500 episodes
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick
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4.7 • 817 Ratings
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Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much from dating apps? Do we even want to find love anymore? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the New York Times, HuffPost, and Oprah Daily call one of the top podcasts about dating, love, and relationships. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do. Together we'll navigate modern dating with more compassion, fun, and intention so you can create the love life you've always wanted!
Join us every Wednesday as we talk to real daters and experts about the entire gamut of modern dating and relationships – from securing your anxious attachment, choosing the right partner for you, healing from your breakup to dating in your 30s and beyond. Make sure to send us your burning dating questions as we answer them every Sunday!
If you're looking for a podcast that's relatable and full of emotional support and substance, then look no further. Let us be your biggest cheerleaders as you navigate dating in this crazy Dateable world.
Send us your brunchtalk questions at hello@dateablepodcast.com or leave your question in a review!
Follow us @dateablepodcast on IG and join the private 'Big Dateable Energy Facebook group. Check out our website for more content and join our Finding Your Person Program!: https://www.findingyourperson.com/
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S18E4: The Truth About Relationships
It's time to celebrate y'all....because it's our 500th episode!!! And for this special occasion we're getting raw and real about relationships and what we've learned going from confused daters to being in committed long-term partnerships. We're discussing how even the healthiest of relationships can be triggering, the types of things that are completely normal in a relationship (that don't always seem so), and why it's important to normalize both the benefits and challenges that comes with having another human by your side.
Related Episodes:
How To Have A Healthy Relationship w/ Connor Beaton & Vienna Pharaon
She Loves Me, She Loves Me Not (our first ever episode, look how much we've grown!!!)
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
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#brunchtalk: When Your Date Forgets Your Name
What do you do when you're on a great date....and your date calls you the complete wrong name? Is this a total dealbreaker or a funny story you can laugh about later? Join us for this week's brunch talk as we debate how big of a deal this is (we have differing opinions here!), ways you can come back from this mistake if you want to, and why modern dating is set up to make situations like this bound to happen.
Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Our Meeting People IRL Masterclass is now OPEN!! Join here and use our discount code DATEABLE for Dateable listeners: https://www.findingyourperson.com/meeting-people-irl-masterclass
Our Sponsors:
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Quickie w/ Julie: My Biggest Fear – Even In A Happy, Healthy Relationship
We're dropping another quickie as Julie reflects on her biggest fear that was triggered by last week's episode 'Are Long-Term Relationships For Everyone?' Find out why this apprehension still creeps in even in her current relationship and how she could relate to Ryan's ex from her experience in the past. If you've been in a situation where it felt like someone pulled the rug out from under you saying they couldn't be in a relationship anymore, then this episode is for you.
Related Episodes:
S18E12: Are Long-Term Relationships For Everyone? w/ Ryan Van Duzer
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Our Meeting People IRL Masterclass is now OPEN!! Join here and use our discount code DATEABLE for Dateable listeners: https://www.findingyourperson.com/meeting-people-irl-masterclass
Our Sponsors:
* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/
* Badlands Ranch Dog Food: Go to badlandsranch.com/dateable to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee.
* Blueland Cleaning Supplies: Get 15% off your oder at https://blueland.com/DATEABLE
* Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style
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* Done: Turn ADHD into your strength with mental health care made easy: https://get.donefirst.com/podcast or use the code PODCAST
* Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch Pets.
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S18E13: Dating Intentionally w/ Talia Koren
We've all heard the latest buzzword to "date intentionally" but what does this even mean? And how can it help you? We're chatting with Talia Koren about putting it all into practice and how she went from newbie dater to engaged in less than 2 years. We're discussing the types of shifts to your dating behavior that can bring more alignment to what you're looking for, how you can be intentional at all stages within dating and a relationship, and the #1 challenge that comes from dating intentionally – and how to solve it.
Follow the Talia @dating.intentionally and check out her podcast 'Dating Intentionally' wherever you listen to podcasts.
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Our Meeting People IRL Masterclass is now OPEN!! Join here and use our discount code DATEABLE for Dateable listeners: https://www.findingyourperson.com/meeting-people-irl-masterclass
Our Sponsors:
* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/
* Badlands Ranch Dog Food: Go to badlandsranch.com/dateable to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee.
* Blueland Cleaning Supplies: Get 15% off your oder at https://blueland.com/DATEABLE
* Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style
* Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE
* Done: Turn ADHD into your strength with mental health care made easy: https://get.donefirst.com/podcast or use the code PODCAST
* Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch Pets.
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#brunchtalk: How Do You Get Over Being Friend Zoned?
What happens when you finally get the courage to confess your feelings....and then they just don't feel the same? It can be so difficult –regardless of your gender or sexuality – to have to see this person out and about who rejected you. We're discussing the time needed to break away from the situation, how to know if eventually regaining a friendship is in the cards, and ways you can move forward and meet someone who returns the feelings for you.
Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Our Meeting People IRL Masterclass is now OPEN!! Join here and use our discount code DATEABLE for Dateable listeners: https://www.findingyourperson.com/meeting-people-irl-masterclass
Our Sponsors:
* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/
* Badlands Ranch Dog Food: Go to badlandsranch.com/dateable to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee.
* Blueland Cleaning Supplies: Get 15% off your oder at https://blueland.com/DATEABLE
* Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style
* Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE
* Done: Turn ADHD into your strength with mental health care made easy: https://get.donefirst.com/podcast or use the code PODCAST
* Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch Pets.
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Quickie w/ Yue: What I Learned 1-Year Post-Breakup
It's been one-year from that fateful day when Yue learned her partner of 5 years had been unfaithful. Join us for a heartfelt quickie as Yue shares what she's learned in the last year about love, relationships, and persevering through it all – to a happier and more fulfilled place than she ever imagined she'd be. This is an emotional one, but also certainly uplifting for anyone else struggling with heartbreak. Because you're never alone in what you're going through.
Related Episodes:
The Next Chapter Post Breakup
The Other Woman
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Our Meeting People IRL Masterclass is now OPEN!! Join here and use our discount code DATEABLE for Dateable listeners: https://www.findingyourperson.com/meeting-people-irl-masterclass
Our Sponsors:
* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/
* Badlands Ranch Dog Food: Go to badlandsranch.com/dateable to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee.
* Blueland Cleaning Supplies: Get 15% off your oder at https://blueland.com/DATEABLE
* Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style
* Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE
* Done: Turn ADHD into your strength with mental health care made easy: https://get.donefirst.com/podcast or use the code PODCAST
* Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch Pets.
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations
Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Customer Reviews
Love the show! -question for brunch talk
I’ve been sleeping with someone on/off for 15 years. It’s always good and uncomplicated and I enjoy this person and the time we spend very much. Recently I’ve been seeing more political posts from them and we absolutely are on opposite sides of the spectrum. Now I’m very turned off especially when they post on topics of women’s rights etc. How can I and/or should I overlook this? Because…hell…because I want to get laid! Thank you ladies so much.
Love these girls!
I am in a relationship, but have found that I can relate to the topics. Most of the topics very relatable, or at least entertaining. It’s time to start doing tours girls! SOMEONE PLEASE TEACH JULIE HOW TO SAY EXACTLY! This is literally one of the most annoying things I’ve ever heard.
Great show!!!
As a slutty, polyamorous gay man, I did not think two straight women would have anything to tell me about dating, but this show has given me a lot to think about as I’ve made some changes in my approach to dating over the last year and has been one of several things that’s helped me get to a much better place!! They cover a really diverse range of topics that have helped me recognize some of the patterns that were not serving me.
They stay pretty true to the accurate but often overwhelming idea that being authentically yourself and approaching others with curiosity, vulnerability, and empathy is the real way to find your person or people, while also bringing in practical advice that makes that huge undertaking feel more manageable, and they do it in a way that explores a vast diversity of ways that we desire to love and be loved!!