of that on... more
Jay and Sara share some of the deep and complicated history of transgender medicine to discuss how physical differences become... more
This week Sara and Jay discuss different types of sensory deprivation play, including how to do it, what tools to... more
Happy 2019! The wait is over and we're back to answer your listener questions about sex, family, queerness, fat allyship,... more
This is an audio version of Sara's Medium article titled Protecting Transgender People Is Not A Political Choice. Read along here: https://medium.com/@QSE/protecting-transgender-people-is-not-a-political-choice-c5c2187f3773... more
Sara and Jay discuss news stories that you may have missed this year. We also discuss stories to keep tracking... more
Sara and Jay celebrate a new year by looking back at their favorite moments, best sex toys, top kink memories,... more
This week Sara and Jay talk about topping and bottoming fisting! Also discussed: defining edge play, how to safely explore... more
Sara and Jay talk about switching during kink play this week! Learn about why we talk about dom and top... more
This episode of QSE was recorded live at CU Boulder! Jay and Sara discuss defining sex and why that's so... more
Sara and Jay talk about everything impact play this week! Learn about safe words, different kinds of impact play, things... more
Sara reads her most recent article about voter suppression for Medium.com. Please vote if you can in the US on... more
Sara and Jay are talking about voting, voter suppression, and gerrymandering this week. If you're wondering why a sex ed... more
Jay and Sara are answering your questions this week! Thank you to everyone who was vulnerable and asked us to... more
Sara and Jay are BACK and this time we're talking about boundaries, rules, agreements, and how you can figure out... more
Sara is back with another clip episode while the show is on a quick hiatus. This week we have clips... more
Sara edited together some of her favorite moments about communication from past QSE episodes while she is healing from surgery.... more
QSE is on a short hiatus while Sara recovers from surgery, so we wanted to share this episode of Sara's... more
Sara is back to read another article she recently published on Medium. This one is about how Nazis came to... more
Sara and Jay dive deep into heteronormativity, including how the assumption that everyone is straight shapes our world and what... more
This week Sara and Jay tackle how we can make sex toys that are marketed to able bodied cis men... more
Jay and Sara continue their 101 series, this time to discuss sex toys! How do you find safe sex toys?... more
Sara and Jay finish their discussion from last week with how modern laws, policies, and structures continue to fuel queer... more
Sara and Jay cover a brief overview of ways that colonialist states have used police, incarceration, and state violence to... more
Sara and Jay sit down with Chris Barcelos, a researcher studying queer sexuality, teenage pregnancy, and health messaging. We discuss... more
This week we talked about a few different topics that have been in community conversation lately, but part of a... more
Sara and Jay dive into a deep discussion of femme as an identity, expression, and way of being in the... more
Sara and Jay are back from a mini-break to answer your questions! Thank you to everyone who sent in a... more
JAY IS HERE! We will be recording episodes in person to release over the next few weeks, but in the... more
This is the second part of our conversation about sex ed! This week Jay and Sara discuss what it means... more
Sara and Jay reflect on their first year of the Queer Sex Ed Podcast in addition to talking about the... more
Sara delivered this presentation at the Gender Infinity Conference in Houston just a few days after leaving her job to... more
Jay and Sara discuss the broad spectrum of reproductive justice work as well as contraception, abortion, adoption, foster care, and... more
This week Jay and Sara talk about Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) including a discussion of the word "risk", tips on... more
Sara and Jay answer your questions on this week's show! Topics include: speaking at universities, consent to have difficult conversations,... more
This week Sara and Jay discuss different types of conflict that happen in relationships, share communication skills for more effective... more
Jay and Sara discuss the broad spectrum of reproductive justice work as well as contraception, abortion, adoption, foster care, and ART (assisted... more